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i have this friend who is always there for me..and everything..we're ireseperable..but she thinks she is my only friend..and when my other friends call and ask to do stuff she gets mad. her mother even thinks im her only friend. the problem is she is my very BEST friend. but i do have other friends and i do like to hang out with them. please give me your advice.
thanks, much love~ two-split friend
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Tell her that. Tell her that although you love her and she is your very best friend you do have other friends. Hopefully she will understand! Good luck.
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i know exactly what you mean..that sometimes happens to me too..so what i do is i sit down and talk with her about it and say "i know your not happy about me not hanging out with you today and that i'm hanging out with so-and-so but so-and-so is my friend too, and we planned this out tonight, so i would like to just hang out with her tonight"..and usually she'll get a little mad but then realize it later that you really do have other friends and that she's not your only friend..i mean she may get a little mad at first but really, it works all the time..hope i helped!
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Oh my god I'm in the same situation like, right now! What I do is I just try and call my friends up and make plans with them and whenever she calls, I'm just like," Sorry, but ____ already asked me to hang out with her, maybe another day." And I just keep doing that, and gradually she's been calling less ( like she still calls, but not everyday ) and whenever I am on the phone with her sometimes, I tell her some stuff me and ___ said/did whenever we hung out and stuff so that sends her a message in a way that you have other friends and need time to hang with them. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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invite her to hang out witho u and yur other friends like go ot the movies or hang out at someones house
hope i helped <3333
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talk to your friend.i think that maybe you are the only friend she has and shes afraid of losing you.so shes bieng protective of you from others.tell her that you would never do that to her.and that you are her best friend for ever.
hope it helps
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Tell Her Just What You Wrote Down!Tell Her That You wanna hang out with other people!and that you can still chill now and then !don't worry of what she thinks if she is your BEST friend she will understand just as much as you do!She just probley never understood how you felt before!
I Hope My Adivice Takez You Somewere!
~xoWeBlong2Gethr~
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Tell her exactly what you just wrote now. Just tell her, "I love you to death, and we're closer than any other friend I have, but I am friends with other people. I would want you to do the same." And hopefully she'll understand. Ask her not to get mad, because no one's going to ever take her place.
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ok when she comes over or something you should have alot of people over at your house just like 3 or 4 girls over and stuff when she comes over and when she comes over be like hey these are my friends and tell her the names so like when she comes over and stuff and sees them she will not think she is your only friend and stuff you no what i mean just show her you got other friends
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Take her out and talk to her a bit. If she thinks your her only friend. Introduce her to your other friends!! Im sure she'll be interested in hanging with them AND you. If you don't want to hang out with her at all, try to limit conversation and hang out maybe every other weekend instead of everyday or every weekend. You need to breathe, you need space. But saying that upfront to her face is a definate no-no. Try hooking her up with one person you think is right for hanging with her the most. it works!
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talk to your bestfriend! say she's possesive and overprotective. tell her you have other friends you'd like to hang out with. AND MAYBE ASK HER TO HANG OUT WITH YOU AND YOUR OTHER FRIENDS. GET HER TO FIT IN! hang out somewhere and have the whole group be together. let them get to know you. all i know is that i feel that you should follow your heart sweetie. just talk to her and tell her you want to hang out with her and your other friends. hope my advice helps. goodluck, if you have more questions, feel free to aks me personally. thanks.
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