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I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this?
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if u realla loved this boy then u woud not of felt the need to do or what eva with the other guy
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im sorry but i would go with him on this way and hopefully it will teach you a lesson im sick of being cheated on over and over again by guys and when a guy cheats on you you will under stand on how it feels to be treated that way like you love or like some one aot and they stab you in in the back
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If you cheated on him, why would you want to fix it? Obviously you don't have feelings for him if you cheated. Because number one, that's just plain wrong when you're going out with him in the first place. Think of how you'd feel if he did that, so you should've broken up with him. Number two, if he's that mad he's probably not going to let you fix it.
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Losing Your BoyFriend is 1 story....And Cheating Is Another!
1st You Need to Explain to your boyfriend The reason why you cheated on him .....Mabye if you do this right He May Have Second Thoughts About You......
2nd You Need to tell him why you still wanna be with Him!......Your Boyfriend Probley has alot mixed emotions about u right now love-hate-hurt-sad-e.t.c- .....You Need to give him an apoligy !
My Friend had cheated on her boyfriend before and lost some one she really loved.....mabe this will teach you a lesson for next time....and you never now mabe you may break up w/ your boyfriend but get back together???it happens to me alot too!
If you have anymore things you would like to ask me about please send me a letter!
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This is going to be hard but if your willing to work at it than why not ? Ok so what you should do is talk to him about why you cheated on him. I mean he does have a right to be mad. I would be to if my boyfriend cheated on me. So what you do is talk to him about it. Such as why you did it. Like you were mad at him for something he did or he was boring and not doing anything (Im not sure what you did to cheat on him). But just tell him explain why you did it. And explain how you still like him alot. And if he understands you will be fine. If he doesnt than im sorry. But you shouldnt have did it (I think you know that). well hope I helped <3
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Well, judging actions speak louder than words, the fix might be hard. You shouldn't have cheated on him in the first place, but what's done is done. Write him a really sweet letter listing all the things you like about him, and the reasons he's a million times better for you than the guy you cheated with. Make it sappy as well! It will save the relationship. You can slip it in his locker, or if he doesn't go to your school, slip it in his mailbox, or you can just give it to him and walk away.
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well why did you cheat on him in the first place? if you think you will be happier with someone else then break up with him and move on. but if you decide to stay with him that mean you cant cheat on him.
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Don't cheat.
Really it is that simple. Beg, plead, apologize, admit it was totally your fault and you were a fool for doing it, and then, don’t cheat anymore.
Your boyfriend is understandably upset; even upset enough to dump you, and chances are no one would blame if he did. If you are in a relationship that you agree is going to be exclusive and one of the partners cheats you've broken a trust and trust is very very difficult to get back.
Besides, apologizing, admitting you were wrong, and promising never to cheat again, the only thing you can do is give it time. Your boyfriend might not be able to forgive you; you might get stuck in patterns of punishing each other. You might just find your relationship can’t take this strain. The best thing you can do it exactly what your boyfriend asks you too, if he wants space, give him space, if he wants to talk about it, talk about.
And if he breaks up with you, accept it gracefully and realize that cheating can kill everything worthwhile a relationship. If you value the person you are with then behave like you do.
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ok the only thing i can say is this you should not cheat on people because look you cheated on your b/f and stuff and like he is so mad because he is upset like he prob loved you and stuff and then you go and cheat on him that would make him mad when you hang out with him if you do be all over him and stuff show him you love him and you will never do it again but in this case he might do the same to you what you did to him so like just show him how much you love him and stuff and im sure if you do that he will forgive you just dont do that shit to guys and stuff
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Of course you don't want a lecture! But it was wrong of you to cheat on your boyfriend. I think that now that you did it, it's hard for him to trust you. You first have to earn his trust back. Tell him you love him and if you did it, tell him the exact reason why. was it lust? was he not treating you as good as u wanted? talk to him as to what put you up to cheating on him. If you feel a certain way you should be able to share it with him. If he decided to break up with you, it would be best to be there for him by his side and help him through his anger. If you lost him as a boyfriend you should keep him as a close friend. If he decides to break up with you, if you love him that much you'll have to accept his choice no matter what it may be.
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you obviously don't like him 2 have cheated on him!! the one you like is the one you cheated on him with. he should dump you because you did wrong.
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He has every right to be mad at you and to break up with you. You hurt him and betrayed him, he will find it very hard to trust you. At the end of the day, it's his decision whether he forgives and forgets or whether he breaks up with you.
Let him know that you're sorry, that you wont do it again and that you want to be with him. If he knows that he can trust you in future then maybe he wont end it. You want to fix it, so you obviously care for him and regret what you did. If he decides to give you another chance, then don't do anything like that again. It's unlikely that he'll give you a third chance. It will take a long time to rebuild his trust in you and your relationship will always be damaged by what happened but you can make it work if you put your effort into it.
If he does break up with you, then learn from it. Don't cheat on anyone again, if you love and care about someone then respect them. And respect means not cheating on them.
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