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My name is Hailey. I love giving advice to people ! Because it makes me feel wanted in this world, and that people trust me and my oppionions. And im not exactly the best speller. So sorry if I spell things wrong. Spelling isn't my strong point. I will try my best to give you advice your happy with. I will always be 100% truthful ! No matter what it's about. You can drop one in my inbox at anytime ! & I will answer as soon as possible ! I appreciate anyone who has me as a favorite columnist. And it makes me feel really special like I give good advice. & Id really appreciate it if you rated me so I know how my advice was !
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okay so there's this guy lets call him henry. anyway me and henry were getting really colse and we'd been on a couple dates (on most of these dates we got really physical and my liking him turned from sexual to really just liking him for him)so on our latest outing instead of getting phisical we just talked... for hours... then we started doing some physical stuff and henry stopped me... we were in a park though so it could have been that he was scared someone would see... but not to worry it wasn't infront of kids or anything, it was at about 2 am so no one was there. anyway we made plans to have another date and when i texted him he didn't text back, i texted him twice (i know that sounds like nothing but usually when i text him he replies right away, but then again on our date he told me that he really hated texting and he liked calling alot more). well anyway he never called or anything, then i find out from his best friend that he had a gig (he's in a band) and that's where he was... but he never texted me and i know that he has his phone. so my question is why did he suddenly turn cold? we haven't talked for over a week.
but i started to think about all the things that we said and he was asking me about past relationships and such, i told him that i reall y didn't like to get too serious, and his last girlfriend (who he was inlove with and supposedly loved him back) just broke up with him for no reason. so do you think that that has anything to do with him ignoring me suddenly?
Im pretty sure henry just doesnt want to get hurt. I mean girls arent the only ones who are afriad of getting hurt as werid as it sounds guys are too. Maybe he was afraid you'd hurt him once you guys got too serious. Guys arent going to admit it as easy as a girl would that there afraid. Id try and get him to talk to you some how about this. Hope I helped!
I have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl from the party, has to go so she asks my girl friend if she could give me a ring back that i had left at her house (the promise rings we gave each other. i guess i left it there that night) of course my girlfriend gets curious why this girl has my ring and so she asks becca about it and she told her the whole thing. After the game Cait brought the ring up to me and said that my "little friend Becca" thought i would want it back and asked her to give it to me. I was totallly shocked and had no idea even what to say. Cait broke it off right then and there. I need to find some way to make it up to her. She is the love of my life and i totally regret what i did but she won't even talk to me which is really awkward since i am at her house all the time since her brothers are my best friends and her dad is my football coach. How can i get her back?
Okay im not sure this advice is going to be the best but im gonna try.
I think you should get her to sit down and talk to you some how. Proove to her that your really sorry and want her back. Example send her flowers and with the flowers write a card about how you feel. Tell her how you want her back and want a second chance. And how you want to spend the rest of your life with her and she could be the one. Everyone makes mistakes but in a way I probably would have done the same thing. But if you proove to her how much you want her back and how much she means to you .. im sure she'll give you a second chance. For love..anything is possible. Explain to her how love doesnt require you to be perfect it requires you to forgive (boy meets world incase you didnt know, something like this happened on that show). But that quote is true love can survive through everything you put it through..just as long as you belive in it, and belive its there. Fight for her love back. If this doesnt work out, ask her brothers and her dad to talk to her. Im sure they'll have a good idea of what to do since they've known her for a long time.
But I hope this helped. If you need anymore advice just drop one in my inbox at anytime!!
ok. when i first started my period it use to last on average 5 days. and recently it has only been 2-3 days. is this bad? how long does yours usually last?
i havent had sex or anything like that so that wont be the cause. and im not on birth control. i havent changed anything either and this has been happening for about the last 5 periods.
Dont worry about it. Its completely fine and normal. Your lucky to have it that way lol. Hope I helped!
is there any ways to get past private profiles on myspace? like to view private profiles and the pictures on them.
No, you cant. You have to request them and see if they'll add you to see ther pictures. Hope I helped
how do you hide your friends BUT keep the clickable link to view your friends
please help fast!
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what do you do when you realize you don't love your boyfriend?
this sounds horrible but im so lost
my boyfriend is so completely in love with me but i dnt feel anything for him... at all
i used to but it's been 6 months and he's lied to me so many times i just get disgusted by him now
and we've broken up 4 times and everytime lasted about a week then its back because he apologizes real well and promises to be better, it really destroys him when we break up and i never want to hurt him. breaking up never works, we always get back together! we were best friends for about a year before we ever started dating so i care for him but i don't love him, im sure of it.
i talk to him, he doesnt get it. the thing is we are so perfect for eachother but i don't feel it with him.
can i make myself love him?
You cant make your self love anyone your heart doesnt wanna love. Hes hurt you by lying to you one to many times in the past. I mean I know its going to be hard to break it off and keep it broken off. But what you can do is break it off and talk to him about it. Talk to him about how you dont wanna be togther anymore. But you still wanna be friends with him. Friends are better then enemys right? You cant force your self to love anyone just like you cant force someone to love you. Being in this relationship when you dont want to is hurting no one but him. Honestly I would break it off, and tell him how you feel and how you cant be in a relationship with him after hes hurt you by lying all the time. Tell him you just want to be frineds. Hope I helped. If you need anything else leave one in my inbox
what happens when you PMS? i know it's something about your period but how do you know when you're PMSing?
PMS is when you are bleeding "down there" You can theres two types of cramps (from what i know) back cramps and stomach cramps. I get both of them. You can also get a headache. During or before. Headaches and all the other things are signs of getting it. If you get bad cramps midol is for you! lol. Hope I helped!
my life is going go so good right now. everythings perfect, ive got the perfect bestfriend, and i have the perfect kid.
but, hes not mine. hes someone elses, and they fight constantly, i dont even think he likes her anymore. and him and i have always liked eachother, and he came over yesterday, and we were having like, 45345x of fun. we went to the park, and well, when he said goodbye, he said "i love you" and gave me a big hug, that like picked me off the ground. :P
and wouldnt ya know it... his girlfriends brother was there to pick him up. :[
they are fighting again, but becuase of me.. and well, i dont know. he always says sorry to me, and says he does love me.
but, he wont break up with his girlfirned, becuase his friends are her friends, and her brothers are his bestfriends. :P
:[ should i stick around, or just give up on all of it togehter. ?
Honestly I think you should give up and move on. I know it maybe hard but what this kid is doing is messed up. He cant just be going out with her cause her brothers are his frineds, and his friends are her frineds. Thats hurting both you and her. Talk to him about it. Tell him you wont talk to him or something unless he makes up his mind. Who does he want you or her and his "friends". I can understnad he doesnt want to lose his friends but thats just hurting this girl. If they were his true friends they'd still be his frineds. Dont wait for him. It's not fun waiting. Just talk to him about it. Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anymore advice just leave it in my inbox!
last year at summer camp this guy i had met several years ago and knew and is also my mom's college best friend's son started liking me. he was already with another girl but after the week dumped her because he found out i liked him. we talked and evenually dated. things weren't ever good between us because we didn't know each other as well as we should to start dating and we only got to text message maybe ten messages per day at most and never got to talk on the phone. we met up at a weekend youth rally after two months of not seeing each other. there he completely ignored me and even broke up with me. there were rumors he was cheating on me but we got that straightened out this week. i just got back from the same summer camp that got us together last year. we made up and talked some things out. things are literally better than ever - actually awesome - between us and he is wanting to get back together, according to his mom. i don't think i ever got over him because the second i saw him my stomach got butterflies and my palms started sweating. i just emailed him today because we promised to stay in touch. i haven't heard back, but i know i will soon.
what should i do? stay just friends? i still really like him and this week showed that there are still sparks between us. i really want to get back together but i'm not positive that would be best. right now we're both 15 and i'll be 16 in four months. he lives around two hours away. our families are close and if we started dating again, we would see each other about once every two months. i hope this is enough information to get some good answers, and i'm sorry if i rambled or didn't make sense. please help me with this! i want things to work but i'm not the best at doing stuff like this. thank you so much for your time!
Well I personally think it would be better if you guys were just better off friends. If your going to see him like every 2 months thats not going to work out. Because sometimes guys cant wait that long nethier can girls. And that hapened last time. I think you guys would be better togther if you lived closer but the distance between you guys is making you guys drift. I think you guys would be better off friends. I mean I understand you still have feelings for him but its going to be hard. So you guys are better off friends. Hope I Helped!!! leave anything in my inbox if you need to!
13/f, Me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone last night and then i just randomly said, do you like another girl? Then he HUNG up!!, then i tried calling him the next morning and never got a hold of him so i messaged him saying do you like another girl or not? Then he messaged me back saying i cant believe you thought i liked susie[exgirlfriend]!! And then he goes. i guess its over then. the thing is i dont want it to be over, we have been going out for 7 months and im scared to loose him, what do i say to tell him i dont want it to be over?
THANKS :D
Talk to him. Tell him you dont want it to be over. And just tell him you were worried that he liked some other girl and you were sorry you asked him (even if you werent) Just talk to him about this, dont let it end fight for your relationship. Just talk to him about it and if he doesnt wanna do it. Then forget him hes not worth it anyways! Hope I helped ! leave one in my inbox if you need any help!
im 15/f. never had a boyfriend or kiss :(. i feel like time is running out for me to just experiment. like i never got to go through that phase of a boyfriend for a week and then dump him. (not that i really wanted to.) i feel like by time i get a boyfriend, he'll be expecting more from me than i've experienced. im not going to let him pressure me into doing anything but im just saying. i really dont even know what im asking advice for, but i guess i just need help on how to cope with this situation?
Your not behind on anything, and your not falling behind. Im 16 and I myself have never had a boyfriend. But experimenting is basically with every guy you will date in the future until you get married, it's like every guy is just an experiment. When you do get your first boyfriend and if he expects to much outta you, what I would do if I was you is tell him youve never had a boyfrined before and your not ready to do all this stuff. If he really liked you he would understand. Thats how you can tell if the guy really likes you also. Just wait it out your time will come. And when it does have fun it will all be worth it. Hope I helped !!
Is it normal for a female to have hair inbetween their buttcrack?
Yes, it is normal. Some hair is noticeable and some isnt. But its completely normal!! Hope I Helped !!
Hey! I hear this term a lot, but I never really understood what it meant. Anyways, let me get to the point:
what exactly does it mean to hook up with somebody???
Thanks :
There are so many definations for hook up with somebody. But this is how I look at it. Hooking up with someone is basically kissing, touching, feeling up etc when your NOT going out. Including sex when your not going out. Hope I helped!
do you know if you can wear A&F flip flops into the water? is it water resistant like the ones in Old Navy? it feels very comfortable!
You must likely can. But I wouldnt. Like someone down there said, the material on top is different than Old Navy flip flops and the mooses will start to come off. Plus I dont think you would wanna ruin those, especially since there expensive. Hope I helped !!
is it bad to have just met a guy, and it was the second time we hung out at his house, and he fingered me and i gave him a hj? does that make me seem easy or slutty?
thanks for any help!=)
Honestly I dont think thats good. But that doesnt mean your easy or slutty. The only reason why I dont think this is good is beacause guys get the wrong idea. And now its like everytime you see him hes going to suspect to do things like this. But like someone said down there..dont let it get out cause rumors will start and people will think you are easy and slutty. Otherwise..i don't think its that wrong. Hope I helped !!
Hey. Does anyone know what song they use in the ABC family's comercial for the new show Greek?
I saw the bottom left corner, and I think it said it was by the plain white tee's but I'm not sure.
help?!
The song is Hey There Deliah.
good song good song.
Hope I helped
ok my friend likes these 2 guys can she CANT pick who to choose so would u please help me. 1 man is evan- whos 2 years younger, hes a cutie and he asked her out twice and she denined him and wishes she didnt and ever since then she loved him for like a year but hes in florida now but hes coming back in middle of july. the only thing is she hasnt seen him in a year and she doesnt kno if he likes her. ok next guy is kevin- who just met her and hes in LOVE with her and obsessed. he cares about her alot and hes a year older. hes a cutie and they just started hanging out. shes torn between both of them and i doesnt know what to do. please help! any advice!? ill love you forever
I would say Kevin. because he is closer to her age and also he lives closer. Since Evan lives in Florida. So id say Kevin. hope I helped
everytime on my buddy list it has the category MOBILE DEVICES
and it shows up all the time
and i dont want it to be there
and i delete it all the time and it keeps showing up
how can i get rid of this
Do you go on AIM on your phone ? Than thats why. Since you dont want it there I suggest make a screen name just to go on your phone with. That way you wont have to sign on and have a moble devices group. hope I helped !
ok well i havent had sex, or anything close to that. i havent even made out with a guy!!! but my period is late, and i dunno what to do. should i go to the doctor?? is this normal??? HELP MEEE
thx in advance!!!
It's normal. Sometimes your period is on time other times its not. Your period is probably not even through out it. Same with me. Dont worry about it. Your fine. It's completely normal!
Hello it's me :]
That was great advice but there are a couple of thing I need to ask you. I understand that taking her guy or whatever would be an aweful thing to do. But she has really turned into a fake person & I can't even talk to her like I use to anymore. Yeah, she likes him but she doesn't love him & she doesn't even feel the way about him I'm feeling becasue when we talk about him she's like "blah blah who care about him?" I know this may sound very strange but I would give up our friendship [or whatever you call it since we're not that close anymore] to be with him & have a healthy thing going on with him. I guess I'm just going to lay back & see what happens with them 2 and then decide on that I want to do. But if I wanted to stop talking to him It would be immpossible becasue he's like a part of me now. But my question is what is ths thing I'm feeling inside? Is it just a crush thing or is it could be love? I mean my heart is beating so fast while I'm writing this about him & this morning I recived a message saying "hey baby are you up yet? I love you" that just made me flip outtt. :] I get the most bizzare feelings inside & I just can't wait until he calls or texts. Uhh, I'm a bad friend, but I also feel like I'm bad at picking guys. I just can't get over him :]
Well, please write me back & answer my question.
thanks
Well I cant tell you if its love or just a crush. But the way you explain it, it seems like it could be love.
and honestly if shes turning into a fake person, who cares your willing to give it up then go for it !!! Go for going out with him. She will just have to deal with it.