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brother or sister..?
alright well heres my deal, i'm 14/f and my best friend well i LOVE her brother i went out with him secretley but then she found outt and she was pissed..so then we had to break up bcus his parents were always yellin @ him and she wuld always cry about it i dnt see wat the big deal was but anyways we got back together and we got sexually active, agen she found outt and we had to break it off except this time it was BIGG. I still love him and he still lvoes me we arent reallyy dating but together my mom says i can do better but i def. think hes it. wat shuld i do? end the relationship or just go for it and forget about his sister.
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go for it then if you get do it then forget about it!!
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I am going to guess your friend is jealous that you are spending time with her brother more than anything. Maybe you can explain to her that it won't change your relationship as her friend. If that doesn't work then I guess its her loss. Friends shouldn't tell you who to be friends with...even if its a relative of theirs. If you two care that much for each other then go for it. :)
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i think you should go out with him again i mean if you care about him alot you should just do it and forget about his sister because love is love and you cant change your feelings
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Well talk to his sister about it and just see what she says..But if you love this boy dont give up on him..But dont loose a friendsship over it..Just talk to her and tell her how you feel..Hope i helped`
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well your friend is being selfish and if she cant let you do wat makes you happy she isnt a very good friend at all and you should deffinantly follow your heart if she is really your friend she'll let it go...hope i helped
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I dont think you should listen to other people if you really love your best friend's brother then be with him. People should respect how you feel. If you really care about your friend then dont take the chance being with her brother. He maybe hurt your friendship, but try working things out with them. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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If i were you i would try to talk to your best friend first and tell her what you really think and ask why it means so much to her and her family.(but of course try to ask at the right time like when she is really happy) if that still doesnt work then i would say you should choose who you care about most. i hope i helped :-D
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If you REALLY love him then forget about his sister and go for it i mean be like if you don't like it then to bad i love him and there's nothing you can do about it! that's what i would do! well hope i helped need anything ask*
Caitlin♥
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it pretty much all comes down to who do you care about more? i mean being sexually active is a big thing and you seem like you realy like the brother but then again she is your best friend so i mean if fyou think he is deffinately the one then go for him but jsut remember she will probably never forgive you so just relaly think about who you really care about! hope i helped!
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wow, that's a complicated situation. im the kinda girl that thinks it's wrong to "dump" your best friends over some guy. your still young and will have plenty of more chances for other guys so dont tie yourself down so much :)
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