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can i bleed again during sex after losing virgine. (link)
when you "pop the cherry" or break your hymen you do bleed. some more than others but it is supposed to be very little with some minor pain.


Why are thirteen year olds allowed to use this site when over 50% of the questions are to do with sex and intimate sides of peoples relationships.
Sureley it's not right that someone who's 13 (or in some cases younger) is exposed to the kind of stuff you read on here at such a young age.

Seeing as it's not fair to not help these people when advice givers like myself have been up to now, I think the age limit should be increased, cos it's not fair kids learn about that kinds stuff off of strangers on here. Does anyone agree? :) (link)
umm fuck no. okay, kids as young as like 3rd grade know all the shit about sex. this is a soght for advice. the ONLY way you can see sex questions is if YOU look them up.n13 year olds ALREADY know about sex. i dont knowwhat effin generation ur living in, but at age 9, they know bout dis shit. there isnt nothing we can do about that. ok? 13 is a teenager, so geez. when do you expect your kids to learn about sex? 30?? i think 13 is actually reasonable, or if anything, late. i think this site should be open to anyone who has access to it, because some people have questions that they might not feel comphertable talking to their families about. or someone in their family. it is much easier to talk to someone who doesnt know you, and you dont know them.


Ok. I'm Male/17. And today my friends were being D-bags. And because of this I ended up setting up a movie date this Friday. I don't even know this girl much, I met her today. She's kinda cute etc. So how can I make sure it goes well? I don't want any weird/awkward feeling. Plus I've never really been on a date before. (link)
do all the things that ali022 said and girls love it after a date; a kiss on the cheek.


ok i am a teenage girl and me and this guy have been making out, he was my first kiss, and i even noticed that i am a bad kisser. we have had like three make out sessions but i still cant get the hang of it. he is much taller than me and that might be some of the problem, but what can i do to improve my make out ability's in general? (link)
you can practice on a mirror, or you both could sit down and you could ask him how bad you u sucked and if hes got pointers, get a friends advice, or a friend to “help” out. or something along those lines


12, F

Hi! So today I opened my legs and then a fart just came out.. Up front! It keeps happening everytime I open my legs!! Please help, I'm scared! Is there something wrong with me?? Does it have something to do with me not starting my period yet?! (link)
no. you are completely normal. off period or on period. its called a queef. not sure if thats how you spell it. but thats how its pronounced. and you cant stop it, but a suggestion would to be not to open your legs? but youre normal. (:



Sometimes when Im at home, I cant see anything for a few seconds and then I can see again. It happens a lot everyday. Its been happening for a while and its gotten worse. I cant see anything but the dark for a few seconds. what is this?

sometimes when I stand up I loose all vision and get light headed. I do wear contacts. Why do I go blind sometimes?

Sometimes i got blind for a few seconds, like ill stand up and ill get this weird feeling in my head and i wont be able to see for about a second or two.

I get dizzy, cand black dots start to appear everywhere & then my ears start ringing & everything goes dark (link)
it's probably because of the lenses. When was the last time you changed them? In any case, going to your ophthalmologist would be a good idea. Or perhaps a physician too.


i need a nickname for my guy friend (link)
Pookyy. lol i called my friend that all the time :)


My boyfriend and i are thinking about having sex we have been together for 9 months we are both 17
we both feel ready i'm worried that it might hurt a lot will there be blood? my boyfriend has a small penis i've heard that it doesn't hurt much if a guy has a small penis is that true? (link)
Well, either way, its gonna hurt. basicly, your gonna 'pop your cherry'

as long as both of yall are ready thats all that should matter.

plus, the first time you have sex, its gonna feel wierd. so dont expect it to be 'perfect'

:)
hope i helped


can u please tell me that when sperm is injected in ass hole a girl can pragnent in this case
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no it cant unless its in her vagina


I'm 18. Female. Senior in high school. I like my friend who is also female. We are both Bisexual. She is a junior in high school. We've never had girlfriends, and its been a while since we've had boyfriends. ive liked her on/off for a year, and i dont want to ruin our friendship if she doesnt like me like that. also, we are in orchestra together, and she is my section leader.. so if anything bad happens to our relationship, or even if shes weirded out by me liking her, it will affect that class ,and i dont want that to happen. what should i do?
thanks a bunch :) (link)
I think y’all should defiantly give it a shot!!

But if y’all do date…..keep it on the down low for a while. Like, make it obvious that you like her and she likes you. But not enough for people to know y’all are together. Then if everything goes good, tell the world :)
Oh, and if it starts to feel weird and stuff, just promise each other that y’alll will go back to being friends

Hope I helped :)


18/f
why do i feel the need to do my hair and makeup again? i stopped when i was 16. now i see all these girls and i feel intimidated because i dont really do anything but apply a little mascara. i want to be happy when i look in the mirror, but im not. i dont understand why because i should be happy. i want to dye my hair, but i know this is just going to lead to temporarily happiness. (link)
Dont wear makeup!!

im 14 and i wish i never started bc my face is bad. i wake up every morning and feel like i need makeup. i wish i could stop.

Be happy with who you really are. not with how you look sweety :)


who much does it cost if i wanted the top of my ears piearsed at? what stores are the chepest?


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You can go to Clare's



Hi I need some advice I'm 19 years old and I think that my 31 year old science teacher might like me here are some things he does

He always gives me nicknames and calls me by my surname
2. If I’m sat at my table he always walks down in between the next table and mine and the stops and looks at me and then goes off and then does it again and sometimes he always sits opposite me for no reason.
3. When he tells jokes he always looks at me see my what my reaction is
4. He always makes fun of me
5 iv seen him a couple of times looking at me
6 today in science I asked what units were doing with him and he said reproduction and then says no we can not do practices for that I was like i wasn't even think that.
Last week I asked if he is going to the year 13 ball and he he goes why you inviting thanks j I was like ok
Recently we have been doing experiments and he’s touch my hand a few times
One time I was ment to go to sixthform parents evening but couldnt go so I phoned the office to get them to email him and the next day I went to his lesson and he goes where were you last night you stood me up and I said that my step dad had to go to work I did tell the office to email you and he goes well I stayed here all night For you to come I was like ok.
If I’m listening to my iPod he always plays with it and Asks me what music I’m listening to.
He doesnt do this witanyone else . I forgot to says hes married he hasnt got any children
Hope someone can help thanks and sorry I just would like to know
Even if he is i know nothing is going to happen . (link)
unless he hasent acctually 'tounched' you like that, i dont think you can report him.

but you should tell him straight up that you dont like the way he acts toward you.

you can also try to change classes if its bothering you that much.

or just ignore him.

hope i helped. xoxo


since i was a freshmen & a virgin i have always been bullied and told i was a slut and to be honest i had only kissed one guy and i thought it was just a temporary thing. when i finally lost my virginity at 16 with a guy i liked a lot i had left him for i was embarrassed and ashamed that i didn't wait. so i didn't have sex for the rest of the year until i met another guy who i was with and had sex with him but that didn't last very long and so i went on and didn't have sex for another year and during that time i use to always drink & people just couldn't stop thinking i was a slut and i was having sex with the world so when i had a new boyfriend months later & quit drinking & stayed with him people from my old school kept repeating to him that i was a slut and to be honest it's embarrassing though i know im not & he knows, it sucks because i can't seem to get people to believe me. If i have a guy friend they think i'm doing him too and i hate that, what should i do? by the way i'm 19 now (link)
Ignore them!!

if you keep thinking about how people think of you, then youll never live your life right.

& thats the past. the people should grow up and get over it.


I have the HTC Evo 4G, not the 3D, with Sprint. I changed my lock screen to the iPhone swipe and I was wondering if there was a way I could set a different wallpaper for the lock screen and then when I unlock, the home screen has a different wallpaper. I have literally looked on Google for the past 2 hours and have not found ANYTHING that works. If you know, pleeeeease tell me, I will be eternally grateful. Thanks! (link)
Try looking in your Market for an iphone app. then see.


I act scene (im 13-f). I wanna look scene. I know the basics but i need help with more in-depth stuff. To be more specific i need how to cut and style hair, how to do my make-up, where to shop, and which jewlery to use. Yesh, i kno. I only kno the very, VERY basic. Please help. im going shopping again soon. (link)
well, you can google scene hair. they usually are short on the top with lots of layers and colors. tease the hair to make it stand up. ( you can Youtube videos on girls that are scene)

make up, its really just dark eye make up. lots of eye liner and mascara and dark eye shadow.

they sell most 'scene' things in places like Rue 21, Spencers, ect.

Jewlery like, anything dark with skulls and dark hearts. ect.


so i like this guy alot. but his best friend likes me and ive told him that i dont like him i like someone else. and today was really cold and i asked the guy i like if i could wear his jacket and he said "well i would give it to you but jason would get pissed at me." he said sorry then walked away with his jacket :( i think he might like me a little and i want him know that i like him..but i think hes scared of hurting his best friends feelings..what do i do?! (link)
you should tell the guy you like him. even if it hurts his friend.

you have to put your happieness first or you might get dragged into something you dont want sweety,


My mum had a dream about her and me being chased along a beach by a lady, the lady grabbed my mum and told her she was going to die, could you please tell me what this means? thank you (link)
once i heard that if you dream about dieng, you'll live longer :P


what do you say when a boy asks you to rub his balls at school (link)
you should defentaly do it!......if your a slut.

if you have any selfrespect for yourself you wouldnt do it because your reputation could be trashed


We use condoms and I'm on birth control and he goes inside me (with the condom on). Should i be worried about pregnancy? (link)
no dont be worried about it. just you need to be worried about cathcing stds from your partener




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