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My boyfriend says it up to me!
So I go t back with my ex in December 22nd and it's now January 13th . We were together the last time for a year. This time not even a month and we are already having issues. The problem is I am starting to fall back in love with again, but he plainly said he doesn't feel the same way when I told him my feelings. He say he appreciates the way I feel about him but he doesn't feel the same way about me , but he also said it's up to me if I wanted to continue the relationship? Why is he wanting to continue the relationship if he doesn't feel the same way about me as I do him? We are not in a sexual relationship yet . If that helps.
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You mention a lot but your only question was why hes willing to continue relationship if he doesn't feel in love? Thanks for adding that its non sexual since that is usually the most common reason, free sex for the guy as long as the gal is willing to give it.
So I have heard of one other reason enveloping a few areas, and that is of seeing a woman as a substitute mother/maid. This may be for free meal prep, or house keeping, providing financially to situation or just that friendly listening ear always available and ready to boost your emotions when you have a crappy day. Just think of the different roles of a Mom and that should explain it. If non of that applys, then perhaps he just wants the company so he's not lonely until he does find the woman he falls in love with and at that time, you will be dropped quickly like a hot rock.
Do not think that if one of two people feel love, that the two are meant to be together for life as a couple either significant other or married. If two people meet and you feel something for the guy, the guy will be doing his best to find time to call and spend lots of time together to see if he continues to feel something for the woman. Remember the excitement you felt when you got the toy you wanted for Birthday or Christmas but over time, that excitement dissipated because that toy couldn't hold your interest over time? I remember clearly a toy or two where that happened to me. Its happens to all of us, even when adult and dating. A person can feel exciting when two people first meet, but over time, that feeling of excitement and adoration just go away for one or both people. If for only one, it leaves the other person who still has feelings being pretty confused about what is going on.
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