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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!

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=( This has been really bugging me; I really like this guy. I've only known him for 2 weeks, and talked to him a few times, but I can't stop thinking about him. He's such a great guy, and I'm happy for any girl who gets him. But I can't get him off my head.

What's wrong with me? :(

yOUR just crushing on him most likely...there's nothing wrong with you! lol need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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when a girl has sex for the first time and she bleeds, does it go everywhere? or just like in a small area or what? im really confuesed.

I was told that you only bleed a little but i'm not sure it depends on the girl you know...well i hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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my boyfriend says he would like to go to 2nd base..maybe even 3rd. the problem is..i know people have so many ideas of what the bases are that i don't know exactly what he means. could someone please clear this up for me? also, we have been going out for three and a half months..is it too early for me too go that far with him?

hmmmm... well to answer your first question the bases are 1st-kiss make-out 2nd-touchy feely, fingering, hand job 3rd- head, eating out...and to answer your second question i mean 3 1/2 months is a small amount of time me and my bf didnt go to 3rd base till we had been together for almost a year...but it's your choice wat ever you feel comfortable with...if you wanna then go for it! well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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what do girls like in a guy im 13 m and id like to know what girls like anfd stuff like what are their faveiot features not just on looks but like other things like persanality to

Well all girls have different tastes in guys... i mean i like guys that are tall long-ish shaggy hair kinda skater look...but i mean other girls may like gangsta type guys and stuff like that... but personality that counts like some one whos smart,funni,caring,has a sensitive side,loves you for you...stuff like that well i hope i helped if you need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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Okay, what are some turn ons for girls?
WHat does a girl look for in a guy?
what do they like in a conversation??

thanks lots!
I rate high!

Turns on-nice body,nice eyes,nice lips,tight ass, when guys kiss girls necks stuff like that.
all girls like different kinds of guys some like humorous,smart,nice stuff like that girls like anything in conversation just not like gross stuff unless she likes it when you talk like that! well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE *

When someone is forced to do sexual things with people when they don't want to it's kinda like rape...if your friend knows someone who is being sexualy abused she should tell some one preferabley an adult or the police...need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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On Sunday I'm going to the beach wwith my family and another family who has a 14 year old son. He's a year older than me and he's cute!!! I have these one pieces that i look good in, but i also have some bikinis. The problem with my bikinis is my nipples show through the fabric!!! Yuck!! Should i wear the bikini anyway or go with a one piece?

Like if you mean you can see your actual nipple then go with the one piece but if you can just see when they get hard then wear the bikini theres nothing wrong with having hard nipples!=]
need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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Okay, I know this might sound stupid, but in October, there's a Halloween Dance, and they encourage you to wear costumes. What are some good halloween costumes? I was thinking of being a pink lady, or dorothy, from the wizard of oz. Nothing to drastic, because I go to a catholic school. Thanks

-Fairy
-Fairy princess
-princess
-cheerleader
-angel
-a character from a movie
need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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oh my god, im the one asking all of those period questions. any way, it looks like the blood is coming from my butt. nd its been for 3 days. but i like have all of the period symptoms. so on the pad, where does the blood end up?? towards the back, front, middle, anyting else you want to tell me. ..

It depends...if your sitting prolly the middle same with standing but if your laying on your back its gunna go to the back and if your laying on your stomach then it'll prolly go to the front...maybe to make sure you should try using tampons i TOTALLY perfer them because with pads its like your sitting in your own YICK! you know so0o0o just try tampons they don't hurt just read the directions and do it right (trust me reading the directions makes it so much easier) then if its still funked up then i would talk to your mom if i were you and see if you could go to the doctor to figure out whats wrong! hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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what can you say to someone like someone asked me to talk dirty to them and i didnt know what to say please help how do you talk dirty to a guy?

ill rate

Well it's really when your describing doing things with that person saying like i'm there with you and i'm puttin your_____in my mouth and yea...i shall stop there! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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Ok, Well today i went to the bathroom and i look at my underwear and there was clearish white jelly stuff on my underwear. . what does that mean.

It's discharge it means your prolly gunna get your period soon so be prepaired! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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this isnt really sex but i didnt know what to put it under. anyways i trimed down there and shaved near where the blood comes out (i forget what its called) and now where i shaved has little red bumps. is this bad and how do i get rid of them?

it's just razor burn it will go away on its own just don't itch because it will make it worse...you could try using lotion to make them go away and take breaks inbetween the times you shave only do it if you really have to or want to. hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?

I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental?

No your deffinately not being to judgmental i know people who through that word around like nothing and they just say it just because they're going out with the person and they don't mean it and who is to say that if someone for example: me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years say i love you to eachother-that we don't mean it...when your inlove and love someone you just know. people use "love" the wrong way because they really don't know wat true love is until after they've had their heart broken a couple times. when you find someone you trully love and you say it and mean it then people say that your not inlove or you don't know wat love is then that person can go screw off because they don't know how you feel for someone and just because your young or w/e doesnt mean you can't trully love someone or be inlove! it really gets on my nerves! people through it around when its not true then wonder why people get hurt

Caitlin♥

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My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.

At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help.

you shouldn't let wat other people say get to you your, your own independent person and you have your own look and style your oviously and individual that duznt wanna be another teenage whore, or preppy person or w/e and if people have a problem with you just be like fuck off! if all they do is have time to make fun of you then they oviously dont have much of a life and hun suicide is deff. not the answer to your problems trust me theres people in this world who have been through way more than you prolly have and they've managed to make it through so i'm sure you can. and just because a girl is pretty and popular duznt mean jack shit its personality that counts and dont worry atleast you have some true friends and why would you want to be friends with people who act like assholes all the time and make fun of people to put them down for fun because they have nothing better to do. don't worry you can make more friends maybe they wont be popular or w/e they could be geeky but who cares atleast they'd be true unlike other people dont worry about it just be strong and dont take shit from no one trust me when i was younger i used to get made fun of all the time and i still do sumtimes but i dont let it get to me because i dont care wat people think and if they have a problem with me or have to say something about wat i look like or my clothes or w/e i just ignore them and say fuck off because if you dont need me then i dont need you plain n simple! well sry my answers so long but i hope i helped hun and like i sed stay strong and dont give in to peoples stupid bull shit! need anything ask*

caitlin♥

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okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?

i'll rate high if i get good answers.

Well i would tell those guys to go screw off! its not about the size of your chest its about personality and all that stuff i mean i'm only a 34B and i'm gunna be turning 15 in a month but my boyfriend has NO problem with them he LOVES my boobs the way they are! your chest size will most likely grow if your relatives have big boobs. but dont worry about it if they never grow which im not saying they wont you might meet a guy who doesnt care and likes/loves you for you not the size of your tits! now let me let you in on a lil something i used to wear padded bras all the time but then i stopped because wats the use its like tryna be something your not and ppl would kno if you looked like a B or something in clothes and flat in a bathing suit so i wouldnt recommend wearing padded bra's plus they're not that comfortable and its like your just fake you know and it also shows that your not comfortable with who you are and what you've got and pluss guys don't always like girls with big breasts actually a lotta guys prefer girls with smaller ones! well i hope i helped if you need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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alright well heres my deal, i'm 14/f and my best friend well i LOVE her brother i went out with him secretley but then she found outt and she was pissed..so then we had to break up bcus his parents were always yellin @ him and she wuld always cry about it i dnt see wat the big deal was but anyways we got back together and we got sexually active, agen she found outt and we had to break it off except this time it was BIGG. I still love him and he still lvoes me we arent reallyy dating but together my mom says i can do better but i def. think hes it. wat shuld i do? end the relationship or just go for it and forget about his sister.

If you REALLY love him then forget about his sister and go for it i mean be like if you don't like it then to bad i love him and there's nothing you can do about it! that's what i would do! well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing?

Your worrying for nothing thats one of the uses of tampons so when you go swimming and stuff like that dont worry you'll be fine! need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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when do u start to put in a tampon? how long after your first period, etc. . .

It doesn't matter if you wanna use them then do it, they're way better than wearing pads! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

I'm pretty sure when you turn 18 unless you go on birth control or something is wrong with you! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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ok.. i am 13 and a female. i already got my period like in march. i usually run like 27 days. and i was supposed to get it last week. like. i know if you miss your period that is a symptom of pregnacy. but i have not had sex or anything or like takin pills. like is it normal for my period to be late. like i just got it but that was in march. so i am so confused. and on thursday i am going to hurricane harbour in six flags. i am scared like will i get my period there? or before. i am so nervous. i mean. hurricane harbour is my birhday party. so i do not want to miss it or get it there. i am going to bring like pads and stuff there. but i know i should wear a tampon just in case but my mom says i am to young to use them. but i could. but i am to scared. so. im so confused.

like im not only asking if i could be pregnant but like... im scared.

rissa

Wow you seem pretty clueless no effence but yea... just use them anyways its not like your moms gunna check your vagina ok! so if you get it just use them i didn't like using them when i was younger because i used them incorrectly but make sure you read all directions it helps a lot trust me! well good luck! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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