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reconect yes or no
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 12:35 pm
Don't know where to start but here goes 4 years ago my family disowend me because I maid certin choices I would say wrong choices but a choice that was best for me and my life .I'm 39 years old and my family always tried to control my life wouldn't let me live mine .I met this woman who I fell in love with and we decided to live together and we have been together for 6 years going strong but of course mt father doesn't aprove of her he cals it shacking up .I have 3 older sisters that do the same thing [shacking up] but my father hasnd disowend them but now my oldest sister has been looking for me and don't know what I should do. I know I don't want the drama because I. Know if I do call she would go straight to my father and then they will ...
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should i go to laughlin with my parents...
Posted Tuesday July 27 2010, 1:51 am
My parents invited me to go with them this weekend to laughlin, as a thank you for watching there dogs when they go out of town. But I don't want to be a third wheel. They have already stated that there are things other than gambling there to do. But I know my parents, and they like to gamble.
Any advice will be greatfully excepted.
Thanks;
Confused
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I have the babybug
Posted Monday July 26 2010, 11:07 pm
when i was 15, i had the babybug. it was almost aching, i wanted to have a baby so bad. it lasted for about 4 months and then disappeared for a while. now i'm 17 and its back, but its much worse. i have a boyfriend and we're active. we use protection sometimes, but most of the time we don't. everytime we dont, i have this instant spark of hope that maybe this might be the time that i finally get pregnant. i know, i'm young. i'm almost in my senior year of highschool and i know it'd completely ruin my life if i had a kid now, but i don't care at all. i'd be a great mother. i'm at the point right now where i don't even want to live anymore unless i have something to live for, and in this case, that something would be a baby. i keep having urg...
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My dad is a cheater, we have no relationship.
Posted Monday July 26 2010, 9:37 pm
Im 18, going to college in a month. My brother is already away at college, my parents have been married for 25 years. i know my dad is cheating. I have told my brother, but i havent told my mom because there is a very strong sense in me that my dad will kill himself or hurt himself if someone were to find out.. which happened to my best friends dad. It doesnt matter what other people say, in my head im 150% that it'd happen. because i know hes cheating and have to watch him lie to me and my mom every day, i have no trust from him. Our relationship was great before, we were with together every day. now, were never together unless its a family function, and we dont even talk. i know hes lying to me, and everytime he does i wanna snap on him a...
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Father daughter quote
Posted Saturday July 24 2010, 10:35 pm
Me and my parents have been through A LOT over the years, and they are letting me get a tattoo for my 16th birthday in september. Since my mom is pregnant and wants to wait until she loses the weight to get a tatto, I'm getting one with my father. I'm looking for a good quote to get as a tattoo, probably on my right shoulder. If you have mother or father quotes, or both, it'd be great! Thanks! (I'm also already looking online!)
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My mom never listens to me.
Posted Saturday July 24 2010, 12:02 am
I'm 18 years old and my never listens to my opinions, thoughts, wants. I turned 18 recently and I said I absolutely did not did not did not want a birthday party. Since I hang out with a lot of different groups of people, my friends do not know eachother. There was a total of 5 people there. My friend only invited the people she knows I talk to. The one girl I barely even talk to anymore. It wasn't really even a party because only two people got me gifts. It was just lame. Also, I've been wanting a dog and my mom agreed to it. I really wanted a yorkie, but my mom insisted on a Maltese. My mom is annoying and whines and pouts till she gets her way. What do I do????!
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Do we visit family with violent teen?
Posted Thursday July 22 2010, 6:15 pm
Several months ago our 14 year old nephew threatened to kill his 12 year old sister. He was sent to a mental hospital for 2 weeks of mental evaluations. He has been diagnosed with a slew of mental disorders and is on the edge. To keep his sister safe he has been living with his grandparents who have voiced concern for their safety. This is my husbands parents and he wants us to go visit them this August. We have two daughters 13 and 5. I have voiced concern to him that I don't want to put our girls in danger and that I don't want to go. He says he's been talking to his parents and they say our nephew is getting better, but I still don't want to take any chances. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings, but this could turn out badly if...
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I like my stepbrother... Awkward when hes around.
Posted Tuesday July 20 2010, 10:54 pm
my parents are divorced and my mom got remarried. my step dad has 2 step sons and every since i first met the youngest one, i liked him alot. then when my mom and step dad got married i didnt stop liking him but i knew that nothing could happen between us so i tried to forget about it. but we are really close we have a good bond and all then he told me he liked me and i didnt know what to do!! it is so confusing! i told him it would be awkward but i still dont wanna push him away to where he wont talk to me. please help!!
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I feel so guilty.
Posted Tuesday July 20 2010, 2:19 pm
I'm 18, and I just graduated high school six months ago. This past weekend we had my graduation party. After the party I went to my aunts house to hang out with her and her husband, and my other aunt, and their friend. He's 32. I had a few drinks and they asked me to drive their friend home. Well he was drunk, and I was a little buzzed, but we left the house and decided to crash a party across the street. We had a drink there, but the party was pretty boring so we decided to go to a different party. Well he suggested we have a few drinks at his place so I wouldn't risk getting in trouble with the police. So he and I were sitting at his place drinking and one thing led to another and we had sex. I'm feeling so guilty because he's my aunt's f...
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What can i do to make things bettter for myself?
Posted Monday July 19 2010, 1:39 pm
Noone in my family gaets me. I thought that visiting my cousin for some wweeks before school would be good for my head. I still feel depressed and my cousin dosen't help at all. She is constantly making things worse then it already is. What can i do to make things bettter for myself?
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black sheep...
Posted Monday July 19 2010, 3:15 am
this question is for parents on AdCens...
i am in my mid 20s/f.... i've been through hell with my family...
i've witnessed things happen to people my parents and siblings over short and long periods of time: injustice, wrongful incarceration, rape, violence, threats, mental breakdowns (anorexia, bipolar, ADD, depression, suicidal bouts...etc) I've witnessed lying, hate, love, breakups and makeups, humiliation, hostility, prosperity and bankruptcy, deaths and births.... i moved countries so many times i don't know what home is...
if i were superstitious i would have believed that my family is cursed.... but i am not... it's just the nature of my parents jobs and the "high maintenance" backgrounds they ...
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Iam scared to tell my mom and iam 21!
Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 12:16 pm
I had sex with my ex when we was still together of course and iam considering to tell my mom that her little girl is no longer a virgin but i don't know how to break the news to her even though iam 21 years old i still live with my mom and my mom treats me like iam still 12. what should I do?
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Caught with porn website
Posted Friday July 16 2010, 1:40 am
Alright, so i was messing around with an application on my i pod touch that allowed me to view websites through my computer. i had a porn website on my i pod, my parents walked to tell me goodnight in so i closed the app. Then because the app closed, the porn website popes up full screen on my computer. the whole time it was up my back was to the monitor and i told my parents goodnight. now i feel sick and i just want to die.
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umm.... i love my family so much n i am great ful to have them
Posted Thursday July 15 2010, 10:50 am
i just want my family to know how much i love them i am greatful to have my mom cuz shes been there for me my whole life n my dad he hasn't always been there but i know he is right there by my side leading me on n i am lucky to have my sisters because i know i can rely on them to always be there when i need them so can you make a poem that can explain all that
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I don't like my curfew!
Posted Wednesday July 14 2010, 11:33 pm
Okay, so i'm 15 years old, going to level 1. This is my summer vacation, and my mother tells me my curfew is 11!!! That really bothers me because throughout the school year, my curfew on weekends was 12... I really feel like im being mistreated here, but she will not reason with me. I hate my curfew, and it's embarrassing when all of my friends can be in at 12 and 1..but i'm home at 11.
I've tried to explain to her sooo many times that all of my friends can stay out later than me, she just says it's only an hour!
What can i do to change this? I would really appreciate any advise, thanks!
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Need to break away from my adult sibling and move out after 12 years.
Posted Tuesday July 13 2010, 7:15 am
I am 36 years old Female and I have been living with my 34 year old sister for 12 years. Neither of us have ever had a boyfriend and I feel that we hold each other back. I have been feeling trapped and I don't feel that I could move out because it would really upset her and I don't want her to hate me for leaving or feel abandoned. But I really need to leave or else I think I never will. My leaving would not only hurt her but also my parents and other sibling ( who lives with us when she is in school). How should I tell them? I keep things to myself so this will be a total shock to them. I'm scared.... Help! Our lease is up in September. (FYI)
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dream that dad touched me
Posted Tuesday July 13 2010, 5:12 am
I had a dream that my dad touched me and almost raped me. My boyfriend and mom were also in the dream and they didn't do anything to help, they even dressed me up for it. I'm just wondering what this could meannn. Please helpp.
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I have cancer and my brother hurts and makes fun of me?
Posted Monday July 12 2010, 12:15 am
Hey everyone. im evan and im 15. i have melanoma skin cancer and my 17 year old brother makes fun of me all the time. he physically hurts me (punches me in the chest and in the junk) and calls me names like "mole" or "cancer boy." hes always trying to put me down or hurt me in some way. we've never gotten along but since my diagnosis its only gotten worse.
This is also kind of a seperate question but some of my friends treat me different like its some contagious disease that they can catch if they get to close to me. What can i do to get them to treat me like they used to?
And most importantly what can i do to get my brother to knock it off and treat me with respect? I tell my parents but th...
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step-dad is a jackass
Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 12:42 am
ok my stepdad is a personal jackass! i mean really! My mom loves him..dont know why. But my brother and I hate him ,more me. I mean his way his way or no way! Like I had my music on and cause hes going to be he said to turn it down, it was so quiet! I could barely hear it! SO i said no, and whats he do without knocking hes rams in my room and tells me to turn it down! Ok what if i were changing or some. And when your mad He makes fun of you, and that just gets u pissed! His family is sweet and awesome but him NOT WHAT SO EVER! What do you think i should do :(
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I dont understand my parents
Posted Saturday July 10 2010, 3:34 pm
I love my parents to death but there are times where i really dont get them. like my cellphone has been broken for months and i can't get a new one. instead i got a hideous hand-me-down. im just tired of them both being so money savvy! like for once can't they just splurge and go wild? its always so structured and they never just break out and go "lets get some ice cream!". they're not spontaneous at all, and i am a very spontaneous person and it drives me crazy when we fall into a simple, boring schedule.
i have a really hard time with questions too, and they ask WAY too many questions all the time. it drives me crazy, and ive tried to ask them to be more layed back and ask LESS questions but it never works. it fe...
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