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Am I wrong for wanting to own my mistake?
Posted Thursday May 29 2025, 11:13 am
I (24f) have been charged with a felony offense. For the sake of protecting my identity and not jeopardizing my plea deal, I'd prefer to not say what I did exactly. I will say it was a criminal negligence type of offense and that my actions caused real harm to others.
I'm currently being offered a plea deal which will involve being sentenced to eighteen months in prison. I've decided to take the deal, despite my lawyer's insistence that we could potentially beat the case at trial. Maybe he could get me off, I'm not sure. But I just don't feel like that would be right. I know I'm guilty and feel like I should accept my punishment.
I recently told my parents about my decision and they seem to think I'm out of my ...
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What is my next step?
Posted Thursday February 20 2025, 7:46 am
ok umm 25 f. So I dont know exactly where I am going with this but I am just gonna vent and hopefully you can provide me with so advice. But first I want to just express thanks to Dragonflymagic. I have written here before (as a teenager) and you always give well written detailed advice. I am so grateful for that. Currently, I am in another country . I have always dreamt of leaving my country and just living in different countries for a bit. So I was so happy in 2023 when I finally did it. However, the job that I got was not good. I got really depressed to the point that I was always crying and I couldnt pin point the exact reason. At work I would go to the restroom and just cry. I took pills to sleep and just slept for an entire day.Event...
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Girls and pool jets
Posted Friday November 3 2023, 7:46 pm
Hi my name Is Ashlyn and im 16 my question is why do pool jets feels so good on girls??
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My Future
Posted Tuesday August 8 2023, 5:07 am
My dad wants me to be a doctor but I want to become something else (engineer). And I don't know how to make him see that
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Is it weird that my roommate and I share a bed?
Posted Tuesday June 6 2023, 6:08 pm
My roommate (f/20) and I (f/20) moved out of the dorms late last year and into an apartment. Because rent around here is really steep, we were only able to afford a one-bedroom apartment. We initially planned to get a couple of twin beds for our shared bedroom but, in the interest of saving more money, we decided to get one queen bed, which we both share.
At first, we worried this might be a mistake, but it's actually worked out really well. Every night, it seems like we lie in bed chatting about anything and everything for at least a half-hour before finally drifting off to sleep. It's kind of like being a kid again and getting to have a sleep over every night. Plus, knowing we're gonna be sharing a bed at night encourages u...
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i dont know what the best option is
Posted Wednesday June 29 2022, 2:21 pm
So for background, I’m Latina, and usually, when one turns 15 you get a quinceañera. I’ve always wanted this since I was a kid but now there’s a problem when calling the hotel for reservations the day I wanted isn’t available so maybe the one a week later is (it’s not) so now I have to choose the 10th. Which is the only day available but I don’t want to do it that day since it’s a few days before my birthday and it just feels weird to do it before but if I don’t pick this day I won’t get anything at all. And I don’t know what to choose.
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Desperately seeking cofounder participants in FoolQuest.com
Posted Wednesday June 22 2022, 7:48 am
How do I get any traction? I get almost no response. I seek first of all to ignite and then to sustain ongoing public discussion online of my project proposal. Know more at: http://www.FoolQuest.com
Where can I get the help and advice that I need? Both Elder Wisdom Circle and SCORE have outright turned me down.
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About a mistake i did to my younger cousin.
Posted Thursday May 5 2022, 1:21 pm
I am a 15 year old girl. I am confused on whether its my fault if i sexually assaulted my younger girl cousin but i have my reasons. My reason is because i was 10 back then and knew so little about sex that when my older brother cousin (he was 13 or 14 at that time) sexually harassed me and it made me think that touching others was normal. I feel really guilty and i did say sorry to my younger cousin but it still troubles me greatly. Is it really my fault?
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I'm going to jail
Posted Thursday December 30 2021, 8:44 pm
Last summer, I (F/20) decided to go solo camping on some abandoned farmland just outside the city limits. There was a burn ban in effect, but I chose to make a campfire anyway. Long story short, it grew out of control and spread onto a neighboring farm, severely damaging a barn and the equipment inside it.
I was charged with reckless burning (a felony), pled guilty, and have been sentenced to nine months in the county jail. The judge was gracious enough to give me two weeks to get my affairs in order before I self-surrender. I now have ten days left.
I definitely played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. I wish more than anything that I could go back and stop that night from ever happening. But I know that's...
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I'm a good person with a big heart. All through my life I've been talked to
Posted Thursday June 3 2021, 6:22 pm
I'm a good person with a big heart, a free spirit and I'm beautiful but never thought so in the past.. I've had an inferiority complex most of my life. I'm very independent, a trend setter and never acted my age. All throughout my life I've been spoken to and/or treated mean and I'm a sensitive, cry at the drop of a pin girl. Why do people do that?
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what should we do if there nothing in your mind?
Posted Thursday May 13 2021, 9:17 am
what should we do if there nothing in your mind?
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Legally Married or not?
Posted Sunday April 18 2021, 1:01 pm
I need to know if my marriage is binding. My hubby used his non-legal Ca Drivers license to show proof of ID when we got married in 1997. When I tried getting a copy of our marriage certificate there wasn't any. Under both our names, there isn't any work tax or driving records under my hubby's non-legal biological name only under his adoptive last name. The judge took that from him for his 6th felony DUI and so got a new license, which after DMV finally figured it out after 26 yrs suspended that as well
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unsupportive friends
Posted Sunday February 7 2021, 3:28 pm
Gosh, being bi is so confusing and it tears me apart thinking about it, my friends, a lot of them are homophobic. It sucks to know that even if I ever gather up the courage to come out, I’ll be alone. I don’t want to be involved w/homophobic people because I’m literally bi and also, i have a moral compass. But I’m too scared to be alone without them. Especially hazel, she’s the closest to me but because of “her religion” (in her words) she’s one of those “I dOn’T aGrEe wItH thE lIfeStylE” but it’s so complicated. Is it just religion? Is that even a justifiable reason? But it fricking sucks knowing my closest friends of 4 yrs would leave me just because I like girls (and boys).... I guess in the end, my question is as simple as, what should I do?
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Can I get unemployment benefits if I quit because hours reduced & hostility
Posted Thursday January 28 2021, 8:03 am
I quit my job because my hours were reduced and the environment was extremely hostile. When I called in to apply for benefits, they told me that I was eligible because my hours were reduced. My employer responded back with lies that got me disqualified. I filed an appeal.
I feel like I am qualified because I would work my butt off only to be sent home after 30 minutes, wasting my gas. My clients loved me working for them, but my supervisor would create drama, lie and send me home. It started affecting me emotionally and I already have anxiety so I quit.
The supervisor would also tell my clients that I’m on drugs, I will steal from them and that she didn’t like African Americans.
She also told the c...
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My friend moving!
Posted Monday January 25 2021, 8:57 pm
So my best friend is moving to a new house and it's not optional, I really need some advice because there are only two house options that she can choose from in our town and she doesn´t want to move to one of the houses that she can choose from! Of the other house she likes cancels, she´ll have to move to a house beside a barn. The poor girl is traumatized and I really need some help! I need this advice before February 1st and I also need this because if she moves, I´ll lose MY only best friend! I NEED this advice for her! Please help!
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Fear of death
Posted Thursday December 31 2020, 2:43 pm
I am terrified of dying. I don't believe in after life or second Life. I think we only have one life. Whenever I think about it I think one life is way too short. I know it's stupid but I keep hoping there will be some invention which will make us live much much longer. I am 22 and am so lucky that I have not experienced of death of anyone near me but I am scared of it so much. Specially my parents I know it's inevitable but it terrifies me. I have to go out of my way to keep busy to avoid thinking about it cause whenever I do my heart starts racing really fast, my chest starts to feel heavy like something heavy is weighing me down and my thoughts start racing and I can't stop it. Is there any way to ease this fear"
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Do you have to be on a job for a year to qualify for an apartment?
Posted Wednesday December 2 2020, 10:13 pm
Do some apartments accept people if they haven't been on a job for a year?
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This is so humiliating to admit...
Posted Sunday November 22 2020, 9:38 am
I'm a 16 year old girl and last night I wet the bed. Who the fuck still wets the bed when they're in high school??!?? Me, apparently. And this isn't the first time, it's the second. The first time was last month. Fortunately, no one knows about this (and hopefully it'll stay that way). But I know something must be wrong for this to be happening. I don't know what though. I'm not losing bladder control when I'm awake. It's only when I'm asleep. So what does that mean? Help!!!!
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FoolQuest.com: Failing to initiate a specific ongoing conversation
Posted Wednesday October 28 2020, 9:48 am
I struggle at cofounder recruitment for my project proposal as detailed on my personal website FoolQuest.com Now as I see it, the modest first step would simply be to initiate ongoing conversation regarding my proposal which I have named: 'Creativity can and Should be Social' And yet I fait to garner response. How can I find mentorship or guidance in my perpetually stalled and failed outreach, even in so modest a first step? I have tried and failed in any place that I could find out about. Please help! This is crucially important to me. No flaming, please.
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I'm think I disconnected with my family with friends ex-significant others
Posted Friday September 18 2020, 2:00 pm
The most basic issue that I can put the bring it to is all I wanted to do today was not talk to anybody I copped to every day I shut my phone off I held out for almost 13 Hours and then I turned it back on I haven't talked to anybody yet but I keep wanting to I need to space myself out from everybody I think because my everything in my life is messed up and getting worse by the day and I don't know where to start anymore. I was driving home last night and my car pulls toward left & it veried to shoulder a bit and I felt the rumble strips underneath and then I just pictured my car driving straight off into the into the field and I had to feeling my stomach like I just went on a rollercoaster I think it might have been relieved. I know ...
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