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That was super helpful! Thanks!


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Thank you!


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Thank you for your opinion! :)


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Its for weight loss so I don't think eating is gonna help but thanks


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thank you!


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That was absolutely perfect. Thank you.


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He's noticed it,but simply tells me not to pay attention to it. This has happened once before,but I lost my temper and she simply said she didn't want to insult me. As if. I'm not aiming for her to like me. I just don't want unnecessary insults when I've done nothing wrong in the first place.


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thanks


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As you can see, I've rated your advice as a 1, because theres alot of abuse in it in the form of swearing and insults, considering you don't know me. So I've reported you. However, strangley I thank you for your advice. I'm only 17, but from the language I use compared to the language you use, I think we know who's probably the mature one. I'm leaving this site, because I'm fed up of people like you on here taking everything so personally, as well as insulting everyone as they go. If you learn anything from this little 'encounter', it should be to make sure you understand the difference between arguing someone's point, and insulting someone. Why should I ask a question to recieve such passionate yet offensive advice from you. At least if we both leave this site, I'll have left with dignity.


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I can't thank you enough for telling me to go to the doctor. I dnt really want to talk about it, but I can tell you that you probably saved my life. Thank you!


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Ok I understand. I was so mad so that's why I was questioning thanks for not bashing me but telling me the truth


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I needed to hear it from an actual person, don't tell me what to Google


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Thank you so much. I did call and she is still not suppose to be living with her. They are going to be taking care of this. Again, thank you.


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Thank you very much!


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Perfect. This is what I did. I very much appreciate your advice. Thank you!!!!


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Thank you SO much! This helped a lot!


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thank you!


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Thank you for the link :) I will have a look at them as well as speaking to my personal tutor x


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Hey, To answer you question, I don't think I did anything to lead him on. But then again I wouldnt know if I was because I dont usually flirt. I got my boyfriends attention by buying him a beer when we first met so..yeah.. not really up to date on that department. If I remember it correctly I never said "Yes". Thankfully I came to the conclusion we didn't have intercourse (hate that word.) but there are some vague images in my head of him wanting to present his..thing..to me. Its hard for me to call it rape, because although it was forced upon me, I don't remember it being overly aggressive or something. Here, rape is an aggressive sexual act, where intercourse occurs. If none of that has happened, its called sexual violation. I just had a hard time labeling it because physically, I wasn't hurt. I felt violated, but because I had done myself wrong by being drunk, and thus being unable to act rationally (which would have been to kick him in the nuts). Thanks for taking the time to read my question and answering it. I really appreciate it, so thanks!


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yeah thanks


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When we've talked about this, he's mentioned how if he doesn't have car insurance, he won't be able to drive to work when he starts. He also uses his car to take me home on Sundays(The buses here don't drive on weekends). That makes some sense... The internet is suppose to be because how most job applications are done online now. I Suppose he could use the library computers but he'd have to find somewhere to get there. Even bus fare isn't cheap but it's cheaper than a car. Both the phone and internet is so we can talk to each other. We don't live together yet so the phone and internet is a big part of our communication during the week. You make a lot of sense though, and a part of me has been thinking of at least cutting the insurance. I've never really thought of him as taking advantage of me but idk. Thanks for the advice :) You helped a lot


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Thanks so much! :)


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Alrighty, if its still there. I started putting bacitracin today. The thing is there's no blood, no puss, and no itch. It only bothers me in the shower. I think soaping it a lot might play a role.


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He called me today and told me that he and his wife decided to divorce yesterday. Apparently, she wanted to end it as well. Since she lives in another city, he is flyer there tomorrow to take her things to her, and get his things from her place. When he gets back, he wants to go to dinner and "see where things go" I want to go see him and I'm glad he waited to call me after they decided to divorce. But, I agree with what you said before, I don't want to be in the middle of a mess. It makes me feel better that they came to an agreement on the divorce but I still feel a bit uneasy. Should I go see him? I can say that I will go to dinner and then go home, but I may not because to make myself go home and not go to his place.


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Thanks, that sounds good.


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Thanks!


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i have sought therapy and thanks for the advice


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Thank you, I also heard peanut butter is a good thing of protein and I dont want to go vegan just vegitarian so Im not gunna eat fish but I will eat eggs because you dont need to kill an animal for that because chickens lay eggs... BUt thanks !


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thank yiou


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Thank you for answering my question without judgment. I don't plan to continue smoking; I much prefer to breathe. :)


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Thanks man, I'll check it out.


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Thank you so much(: I've been searching and searching for answers!


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Thank-you so much flare for taking the time to answer my question. And great advice I will do just that. Its just hard yo make smart food choices! Hahah Thankyou


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Oh, i never thought of it that way, thanks.


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Thanks, sorry it took so long to get back to you. Thank you for your advice.


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Thank you, I appreciate you letting me email you if I need to and I am grateful for your advice. You are extremely talented at this and know exactly what a person needs to hear. God bless you for your help.


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Thanks, I really appreciate it and you are totally right. I would have hated it if my sister married that jerk and would never want to be in that kind of situation. I will take your advice and tell my family I can't rush into anything.


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thanks for the advice


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Well, you have a point there. It's the first year they're separated, so it's pretty painful to think about it, and super weird. But I guess something good did come out of the marriage as you pointed out, and I really appreciate the compliment. I didn't think of it that way :)


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thanks man, i need to calm down with things


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Thanks!!


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thanks, yeah, its not that long. I still study, get work done, and hang with friends, i guess its not that bad.


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(: thanks so much


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thank you


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Faith can be helpful. Why else would there be so many religions? If enough people believe it it, it can make a very powerful experience. There's definitely a God up there. God does not always answers me but when he does there is no doubt in his presence. If you're truly agnostic, then you should seek God. Bible says Satan and his angels were denounced to a lower glory. Also mentions a third heaven -http://carm.org/what-does-it-mean-when-bible-refers-third-heaven. Aliens from the sky was referring to Genesis 6:4 Word nephilim means fallen from heaven. That's one interpretation.


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Thanks! Made me laugh with the rap before tap


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Thank you.


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Hey thanks a lot! That was very informative I appreciate it :)


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thank you sooo much! thank you!! wow this all really helped


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my doctors knows it could be from my meds or whatever all i can do is eat high protein foods if i drop much more I'm looking at surgery


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Thank you for your excellent advice flare! :)


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thanks


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Thank you, that's a lot of tips! :D


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thank you so much for the advice! i will start to eat healthier! thanks again!


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Thank you


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Thanks. Helps a lot. I'm really impressed you quoted Einstein. I have read The Catcher in the Rye. I read a summary of The Count of Monte Cristo, it sounds interesting. I enjoyed your answer. (:


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Thanks Flare!


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Thanks


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I think I may try and call him that way I am guaranteed that it will go directly too him and not through his wife first. If I do decide to make contact I will not get personal with my father after all he is her messenger. Thank you for the advice and time.


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Oh yea I know I just hate it when there's a huge block to read! Thanks for the advice!


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I know they have websites. Thanks


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ask my teachers is awesome idea


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Thanks! Great advice. I'm going to try doing just one body part per day, as you suggested. Maybe this can decrease my recovery time between sessions too...my legs might be tired but my abs won't be the next day. =)


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thanks, never knew about the salt thing


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Thank you!


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Thank you for answering! I totally agree about those shows,they are absolutely awful. Simply a way of exploitation on gullible people!


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Thanks Flare This was informative and I will definitely try all what you suggested. It's not that it's too small or too big It's actually the perfect size really haha. Thanks again.:)


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Thanks! (:


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Thanks :)


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Ah thanks, I may hunt down this documentary! :)


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I didn't mean literally everyone. I agree with you that we should try to help them the most we could.


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Thank you!!


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Thank you so much for taking time out to write all this-I shall try out some of these methods asap!


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Ok thank you!


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Thanks!


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I appreciate your advice but I don't feel like it was necessary to be attacked. Thank you!


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thanks for the advice


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thank you for your opinion! it really has helped me out! :) thanks again!


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Thanks. My mom picked me up early from school and brought me to the doctors. He said that my rib right there just sticks out quite a bit and that there is nothing wrong.


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Thank you sooooo much!


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Thanks(:


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Hi yeah i did get the joke - but I had to ask because i thought it would of been funnier than that - so thats why i thought i didnt understand it! its not a funny joke reallly lol. cheers! x


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Well that sucks! Haha thankyou :)


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Thank you very much flare. That was quite a load of help for me to start off with. By the way I am sorry for not putting in the country. Well, i belong to India. I asked for any hair product as per the basic criterion I have set in and your personal choice of hair products, because no matter what country you are in, you can always shop online. So the availability was not a criteria as such. Moreover for the style factor, I like spikes hair. Any kind of spikes (while I am learning more about the variants). I will keep in mind your suggestions and would work on them. thank you for taking in the time to answer. Have a nice day. Akshay Anurag (name) India (country) 17/M Thanks ! :)


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Thank you. :) Sound advice.


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Haha, you're spot on! I just know people get bored by those same old details again and again, so I figured no one wanted to hear it and kept it short. Pretty sound solution, thanks. :) I try not to be too obvious anyway, but I will tone it down even more.


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tHANKS


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Well we have contacted the police several times but they said they need evidence and I thought the whole hammer situation was big enough evidence. We have been to court several times over him he's guilty and is allowed back to his house but if he does anything within two years he could go straight to jail. With him being found guilty I thought he wouldn't try anything else.. But he's threatening to kill my family now but unless we have evidence we can't do anything.. We have spoke to him but he seems to blame my family for everything and can't seem to get the point through his head. Its no other neighbours just us as the other side to him is a school. Thank you for your advice it has made me think:)


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Thanks, your most definitely right. I was blinded, but now you helped me realize that it aint worth it. Thank you.


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thx your right..


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I know you mean well but you are so wrong about so much. It IS easy for a woman to have an abortion i don't care about the baby. I want it dead. for a woman it is just like squashing a bug. while you get someone else to do it for you it doesn't mean anything to you except relief that the bug isn't leeched on you any more. I know why my husband is upset. i told him i wanted kids and i went off birth control so i could get pregnant but now that i am pregnant i changed my mind and want the little fucker dead. I don't know what i was thinking in the first place. The ONLY thing you were right about was that he should support me in this. Sure I lied to him the whole 4 years we were dating and told him that i wanted to have kids as soon as we got married and i kinda trapped him into marriage with this baby thing but now that he married me I don't need the baby any more so i want my future back. What is he so mad about? How fucking dare he judge me or look at me different? Sorry i am a little drunk but i had to say what yuor answer made me feel.


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Thank you! Only one thing: a link would have been nice so I could read more about it. Thank you!




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