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is it worth it?
the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(
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this guy is a total waste of time. he's not worth it.
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How old are u first of all? Drop it in my box Nicky
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In my opinion, this guy is a jerk. I wouldn't go out with him if thats what he said. I'd say no way! But that's just me. Stay cool!
~Cayd
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fuck him
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No dont, hes using u and it aint worth it, u can find someone that respects u, plus u should wait till marriage for sex
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It's not worth it the guy sounds like a jerk and any guy who would make you have sex just so you could date him is most likely not worth losing your virginity to
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don't do anything that you think you will regret. But from what you said he will only go out with you if you have sex with him first. I wouldn't he's using you so stay away from him
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Sweetie Sweetie Sweetie...do you really have to think about it?! Its an obvious answer. He's a pig and he needs to be put in his place. There are plenty of other guys out there that are 100 times better than this guy. Don't even think about sinking to his level. He's not worth your time and definitley not worth your virginity. Stay strong babe! *Melissa*
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dont do it its not worth it cuz if u do he probly b like hahqahah im not goin out w. u u loser or sumthin wait tell ur ready
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Dont have sex with him if hes just gonna use you like that. You want your first time to be with someone special. It's not worth it. Hope this helped. Goodluck :)xOx
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He obviously just wants some if hes only going to go out with you if you have sex.. Thats a big no no- stand up for your morals babe and do whats right!
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I don't think it would be the best idea to go out with that guy if he only wants you for that reason. There's lots of guys out there who would love you for you. I hope you make a good decision, and good luck! :)
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it isn't worth it don't do he will probably just use u for sex then leave u sry but i gotta b honest cuz what guy would say that we would go out wit u only if u had sex wit him first he is soooo usin u sry *STEPHANIE*
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No!!! NO NO NO NO NO. Do NOT fall for this. This guy is a jerk, and only using you for sex. Please do not fall for this. It is not worth it. How respectable can he be if he says "I'll only go out with you if you have sex with me"? You need somebody who likes you for YOU. He obviously wants to see if you'll have sex with him because he wants to have sex with you all the time. He doesn't want his time to be wasted with a girl who won't have sex with him. And YOU don't need your time wasted by a jerk. Find a guy who respects you. Because YOU deserve it.
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Honestly,iif the onlii way he`ll go out w* hiim iis iif you have sex w* hiim hes DEFINATELY not worth iit.
hope ii helped
xO*--
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That is not worth it at all... you do not want to be with someone who just wants you for sex.. and from the sounds of it.. That's all he wants. Stay a virgin until you know your ready to be with someone like that..
Hope I helped!
~*Jackie~*
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ok that guy is soooo not worth your time grl! mooove on that guys just a big perve who wants to get some frm you cuz ur a virgin! DO NOT give it up to someone like that!
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pleeze! dont waist your virginity on some guy at school. wen you find the right guy that your going to marry, then do want you want. im not trying to sound like a health teacher but that should wait.
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Dont do it
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i think its pretty Obvious : HELL NO
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srry hun but it aint worth it i can tell this guy iz a playa nd he only wantz to get wid u for sex if he realli likd u he wudnt force u into nethin so just forgt bout hym nd move on
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Honestly, if I guy wants you to have sex before you go out with him, he's using you. After you have sex with him once, he'll probably want it all the time. A guy like that is so not worth having sex with and he's gunna be taking you virginty away. You should save that for someone you really love and he loves you back. Don't go for this jerk, there's a lot of other guys out there.
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NO. A guy isnt worth loosing your virginity to. Say to him that he a f***ing perv and get away from him, hes a loser for even asking that. you can find someone MUCH better.
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NO,NO,NO! IF you do this, you will regret it!Why would anyone put a person in this position? You are worth a lot more than this! LOSE YOUR INTEREST IN HIM INSTEAD OF YOUR VIRGINITY TO HIM!
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don't even bother. any guy who pressures you to do something you don't want to do is definitly NOT worth it! besides, what if you did have sex with him and then he broke up with you the next week? Then you'd regret it n that's not kewl. so don't even bother with him because he's not worth your time
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OMG!! NOOOOOO! He's *DEFINITELY NOT* woRth a SINLGE SECOND of youR time!!! Do youRself a favoR and stay the hell away fRom that loseR!! Ugh, why would you even like someone like that??? He's obviously a digusting jeRk who's only in it foR the sex and has nothing good to eveR offeR you!!! Put him in the past.. FAR IN THE PAST and move on!!!!
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He iz juss usin u so dont give into his lil plan ok u r to good for him if the only reason he will go out wid u iz if u have sex wid him your virginity iz a very special thing and u dont wanna juss lose it to sum stupid guy u wanna be in a relationship first and feel comfortable about it not presured into it u kno wat im sayin hun but like i sed he iz prolly juss usin u so take my advice and dont do it he iz juss sum stupid guy lookin for a piece of ass u kno and iz really not worth losin sumthin liek your virginity ova him im sure u could do a lot betta then sum a-hole so juss do wat u think iz the best thing but im sure u could meet sum 1 a lot betta then him and be in a relationship b4 u go and have sex!!! Hope i Helped and if u dont take my advice juss be safe n if u have n emore questions drop 1 in my inbox
Caitlin* <3
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It's not worth it, don't waste your time on it.
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Theres no way he's worth it, if thats the only way he'll go out with you then he's using you and doesnt care. So dont do it..
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he jus wants ass!. He'll jus use you.And then probably nver talk to you again. so i wouldnt do it
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Don't do anything before your comfortable with it. If you dont wanna have sex, don't. If you do, go for it. This guy is a loser for even pressuring you into having sex with him. A guy like that is not even worth your time. I'd say, move on and find someone else whos actually worth your time.
xoxo
ali
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i dunt think u should even b intersted in this guy.. hellooo totalllll perv.. the only way hell b with u is sex.. helllo u should ahve relized it was a totally ASS BUST.. he wants it.. n most likely hes gunna have sex with u n then just ditch u.. im serious dunt do it.. when u find the boy u want to loose ur virinigty too he wont b pressuring u to do things.. hell b happy just to have you... dunt do it... i kno what ur going threw ive have this thing happ to me b 4
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Girl, it's just a guy, they come and go and if you do have sex with him, he will definately go and move to the next girl because once he's gotten what he wants, then he moves on. You are a virgin, stay that way until you get married, don't you want it to be special?
Hope I helped
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Um.... personally YEA RIGHT!! i think you are crazy if you give it up to him. He prolly just wants sex in the relationship then anyways. and not just that but you shouldnt give it up to a guy your not even with (especially when its your first time). If he goes out with you and you are together for a good time then maybe but dont blow it on 'just some guy' that you like now. I really dont think that its worth it. ;)If you wanna talk im here anytime!
`mAgZ
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umm... NO! forget him! that is so disrespectful. he probably just wants to get in your pants and then not eevn go out with you. he wants to use him. dont disrespect yourself like that. you are not that desperate. lose it to someone who you care about not a fuckin ass.
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its quite obvious that this guy only wants you for sex. yeah, he sounds like a fuckin asshole. first of all, if that dude said that shit to me, i would literally punch him in the fuckin lip. secondly, i believe that you should keep your legs closed up until you find the right guy who loves you for who you are and not for having a hole between your legs. this guy is definitely not worth it baby girl. find some one who will appreciate you for who you are
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you shouldnt have sex with him because if your stll a virgin you should think about who you want to lose your virginity too...you should just tell this kid how you feel about that nd if he realli wants to hook up with you he wouldnt care about sex..but if he doesnt realli lyk you then hes just lookin for a piece of ass...hope i helped you
Love always tina
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it seems to me like he just wants one thing..and after he gets it he'll most likely forget about it all..if he cant except u for who u are then he isnt worth yur time..i think u should try and find someone else and forget this boy..g0od luck :]
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Well if he's saying to have sex with him, then he's just using you, there are way better guys out there for you that won't just want to take your virginity, just try and find another guy, this guy really isnt worth the time or the hassle..
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Dont bother with this guy! If he just wants sex, he will do one of 2 things...
1). after he has sex with you, he wont want a relationship.
OR...
2). He will go out with you but the whole relationship will just be about sex..
So dont both wit him, Hope this helped =D
-Chris
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He's not worth it. Just be patient and you will find someone that will love and respect you. But this guy definitely isn't it.
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NO don't not unless u want to become a un virgin
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i think that yooh should forget him cause it seems like all he wants is sex nd if your not ready then dont but if yooh want i say go ahead why not .. but it seems like thats all he wants .. so yooh kno .. be carefu;l .. i hope i help .. [ .megan . ] im me if yooh needd to
[ LyL qT x LonLy ]
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Here is what you should do:
Kick the living crap out of that bag of scum.
The guy isn't worth ANYTHING let alone your virginity. He doesn't care about you and I doubt if he'll go out with you after you've had sex with him. He is going to use you. Do you want to be used? I would hope not. Tell this guy that you are not some cheap whore and there are plenty of guys who are willing to actually respect you AND love you.
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Please don't. He just wants a piece of ass. Sorry, but it's the truth. All he wants is sex, and he'll be over you as soon as he gets what he wants.
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This guy is a user and a jerk. Don't even bother with him- he'll probably dump you right after you have sex. You deserve way better than that. Good luck!
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definatly not. He is definatley using you..if that is all he wants out of the relationship..he's not worth it at all, find someone else who likes u for ur personality.
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No.. u hold on to ur virginity! you don't give it away like that! 4get tha guy he's a jurk!
-Rate meh-
Hope I helped & God Bless!
Candi <3
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Definitely don't fall for that. This guy is not very nice if he told you that and even though you like him it sounds like he's only after you for the sex. I wouldn't do it and know it wouldn't be worth it in the long run. I hope this helps!
Crystal
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No this guy is an A$$hole if thats what he wants b4 u guys go out he is most definitly not worth it..
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Gurl dont do it!! hes just gonna use u!! try 2 get over this guy because in the end hes just gonna make you cry!! I hope everythin goes well!! anythin else just ask!! ill b happy 2 help u. x0x
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hey..hell no girl.i mean dont make him force u into anything u dont wanna do..okay anythin else drop it in my inbox.xoxojay
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its not worth it if hes gunna have sex with you first, dont do it, he wouldnt go out with you after probably, believe me, its ALMOST happened to me.. you'll find someone *BETTER*
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Dont even give in.. guys like that arent worth it..
KYLE
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omg girl! no it aint worth it! he obviously only wants sex..because duh..you usually go out, fall in love, then have sex..don't do it! find sum1 else--he's in it for all the wrong reasons!
xo`lexi
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its not worth it. move on, thats just wrong for him to persure you like that. infact he sounds like a jerk for saying that. i wouldn't give a boy the time a day after he said that to me. but thats just me . . .
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Two words:Fuck no. What else does he have to say to make it obvious that he's using you? Please have some sense babe.
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Oh my god! Hun, its definately not worth it! No matter how much you like him, I'm sorry, if he acctually has the balls to say that5 to you, he's using you. Loosing your virginity to someone your not even in love with, or not even going out with shouldn't be because you have to in order to be with him. No guy should do that to you, and your better then that, don't let him take advantage of you.
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Of course not! Even though you're interested in him, keep in mind the fact that he's not interested in you. He's only interested in sex. It's not worth it. Don't waste your first time with someone who doesn't love you.
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