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This guy at a bar keeps bothering me
Posted Monday September 1 2025, 11:45 pm
So I am 36 year old and this 84 year old guy at this bar I go to keeps buying me after said no I am good and then he gave money to the bartender after I said no to buy me a drink. I just don't know how don't know how to tell him I am just not interested. Thin he kissed me on the cheek.
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What happened here with my gamer friends?
Posted Monday July 28 2025, 9:31 pm
Hi everyone,
I hope this doesn’t come off as too long and far out there— I’ve been going back and forth about whether to post this, but I could really use advice how to deal with this. For some perspective, I am single woman, early 20's.
Back during Covid, I became gamer buddies with a married couple — let’s call them Jim and Joan (I learned later they were in their early 50's). They were in a clan I joined, and they were one of the few people that treated me like a person rather than "oh yea, WTF is a girl doing here playing this game". I ended up bonding with them, and given the rough patch I was having dealing with issues with my mom, honestly I kinda looked up to them as a "pseudo-mother/...
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Am I wrong for wanting to own my mistake?
Posted Thursday May 29 2025, 11:13 am
I (24f) have been charged with a felony offense. For the sake of protecting my identity and not jeopardizing my plea deal, I'd prefer to not say what I did exactly. I will say it was a criminal negligence type of offense and that my actions caused real harm to others.
I'm currently being offered a plea deal which will involve being sentenced to eighteen months in prison. I've decided to take the deal, despite my lawyer's insistence that we could potentially beat the case at trial. Maybe he could get me off, I'm not sure. But I just don't feel like that would be right. I know I'm guilty and feel like I should accept my punishment.
I recently told my parents about my decision and they seem to think I'm out of my ...
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I am wanting to move out !
Posted Friday May 16 2025, 11:41 am
I am a 36 year old female and wanting to move out , but my mom has lied to me all my life saying since she is my payee I have to live with her , but I called social security to confirm and they I don't I can move out and leave her as my payee , so I called my sister she said she would talk to her about letting me move, my sister explained to her even though that I have mental health issues I am still considered a legal adult and need to be given a chance to try to move out on my own and given some independence . The problem is she found my birth certificate and name change paperwork, but refuses to look for my social security card, so had to call so security and make an appointment to get new one and she also refuses to look for my bank sta...
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How do I handle this?
Posted Wednesday April 9 2025, 3:41 pm
So I am in a friend with benefits situation with my ex ,but I would like to start dating other people again and I am not sure how to handle the situation because I would still like to just friends and with my ex but without the sex .I just don't know if I need to have a conversation with my ex before I start dating again or do I need to wait until I am on a relationship with someone?
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Friends with multiple ex's!
Posted Sunday March 2 2025, 11:33 am
So I am a 35 year old female and this is kind of complicated but here it goes. So I am friends with one my ex's right now but we are truly just friends we are not in a romantic relationship at all we just hang out. The this things I started talking to my other ex again a couple of days ago we are going to meet up to see if we can start dating again. My question is Do I need to tell both of them about each other ? If I do when and how soon ? I just don't want to cause any drama or hurt feelings. But I don't want to mention it to soon either.
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What is my next step?
Posted Thursday February 20 2025, 7:46 am
ok umm 25 f. So I dont know exactly where I am going with this but I am just gonna vent and hopefully you can provide me with so advice. But first I want to just express thanks to Dragonflymagic. I have written here before (as a teenager) and you always give well written detailed advice. I am so grateful for that. Currently, I am in another country . I have always dreamt of leaving my country and just living in different countries for a bit. So I was so happy in 2023 when I finally did it. However, the job that I got was not good. I got really depressed to the point that I was always crying and I couldnt pin point the exact reason. At work I would go to the restroom and just cry. I took pills to sleep and just slept for an entire day.Event...
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Relative financially abusing mother with dementia POA
Posted Tuesday February 18 2025, 2:46 am
My mother's step sister is financially abusing her by getting a POA and removing large amounts of money from my mothers bank account. She lied and applied for a restraining order against me and dropped it when I showed up to court. I think she believed I wouldn't show up. What can I do?
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Tired of being disrespected
Posted Tuesday January 14 2025, 10:03 pm
My son just turned 20 and even before he turned this age he's been disrespecting me and his 16 yr old sister and 8 yr old brother, I'm so tired of the negativity and him being hateful and mean non stop. He has ADHD but claims the reason he's a jerk is because of his anger supposedly stemming from his ADHD. I'm over the pain and hurt from him, I don't know what else to do, he has a job and brings in some money but doesn't drive yet because of his own preferences..I really need some help and some suggestions. Thanks
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My boyfriend says it up to me!
Posted Monday January 13 2025, 5:22 pm
So I go t back with my ex in December 22nd and it's now January 13th . We were together the last time for a year. This time not even a month and we are already having issues. The problem is I am starting to fall back in love with again, but he plainly said he doesn't feel the same way when I told him my feelings. He say he appreciates the way I feel about him but he doesn't feel the same way about me , but he also said it's up to me if I wanted to continue the relationship? Why is he wanting to continue the relationship if he doesn't feel the same way about me as I do him? We are not in a sexual relationship yet . If that helps.
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The only "open door" and the bridge too far too gap
Posted Saturday December 21 2024, 1:31 pm
I’m reaching out for advice because I’m at a critical crossroads in my life, and I would value insight and spiritual wisdom.
My academic journey has been anything but smooth so far. I’ve only completed one semester of college as a 2023 high school graduate so far and I wish that wasn’t the case but I feel that it’s been out of my hands. I was recently unable to continue my studies at my university due to financial challenges, and now I’m faced with figuring out my potential next steps. And no one knows it. I spent my past 2 months lying to my family about everything, they think I’m enrolled and doing swell. I don’t tell them anything because they can’t help me or even give me wise counsel. They are low or no...
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I got invited over to my Aunt's house for Christmas Dinner!
Posted Wednesday December 18 2024, 5:52 pm
My Aunt that I haven't been over to house since my dad died when I was 12 invited me for Christmas dinner this year . I met up with her before hand at local restaurant because I haven't seen her all much either since I was 12 unless I was at at store like Walmart or something. I am now 35 years old . We just started talking on the phone again about a month ago and I do feel like I want build a relationship with my Aunt and Uncle again. My Aunt told me my Uncle is 74;and has Cancer. I just don't understand why they waited all these years to start trying to start talking to me again 20 plus years later. Also what would be a good dish to bring.
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I am still in love him and I don't know what to do !
Posted Saturday November 2 2024, 8:51 pm
I really don't know know wear to begin but heart is broken . I was dating this guy that had fallen in love with for 6 months. I wanted to marry him Things seemed to be going great. We never fought or anything. I gave him my virginity. I didn't notice anything was wrong and the one day I started getting concerned. I haven't heard from in about 3 days so I decided to check his fb and then realized he changed his fb status from in a relationship to single without even telling me he was even thinking about ending the relationship. I had just had a hysterectomy the week before he broke up with me . I ended up going to the psychiatric hospital because of all this. Then he sends a reply the text that sent him a few days before asking what I did wr...
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Finding a new counselor!
Posted Friday October 25 2024, 5:16 pm
So here it goes I was at the doctor's office yesterday seeing my therapist and she tells me she's leaving and starting her business as certified counselor and hands me a flier to her business that's not all she did she asked me if I wanted to schedule an appointment with her at her practice without thing I said yes because I really do like her . The problem is when I home I saw red flags that I didn't notice before like she wouldn't give me the address of her business she said she didn't want to disclose that information right now and she would calle regarding that info. Is it legal to ask for clients while working for another company on their time? I also had just got out of the psychiatric hospital if that helps any the week before.
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Why do people in relationships stray
Posted Wednesday September 4 2024, 7:50 am
I've been with man almost 5 years and in the last almost 2 years he's been talking to other women and calling them beautiful, but gives me barely any attention...yet I work, cook, clean and take care of my 2 kids...I don't wanna leave him but I've brought it to his attention and all he says is they messaged me...yeah ok they did, doesn't mean you need to respond! Oh but he does. So unless something changes I will be leaving him sooner than he thinks.
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Is it right to tease my BF so much?
Posted Wednesday July 17 2024, 5:01 pm
My BF and I are both 15. We are both part of the same church and youth group and we took pledges not to have sex before marriage. We are lucky we have an easy time talking deep and honest with each other about our feelings including how we crave each other sexually. We kiss and cuddle but we keep to the boundaries we decided on. Even then he has to have breaks to calm down when we make out and cuddle because he gets so horny. To be honest it is fun to see how desperate I can make him. He says I am evil but we laugh and he never tells me to stop. It is harder for him because he had a history of turning to porn and masturbating and he is doing this self improvement thing where he is goes for weeks not touching so he is not tempted on th...
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Should I ask for what I want?
Posted Monday July 15 2024, 7:49 pm
I wrote about this situation already. The advice I received was good and I agreed then now I feel different again. It was about a guy 10 years older than me( this doesn't bother me) who lives in another country. I am 25 but as said before I was going to move to his country then I met him online and changed my mind since I am religious and he isn't. I don't want to be unevenly yoked because I already see the problems that this will cause. For instance, I want my husband and kids to serve together. My feelings for this guy though are strong. Texting is not as special for me to write this but via video call the chemistry is crazy. Yesterday, I recorded it and looked back and it was like those videos you see in a movie. He is the type of guy th...
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What does the saying mean "You're.playing around with people's money"?
Posted Thursday July 4 2024, 2:42 pm
What does it mean to play around with someone's money?
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Is a 15 year old too young to visit her mom who will be in jail for 6 month
Posted Monday June 24 2024, 1:01 am
The charge is a check fraud charge and it is a six month sentence. My daughter she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. I told her mom did the wrong thing and is rightfully serving her punishment. They have a good relationship. The main problem I have is she will see her mom in a jail jumpsuit and see guards and other inmates that could be intimidating. Is that ok for a 15 year old to see? Actually my daughter does not seem scared but instead seems excited and enthusiastic to visit. This is strange to me. Do you find this normal? My daughter seems to find the idea of her mom having to wearing a uniform, sharing a room funny. I wonder why she would think it is funny. My wife says bring h...
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Am I crazy irrational here?
Posted Monday June 10 2024, 6:42 am
I will keep this short. I broke up with my bf of 3 years because his life was on pause and he was making no steps to move forwards, no commitments to himself or our relationship and everything felt like it was just hit a wall.
The agreement was that we still loved each other but he agreed he needed to fix his life before we could be together. I told him he could do whatever he wanted, and he reassured me all he wanted was to be with me and make it work. He had a lot of distraction, adhd and other issues related to mental health that he had been avoiding working on for years and I finally said I couldn’t do it anymore unless he got help. He promised he would work hard to get us back on track that he only wanted to be with m...
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