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long distance relationships...
last year at summer camp this guy i had met several years ago and knew and is also my mom's college best friend's son started liking me. he was already with another girl but after the week dumped her because he found out i liked him. we talked and evenually dated. things weren't ever good between us because we didn't know each other as well as we should to start dating and we only got to text message maybe ten messages per day at most and never got to talk on the phone. we met up at a weekend youth rally after two months of not seeing each other. there he completely ignored me and even broke up with me. there were rumors he was cheating on me but we got that straightened out this week. i just got back from the same summer camp that got us together last year. we made up and talked some things out. things are literally better than ever - actually awesome - between us and he is wanting to get back together, according to his mom. i don't think i ever got over him because the second i saw him my stomach got butterflies and my palms started sweating. i just emailed him today because we promised to stay in touch. i haven't heard back, but i know i will soon.
what should i do? stay just friends? i still really like him and this week showed that there are still sparks between us. i really want to get back together but i'm not positive that would be best. right now we're both 15 and i'll be 16 in four months. he lives around two hours away. our families are close and if we started dating again, we would see each other about once every two months. i hope this is enough information to get some good answers, and i'm sorry if i rambled or didn't make sense. please help me with this! i want things to work but i'm not the best at doing stuff like this. thank you so much for your time!
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Well I personally think it would be better if you guys were just better off friends. If your going to see him like every 2 months thats not going to work out. Because sometimes guys cant wait that long nethier can girls. And that hapened last time. I think you guys would be better togther if you lived closer but the distance between you guys is making you guys drift. I think you guys would be better off friends. I mean I understand you still have feelings for him but its going to be hard. So you guys are better off friends. Hope I Helped!!! leave anything in my inbox if you need to!
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Here is my opinion on the situation. He is a little immature. You aren't. The way he just broke up with his girlfriend to go out with someone he doesn't know all that well is a little ridiculous. But props to you for getting him to do that. I'm impressed. Seeing that he broke up with his girl for another girl really soon makes me wonder if he's going to be faithful if you two do date. The whole thing with the rumors just adds to it. BUT maybe since you both have grown up since then it will work out.
Here is what I would do:
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel (you like him.) I think you should stay friends until one of you has your license. I know it's a long time, but once you get your license you can see each other a lot more and it would be better on the relationship. What if he gets sick of not seeing you and cheats on you. Then the relationship is over and you can't get back together when you get your license cause you'll still be mad at him. So hold up and get the time to know him on the phone and meet up every once in a while until you get your license. When you do get it you would of had enough time to think if you really do like him and want to be with him or if you just want a boyfriend. I say think about this situation before you jump into it.
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