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is this bad?


Question Posted Saturday July 7 2007, 9:28 pm

is it bad to have just met a guy, and it was the second time we hung out at his house, and he fingered me and i gave him a hj? does that make me seem easy or slutty?
thanks for any help!=)


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Shortcake22 answered Sunday July 8 2007, 11:21 pm:
No, this doesn't make you a slut. However, he might think you're easy, so maybe don't give in right away next time. Also, I wouldn't make a habit of this behavior. Word will get around, and you will earn yourself a negative reputation.

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bitterxsweet answered Sunday July 8 2007, 1:15 am:
to me it does make you seem a little easy, but not necessarily slutty. however to a guy that'll definitely come off as easy and he'll more than likely expect it from you whenever he sees you. you just better hope he's not one to go around spreading that news or it could snowball into a bad rep! =[

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-nikki- answered Sunday July 8 2007, 1:05 am:
Heyy

No it doesn't make you easy or slutty. If you like the guy then yes go for it!!

If you do this all the time though then just be aware what people may say about you.

But if you don't theres no need to think or ask if your slutty.

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orphans answered Saturday July 7 2007, 11:09 pm:
from my point of view, you seem slutty and easy. but the thing is ive never met you
like if you did this with lots of other guys, that would make you a slut, but since you didnt say if youve done that i can't judge you =]

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LadyH answered Saturday July 7 2007, 10:54 pm:
I don't think "slut" is the right word to use. You're going to come off easy & he's going to get the wrong idea. So in my opinion, it definitely wasn't a good call.

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fiingersxcrossed answered Saturday July 7 2007, 10:18 pm:
no not at all, it was a little fats, but your not SLUT! just be careful more, he might think a little different though now! hope this helps, morgan<3!

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BecauseYouLivex3 answered Saturday July 7 2007, 10:11 pm:
Honestly I dont think thats good. But that doesnt mean your easy or slutty. The only reason why I dont think this is good is beacause guys get the wrong idea. And now its like everytime you see him hes going to suspect to do things like this. But like someone said down there..dont let it get out cause rumors will start and people will think you are easy and slutty. Otherwise..i don't think its that wrong. Hope I helped !!

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Saturday July 7 2007, 9:48 pm:
It depends on who you're asking. Me, I think it might have been a little soon to go that far, but I'm not going to say OH MY GOD YOU'RE SUCH A SLUT! Cause, you're not.

Kids get horny, and those things feel fantastic. We all need a little sexual satisfaction.

Don't go out there and tell the world that you guys did that, because then you'd get the reputation that you are that way.

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DrPlayer answered Saturday July 7 2007, 9:46 pm:
not at all, just to keep it a secret from those who would think that though

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haleys411 answered Saturday July 7 2007, 9:43 pm:
no, but it might have given him the wrong idea...next time you guys hang out he might try someting, and if you dont feel comfortable just tell him.

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