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Cousin "following" boyfriend.
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 2:43 pm
I have no idea what is the best way to approach the situation.
My cousin, I don't really know her well and we're like distant cousins.
My boyfriend, best friend, I know him very well.
So my cousin and boyfriend go to the same college, stay in the same dorm building. They've met before, but do not talk to one another.
One night my boyfriend goes to a party and texts me and tells me cousin is there. I'm like oh cool. Then he says she kept staring at him and was following him. He isn't the type to confront a female about weird things. I was thinking that was SO weird. She texted me and said she saw him there. Ok, cool. So another night my boyfriend goes out and she's there. Again she's follo...
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What kind of a friend is this??
Posted Saturday November 14 2009, 7:45 am
So...the same girl as i said before (the one who took my homework and gave it to someone else) well..today..she started talking about the guy who likes her and stuff..then..she said "wait i'll tell you later" after sometime...(hour or so) i asked again for her to continue...then shes like "wait!" (really angry face) then....later when she was free like totally free..i asked her ..then she says "why do you care? this is my personal problems" this really hurt me. she was the one who started the convo about the guy who likes her. i couldn't help but show her that i was mad at her...and ignored her for half of the day. and..when she was talking to me..i ignored her. but before we went home, i talked to her. tomorro...
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my niece kicked me in the chest.
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 9:49 pm
my 8 year old niece kicked me in the chest 4 TIMES while she had her tennis shoes on becouse I popped her 6 year old brother on the hand becouse he told me that he hated after I had just got through telling him that I loved him I usually tell him that every day so my mom took me to the hospital to make sure everything was alright and the doctor said that my chest was badly bruised and that my blood pressure was over 140 over 95 and then after that he asked me if I wanted to press chatges of course I said no I mean it's my niece for crying out loud she probally wouldn't even know what was going on we told her we needed time to think up a good punishment for does anybody have any ideas it's to late to spank her we should have spanked her righ...
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my sister may have cancer
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 6:55 pm
my sister went to the hospital last night becouse her back and her stomack was hurting her really badly and the doctor at the hospital said that she had cists on both of her overies and that they could be cancer and I don't know what to do iam really worried some thoughts of encourgement or advice would be helpful if you have any it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you I greatly appreciate it.
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confused
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 7:09 pm
16/f
why do i find it so hard to talk to my parents about problems going on in my life as far as friends and relationships go? im really close to them and tell them alot! but for some reason i just dont like to tell them anytihng about my social life. i want to but for some reason i feel ashamed to talk to them about this.
also my mood has been changing alot latley. im tired, less motivated in school, and im fighting with friends a lot more often. and now im growing apart from one of my best friends, i feel abandoned. help i really dont know whats going on with me! this isnt like me at all!! im changing into some one i dont even know or like!!
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things are weird with my mom
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 6:17 pm
a few days my mom came home early and walked in on me and one of my friends making out the friend was a chick and needless to say my mom freaked out and now things are just weird between us she barly looks me in the eyes and when i do try and talk to her she ignores me me and were very close and i just want things to go back to normal and be able to talk to her about the way i feel how do i do that?
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How to re-gain parents trust!
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 10:38 pm
Okay well a few weeks ago I snuck out. And I got caught, and punished. About a week after, I snuck out again, and got caught and punished. I had my parents convinced that I wasn't like that, and that I wanted to change. But a couple nights ago, I snuck out.. and got caught. I am being badly punished now.. and I don't even think my parents like me now. I have no idea what to do, I need their trust! please help..
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my brother is smoking weed what do i do?
Posted Tuesday November 10 2009, 12:52 am
I am sorry to say that I have just found out that my brother is smoking weed! What do I do?
I am afraid that he will end up like his loser dopehead friends. :(
What can I do to help him? Anything? If I go to our parents they will probably kick him out if he won't stop it. I don't want him to hate me, but I want him to have a future and you know if he keeps doing this his future is gone.
Help? Anyone?
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Move out.
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 10:34 pm
16/f
about to turn 17 in 14 days.
I'm aware of what being "emancipated" is and I understands the circumstances of it, but I'm in a stressfull situation where I really am dying to move out of my house. My parents and I do not get along & what I mean by this is we disagree on everything & are always arguying about the littlest things. Now I know what your thinking..why not try talking to them ? Or get counceling? Well trust me I've tried . I know me being my age is going to make it difficult for me to be able to find rent anywhere else but I refuse to be here any longer & I really am looking for some positive outside advice..I'm not looking to fix things between me and my parents I simply just want ...
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My dad is being gross!
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 7:19 am
I'm constantly catching my dad staring at my tits or watching me as I bend over to put a new bag in the bin and looking at me inappropriate.
It is so gross and and is creeping the shit outa me.
What the hell do I do??
HELP!
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My bestfriend's dad hits her.
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 11:31 pm
This girl has been my bestfriend for 2 years and I found out about 2 months ago that her dad abuses her. We're both 15. I'm a freshman, she's a sophomore. I have been through a lot, but I can't seem to help her with this. She refuses to tell anyone-adult or one of those hotlines-because she thinks they'll send her dad away, which will ruin her family. She's told her other 4 siblings, they don't believe her because he doesn't do it to them. She says they only believe what they see but she doesn't want them to see. How can I help her!!?
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my mom caught me masterbating...how do I handle this?
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 11:27 pm
last night i was in my room after school and I started to masterbate. I don't masturbate too often so I guess I didn't think about locking my door. Well, my mom walked in on me! She left pretty quickly but I don't want to just leave it at that. At dinner she was pretty quiet and didn't seem too happy. I know I should say something to her, right? What do I say? Or do I just let this blow over?
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How to deal with Messy Sister?
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 4:11 pm
My sister is 18 years old. I'm 22 years old and recently moved back with my family after college.
She is ruining our lives. We live in a small apartment (It's me, her, my mom, and my brother). Everyday she creates a mess. There are clothes everywhere. She saves trash for some odd reason, which has caused a rat to come inside. I went into our closet and found rat poo everywhere because she had saved old food in there. She was supposed to go to college, but she lied about getting a scholarship there. They wanted us to pay $5,000, which we couldn't afford because we didn't know. We really want her to leave. I'm doubtful she will go to college. She steals stuff from me and my mother. I have things my friends gave me that she des...
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my mom hardly loves me anymore
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 2:18 am
my mom tends to focus her attention on my brother
who is a 2nd year univ student but still acts like a kid
its always been like that, and its bothering me more and more.
my mom and ive always been really close
and ive done whatever i could to try to make her as happy as possible because she's just been through so much
im always looking out for her needs;
simply cus i love her to death
its just that she seems to not notice any of the things i do for her but instead lets her anger out on me all the time.
if she's in a bad mood, she would let it out on me
and never my brother who doesn't even acknowledges us as his family anymore
if my brothe...
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helpless
Posted Monday November 2 2009, 10:29 pm
so just to give u a background, im 16, girl, 2 parents, both doctors, an older sister and 2 little sisters. my paretns are both really strcit and anoyying and unreasonable. they always punish me and stuff for the stupidest reasons and i cant do anythnig about it. fighting bac does nothing becauswe they dont care what i have to say. and they would nebver think their wrong. and i cant rebel or anything because thel just punish me more. so basily they own me and i have to listen to all of their ridiculous ideas and theirs nothing i can do. i cant live like this. i need help. advice? words of wisdom? just anything to getme throught this....
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Ruining everything?
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 10:05 pm
So in april i met my current man, hes black im white. and my dad jus happens to be racist. my mom knows about my boyfriend and i know she would like him if she met him..my dad jus doesnt open up to anything really and one day when i tell him or he finds out its going to tear the family apart. We already dont talk, and he knows i dont like him. The only reason i stay here is for my mom, plus im underage. I am in love with my boyfriend and there isnt really anything i can do at this point. i feel lost. Help?
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My dads affair
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 3:56 pm
Im a17 year old guy living in South Africa and my dads having an affair. Most nights he sneeks out and when I look out the window I see him going to the womans house ( she lives practically across the street). The thing is this woman is a family friend to my family and my parents work with her plus to top it all off she's a teacher at my school! My dad doesnt know that I know about the affair. What should I do?! This is really tearing of apart and some advice will be greatly appreciated.
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Advice on religion and family.
Posted Friday October 30 2009, 11:39 pm
Hello there! Recently i have gone to a famous chat advice website here where i live and this is how it went (bear with me);
Anna : My parents are hardcore christians and i grew up in this family. We came from ukraine when i was 6 years old and since then i havent changed one bit.
Anna : My mother..she wants me to go to church every sunday
Anna : and does not allow me to get earrings, get my hair done, etc.
Anna : Now the problem i have is
Anna : I had to grow up really early
Anna : I am only 17 now and i feel like im 23 inside and i just want to be myself
Anna : but i dont want to hurt my mother
Anna : and ive tried to talk to her
Anna : about it<...
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Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 9:55 pm
ok im 16 and a female
on saturday i had a ATV accident i ran straight into a tree and smashed the front end of my parents quad with my neighbour on the back now i feel useless and pathetic i had stitches in my nose and i still have 6 in my leg and i cant walk so im on crutches and i keep getting the impression that their absoloutly pissed about me not being able to help out even though i mostly still do my chores and i think their pised about the quad but they keep saying it doesnt matter that im lucky and they arent mad at all.. are they mad or what im so confused andi dont know what to think...Please help...
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parent problems
Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 7:53 am
so its gttin near winter now and it get dark quite early and i like to go out wiht my friends but my parents always say i hae to be in at 5 when my friends are aloud out later nut my parents dont like me in the dark an i carnt see why. has anyone got any ideas on how i could convince them to let me saty out later. and by the way im not one of then teenagers who gets drunk an does stupid thigs like that and my parents no that i think
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