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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!

advice

when a girl has sex for the first time and she bleeds, does it go everywhere? or just like in a small area or what? im really confuesed.

I was told that you only bleed a little but i'm not sure it depends on the girl you know...well i hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE *

When someone is forced to do sexual things with people when they don't want to it's kinda like rape...if your friend knows someone who is being sexualy abused she should tell some one preferabley an adult or the police...need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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what can you say to someone like someone asked me to talk dirty to them and i didnt know what to say please help how do you talk dirty to a guy?

ill rate

Well it's really when your describing doing things with that person saying like i'm there with you and i'm puttin your_____in my mouth and yea...i shall stop there! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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this isnt really sex but i didnt know what to put it under. anyways i trimed down there and shaved near where the blood comes out (i forget what its called) and now where i shaved has little red bumps. is this bad and how do i get rid of them?

it's just razor burn it will go away on its own just don't itch because it will make it worse...you could try using lotion to make them go away and take breaks inbetween the times you shave only do it if you really have to or want to. hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?

i'll rate high if i get good answers.

Well i would tell those guys to go screw off! its not about the size of your chest its about personality and all that stuff i mean i'm only a 34B and i'm gunna be turning 15 in a month but my boyfriend has NO problem with them he LOVES my boobs the way they are! your chest size will most likely grow if your relatives have big boobs. but dont worry about it if they never grow which im not saying they wont you might meet a guy who doesnt care and likes/loves you for you not the size of your tits! now let me let you in on a lil something i used to wear padded bras all the time but then i stopped because wats the use its like tryna be something your not and ppl would kno if you looked like a B or something in clothes and flat in a bathing suit so i wouldnt recommend wearing padded bra's plus they're not that comfortable and its like your just fake you know and it also shows that your not comfortable with who you are and what you've got and pluss guys don't always like girls with big breasts actually a lotta guys prefer girls with smaller ones! well i hope i helped if you need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

I'm pretty sure when you turn 18 unless you go on birth control or something is wrong with you! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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Alright, my friend (literally) is too afraid to post this so I'm doing it for her. She said her boyfriend has fingered her about a week ago and her period had ended a day before that. She said two days ago when she was going to the bathroom she noticed she was bleeding a little on the toilet paper. Then yesterday she said when she was going to the bathroom it stung a little. She also said she doesn't want anyone to know about what happened between her and her boyfriend so she wants to know if a genecologist can tell. Any advice for my friend guys?

No they can't tell if you've been fingered but they can if your no longer a virgin, but i don't think anything that goes on in the genecologists office leaves it because it's confidential so yea... she doesn't have anything to worry about... hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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1)what are the three bases?
2)what is giving head?

The three bases are
1st-kissing/making out
2nd-touchy feely/fingering/handjob
3rd-head/eating out

head is when you suck a guys dick! plain and simple! need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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OK this is VERY graphic so im sorry :'(
ok today i gave my bf a handjob but it was on top of his pants. I did this 4 times. He told me he had blue balls. What went wrong and i didn't mean to do it. Did i overwork him? whats going on?it was four times! PLEASE DONT DELETE I REALLY NEED HELP!! :( I'll rate all answers 5s except for dumb ones..THANKS!

Maybe from his pants and boxers or w/e rubbing against his dick nd sack mighta made them sore or caused him to get blue balls i prefer to go in the pants its easier maybe after his dick stops hurting you can try doing that...o0o0o yea and i'm being 100% serious to not being mean! well i hope i helped and hope your bf's dick feels better.... need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless

It's just underwear wats the big deal?!!?! so get one n e ways and do your own laundry and hide it in the back of your drawer thats wat i would do! well good luck need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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i think i'm big enough for a size a but i'm scared to ask my mom and i certainly won't ask my dad but i hate feeling like i should have a bigger bra what should i do do i tell my mom or wait till she says something?

Just be like mom i think i should start wearing bra's and i want to so can we go shopping for them! its as easy as that! lol need anything ask*


Caitlin♥

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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait?

Do it when you find that special guy you wanna do it with then go for it but only if your ready and your comfortable doing it...and don't just do it because wat your friends sed to or w/e do it only if you want to...so its your choice and if i knew your age that would make it easier for me to answer cuz i'm 14 almost 15 and i don't plan on waiting to much longer so0o0o yea well get back to me with your age then maybe i can help ya out a lil more if u need anything ask*

♥ Caitlin

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How do I go about giving my boyfriend a handjob? And then how do I do it? Is a condom required? thank you!!

Well just when your fooling around or what-ever go down his pants and just do it i mean its not complicated u just grab it...gentley and go up and down...and no a condom isnt required..! if you need anything else just ask*

♥ Caitlin

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is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate?

Yes its completely normal i mean guys do it all the time so there's nothing wrong with us girls doin it! need anything just ask*

♥ Caitlin

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Ok alot of people i know think that i'm not a virgin ( even my own family). I haven't had sex and so what i know alot about sex. and they think i've given oral too.which i have not.i tell them over and over again but thyey don't belive me. And ruemers are already goin around that i'm a ho. What can i do to make them belive me?

You dont have to make these people believe you, you know that its not true and thats all that matters. You cant let the stuff that people say get to you, you just got to keep your head up high and tell them all to fuck off. You know the truth and if other people dont believe you then oh well they can think what they wanna. Well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*


-Caitlin ♥

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13/f nd i have had my period for a while now but its been a while since i got it and my mother and sister had it twice since my last time and im havent been sexually active since before i started getting my period????wats wrong with me? is it normal?? please help me i rate high♥

Well your period is probably not regualar yet so i wouldnt worry about it if it continues for a while and you are worried about it i would recommend talking to your mom and maybe going to see your doctor. Hope i helped if you need anything just ask*


-Caitlin ♥

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Alright, well I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple weeks now! Well somehow him and my friend got into a conversation about like doing stuff. Not her and him but my bf and me. He said that he was going to do something, like finger me I guess.. at this thing we went to together but he heard that I didn't want it to happen and she said that he should just do it. Well I have never been fingered before and I guess she thought it wasn't a big deal. And usually things for the first time are a big deal! So I don't know what to do.. I am scared of what is going to happen like what should I do and what is it going to be like and like.. yeah I shave I'm just nervous that it'll be maybe prickly or like weirdish down there. Could someone help me out?? :-) thanks!

Well im sure if he wants to do and you feel comfortable he wont care if you are "prickly" down there i mean you cant be perfect and what it feels like... is what you say pleasurable very nice! so dont be nervous if your comfortable with him doing it then let him and if not then tell him so he doesnt rush into things with you! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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Hi i like your site
My bf and i are 16 and we love each other a lot
and we have talked about having sex his penis is not that big its about 3.5 inches long hes a bit insecure about it the size doesn't matter to me i love him but hes a bit shy about it what can i do?
And are there certain positions better for a smaller penis that we could use?






Um..... just tell him you don't love him for his penis you love him for him! and no i dont kno any positions because i'm a virgin and wouldn't kno that so........yea hope i helped if you need anythng else just ask*

-Caitlin

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should i have sex wit my boy friend i am 18 years old should i

Well i mean your 18 years old and if you have been with him for a while and you feel comfortable having sex with him then go right ahead no ones stopping you! well hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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Doe size matter? im 15 and my penis is quite small and im worried what my girlfriend will think
will it matter?

OMG........... No it doesnt matter how big or small your dick is thats not the reason why she is going out with you and i'm sure some one wouldnt dump you because you have a small dick so dont worry about it it will grow sooner or later! hope i helped if you need anything juss ask*

-Caitlin

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