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13/F

My best friend is a guy, (ryan). Latley he`s been waiting for me outside of my homeroom class and walking me to 1st period. Then we walk together to 2nd. I catch him looking at me alot and were always together in class. About a month ago he started hugging me goodbye, and latley the hugs are getting more romantic. He talks to me differently, calls me, and always wants to hang out. He has been complementing me on my outfit even when I`m wearing a t-shirt and boy`s bball shorts and his hoodie he loaned me. He says I look beautiful when I just wake up and my hairs a complete mess and I have no make up on. So, as you can see I really think he likes me more then a friend now, I`ve liked him before like this, but for some reason now, I`m enjoying all this attention and flirting he`s givin me, but I just can`t picture myself with him. What do I do ? I don't want to go out with him, we brake up, then lose our 5 years of being BFFs!

sorry for it being so long, i`ll appreciate any help.
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well sit down and talk to him ask him if he likes you and stuff you are just going to need to sit down and talk to him be like do you like me and if he says yes you should say yes but be like i dont wanna mess up our frind ship and stuff i just want to be friends but you can be friends and like do stuff just tell him how you feel hope i helped thanks cya


theres this guy that i really like but he only likes skater girls well that wat he told me today idk if he likes me? should i com stright up with him and say like i like u or just let it pass by

~confused (link)
you should just tell him that you like him because if he finds out that he likes you and then he will prob like you back so just talk to him about it


how do you know when your in love? (link)
you no when you are in love because you think about the boy or girl alot and when you hang out or something you get like butterflys and stuff


I really love this boy but he just told me he liked this other girl. Then he asked me if I still liked him. This girl is going to his next game and I was going with my guy friend. Seeing him and her is going to kill me. IDK what to do. I REALLLLLYYYY like him and I feel like crying right now. Please help me out and tell me what going on with him?!?! he liked me before I went on vacation and now its nothing?!?! help! (link)
i think before you went away he liked you alot and then you went away and i guess that girl was hitting on him but i think deap down in side he still likes you but he likes that other girl so when you chill with him hit on him alot be all over him and stuff and then he will start to like you again im me some time hockeybob3166


this is'nt a random wirdo but i could,nt find anything in this area. im a 13m and i have a little problem. my friends keep laughing at me about my eyebows. and i dont know what to do, ya see if i pulk my eyebows im a fag but if i dont do anything, im a freak, so how can i get rid of my bushy unabrow without being judged. (link)
you need to get new friends them because true friends would not make fun of you well are you a boy or a girl you can get them wacted or something im be on my s/n hockeybob3166


my best mate moved yesturday and it is kinda really borin wid out him and everyone seems to be deppressed and i dunno why but i am too yet i know he is still ma best mate he is likea brother to me and for the last 1 and half years i have spoke to him evry mornin when he was walking his dog and i need help on how i can deal with the changes to my rutine and social life please reply as it is important (link)
ya i no you may miss him alot and stuff and things will no be the same it will be hard but just call him on the phone in the morning and stuff and trust me it will be the same the only thing what would be weird if like you cant han out with him at all and stuff but you will get used to it but its going to be hard to get over


hey i need some quotes or sayings or something 2 put in my profile 2 kinda tell my ex that i still like him. See he just dumped me yesterday because he figured out that he liked someone else. So i need something like haha i hope ur happy or something like that. you know what im saying... but i still like him and stuff but i told him that i was kinda happy that we broke up even though im not so i need something 2 tell him that im happy that we broke up and i hope that hes happy w/ her. Maybe is there a song like that or something? But quotes or sayings 2 put in my profile would be greatly appreciated! 14/f thx alot! (link)
what you want might make you cry but what you need may pass you by


OK my grampa just passed away friday and so far it hasn't really hit me that he was gone so I didn't cry right away. Everyone was saying "I'm so sorry.." and stuff. But then the kid I think I love told me that he was so sorry about what happened on my away message( we haven't talked for about 2 weeks) and once I saw that I just started balling my eyes out. I don't know why i particularly did it when he said it. Also, my mom is REALLY strssed out. A year ago on august 28th my aunt died. My moms birthday is august 29th. My grampa (her dad) died the 30th.

So my questions are: How can I make this less strssful for my mom and why did I start crying when he said that he was so sorry about my grampa?? thank you sooo much. (link)
ok the thing is that wwhen your grampa died like you were feeling sad and stuff but you did not no what to do because you were in love and stuff and you needed someone there to help you and stuff and when your love imed you on your away message you like took that and it went to your heart like he is so sweet so when you hung out with him i think that what he said was so nice and like you were so sad about it he was the guy you need a shoulder to cry on and it was him and yes it is very stressed my grandmom died on my birthday and she lived with me but yes i think that you needed him so bad that when you chilled with him like thats when you wanted to cry it might sound weird and you might think im rong but i went throw the same thing soo ya if you need anymore help my s/n is hockeybob3166


Ok, so Ive known this guy for a long time. And hes been one of my best friends for almost as long as Ive known him. I can tell him anything and he can tell me anything. And so back in april he told me he liked me and I liked him. And so he broke up with his girlfriend because he liked me and we were....officially un-offical. If you know what I mean. But last week we hung out, and he was acting like everything was fine, when my friend pulled me aside and told me I wasnt the only girl. So later that night I asked him about it, and he said that he liked this other girl....we'll call her Ali. so I got pretty hurt. Ali goes away for boarding school in a few days...and I dont know what to do about the guy. Even if he stops liking Ali, Im still not sure if I should get involved with him again because people say he can sometimes flirt a lot. Will someone please help me out with what to do? Ill rate youu. Thanks (link)
ok if you been friends for a while and stuff and he likes you but he likes ali to i mean he might like you since she is gone and stuff but like you got to think like do you wanna go out with him and stuff and like if you break up or something will it be the same after like will you guys still be really good friends and will you guys still tell eachother stuff and will he tell you stuff and stuff like that so you got to think what you want well if you need anymore help im me at hockeybob3166


if your boyfriend and you are all together alone bth of y'all or very horny but you are afraid to take off your clothes infront of him what are you suppose to do? (link)
well if you dont wanna take off your clothes just like kiss and let him feel you up and shit let him finger you or feel you up and stuff and maybe you could like jerk him off and stuff so like you are horney and stuff but you dont need to take off your clothes or anything its good


Is there anyway i can find out if my ex still likes me? because I still like him a ton. & hes been IMing me a lot lately & saying like some of our old insiders. Is there anything i should do? & i Dont know if he has a girlfriend because in his profile it said i LOVE U SO & SO. & Now he took it out. So im not sure if they broke up or whatever.
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ok just get one of your friends to im him or something and ask if he likes you still because look if he did some insiders from awhile ago i think that he might still like you i mean if he did that there is a good chance he still likes you and stuff but dont let it get to you i mean he might still like you because of the insiders or he does not no if you still like him thats the only thing i can think of


well ... i got up the courage to let my friend erin tell this guy brendan that i like him...(i really love him)and i really thought i might have a chance cuz were really friendly and i thought he might have liked me.
erin was at my house at the time... so she let me go on her screen name wen she left so i could talk to him... this is how it went:
erin(me): wasnt that surprising?
brendan: i kinda could tell
erin (me) : oh?
brendan: not to be mean or anything but i would NEVER go out with her
erin (me): oh I have to go...bye
and i signed off... i dont know what to do! I need to know what to say to him... im allowed to go on erins screen name again in the morning... but idk what to say... what do you think i shoujld... should i try to convince him? well the worst part is ... i keep blaming it on parts of me... like i think i make too many jokes now... and now i think its because i am a little overweight... but i thought he was the kiond of guy that didnt care about looks...
please dont say "get over him" because i have liked him for 2 years and ive tried that!!!
i'll rate high...please ... i need help before like 10 tmw morning :-(
~heartbroken (link)
well just go up to him and talk to him about it i no it is going to be hard because he said he would never go out with you but i go throw that alot and when i mean alot i mean i like alot of girls and then they say they dont like me but anyway i mean just talk to him about it tell him that it was you on the s/n and you read everything he wrote and say like tell him how you feel i mean it might be hard and stuff but really because if you tell him how you feel and stuff he will maybe start to like you and if he dont like you because you are over weighted that is the retardest thing i have ever heard i mean i go out with girls that are over weighted and stuff so just tell him and if you need more help im me my s/n is hockeybob3166


is it wrong for a 13M to have been never been kissed. (link)
no its really not like just take your time when you meet a good girl or something just go for it and wait to your ready but no its not


I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this? (link)
ok the only thing i can say is this you should not cheat on people because look you cheated on your b/f and stuff and like he is so mad because he is upset like he prob loved you and stuff and then you go and cheat on him that would make him mad when you hang out with him if you do be all over him and stuff show him you love him and you will never do it again but in this case he might do the same to you what you did to him so like just show him how much you love him and stuff and im sure if you do that he will forgive you just dont do that shit to guys and stuff


i have this friend who is always there for me..and everything..we're ireseperable..but she thinks she is my only friend..and when my other friends call and ask to do stuff she gets mad. her mother even thinks im her only friend. the problem is she is my very BEST friend. but i do have other friends and i do like to hang out with them. please give me your advice.
thanks, much love~ two-split friend (link)
ok when she comes over or something you should have alot of people over at your house just like 3 or 4 girls over and stuff when she comes over and when she comes over be like hey these are my friends and tell her the names so like when she comes over and stuff and sees them she will not think she is your only friend and stuff you no what i mean just show her you got other friends


ok so me and this guy are always "cuddling" so-to-speak, we always lay on the couch together and he always has his arm around me and in other words we're always like having our arms around eachother..but that's all we do and its only for a short period of a time. i don't know how to explain it but how do i like "lead him on" to going further like i want to kiss him or make out with him or something, but without just giving it away. i don't want to just say it or anything, how do i "lead him on" to doing something like that? i'll rate 5's for good answers! =) thank you! (link)
ummm when you 2 are on the couch and you are laying there and stuff you should make the move and stuff just like kiss him or something or like show signs you wanna do something like be like all over him and stuff like that and if he get you wanna do something from that he is a retart because most guys get the sign unless you are retarted haha but really just like be all over him and stuff but if your close to him or something just go in for the kiss


ok im 14..and ive gone out with tons of guys..but i havent had my first kiss yet..a bunch of my other friends have though..im currently dating this really nive really hot guy, and he seems to like me a lot, but hasent shown any sign of wanting to kiss me..i dont want to make him kiss me and send the wrong message..is that weird? what should i do?

xOxO--> troubled love (link)
well like ya talked to him and stuff about it but it just happens like say if you 2 are alone or something and you guys are like all over eachother or something just go in there to make the move on him im sure he will kiss you back trust me im a guy and most guys do so when you are ready just make the move and im sure when your done you will be happy


is jacking off alot bad for getting boners (link)
kkk


how do you hook up please what do you do when you are ready go around or in and out what do most people do (link)
lfl


my g/f wants me to feel her up and i dont no how to do that so can someone please help me i will rate 5 please help (link)
idk what to tell you




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