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I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I've never been with a guy this long, so I was wondering what kind of changes are normal when you've been with someone this long. It seems like the romantic and honeymoon stage is over. He doesn't say most of the sweet things he used to. He doesn't tell text me good night or good morning like before, or even text me very often. Is that normal? He used to talk about us being together in the future..like kids and a house. And he used to say how he wished we could live together and that he wants to spend all his time with me. But he doesnt tell me any of this anymore. Is this normal? What kinds of things changed in your relationship after a year? Thanks. (link)
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O Girl let me tell you this is a very prominent stage and it can be the last stage that you go through i suggest trying to add more spice to the relationship also just be the best you can be you are a good girl I can tell by the way you type! Be very aware of how he talks to u if hes voice is more snappy and smart that means something has changed about you that he does not like! If he voice seems more cocky and he seems like he thinks hes better then you then he (MIGHT) NOT feel the same about you!
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When my boyfriend gets mad he gets really really mad. He hits me and has choked me twice before. I don't think he'd actually kill me but he does leave a lot of bruises and I'm really tired of it. I can't talk to him about it because he's just going to get mad. I don't want to leave him because I love him with all my heart and soul. I'm just tired of having to hide bruises and cover them up with make up and clothing all the time when I go out of the house. We live together right now and I just don't know what to do. My friend has seen the bruises and got worried but I told her it's no big deal. It is a big deal. What do I do from here? how can I make my boyfriend stop hitting me? (link)
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You do love Him trust me I know I can feel it but you have to stop and ask yourself does he love you! There are so many women right now in your shoes that cannot walk away from this but you have that oppurtunity! EXAMPLE Muslim women they are abused and branded and treated like toatal animals do they love there husbands yeah Im sure they do and apparently till death does them part! I bet they would be happy to switch places with you and with that being stated just think about how serious this can get stastics show that this type of behavior is gained and can get worse in no time going from anger levels 7-20 in 3 days I suggest you get out of it before He does kill you But I suppose if you do love him! Cook breakfeast for Him! Get you some grits and when they start boiling like larva you throw them on him and you get somethig and beat his ass let him know you love him but you will not take his lashings honestly this may sound harsh or obscene but its better then getting hurt or even killed! If you dont wanna go to those limits I suggest getting a tazer and putting it to good use! Defend ur self God was a man of war! do what you have too!
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My boyfriends ex girl friend will sometimes text my boyfriend and tell him that she wishes things would have worked out differently in their relationship & that she misses him. She'll also tell him that he isn't truly happy with me & that he's just using me as a rebound. He won't change his number due to work reasons, and he keeps telling her that she needs to stop texting. This is really upsetting me because I dont want him to listen to her & start thinking that he really isnt happy with me & he'll take her back. He says that he would never do that to me & I believe him. Its just the fact... Should I confront her myself or leave it to him to handle? (link)
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Im usually not this frank but you need to confront her this type of stuff tends to get way out of line! Although He has free will weather to love you or not that does not mean to let him just slip right out of your life! My suggestions is to get his phone text her and have her meet him somewere for dinner or a date and instead of him showing up you both show up! If That doesent work take it to the dirt whoop her ass haha!
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If I have sex before marriage, even if it's with the man I love and no I will marry and spend the rest of my life with.. where would that leave me with god?
Hell?
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The key to that is asking for forgivness If God were to send us to hell for just that there would probally only be 23% of the world population left! Our god is a man of understanding Remember that! and always ask for forgiveness if you know you have done something wrong!
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i feel like my life is crumbling down. I'm thirteen,
my sister hates me and thinks i lie all the time, my boyfriend just wants me for sex, my best friend talks about me behind my back, my mom doesn't listen when i tell her i hate my life, my parents are divorced, my grades suck and nobody listens when i tell them i cant do it,everyone thinks I'm crazy, my parents both like my sister better, I'm the ugly one of the family who is good for nothing, sometimes my life hurts so bad it hurts, and Ive lost all hope that it can get better. I'm actually crying as I'm writing this. dying seems like the only way out, but i don't know if death hurts. all TV says its a relief and that its carries you away but what do they know? Why cant something in this world be hopeful? I hate it all. someone please help. (link)
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I Can relate to this Ive had this problem! Dying will only make it worse! I suggest going to see a counsler they can help you get on some medicne its not as bad as it may sound but this could be a good thing just consider seeing your school one first Tell her a little about what you are going though at home also find a hobby that you like to do depression can take alot from you and heres a seacret deppresion is basically slowly killing you so dont give it a chance work against it! You'll be glad you did! and I want lie after being deppressed for lets say about a month you never just jump up and get over it but you have to start some were! Drink plenty of water! I can feel you need lots of energy!
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Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do (link)
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This is a very hard topic to get on but Im not going to affend anyone! Now friends are so called people that will be there for you till the end! keep that in my mind! Teen suscide is among a very high rate in this time in the most of it has to do with bi or gay teens! So instead of turning in your friend be there for Her just simply let her know that you aren't bi but you will be by her side! You don't know what she is thinking in her head and by her telling you! That just means you are important to her! So Please be supportive we don't need more teen blood sheded!
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I'm 16/f and 3 months along pregnant. Today I woke up and haven't been feeling good but not the usual morning sickness feel. I'm having these weird cramp like pains in my lower half and I spotted blood all day now. I am afraid to tell my mom because I just told her I am pregnant and she's really freaking out about that. What do I do? Do you think I'm miscarrying? What are the signs of a miscarriage? I don't want to lose my baby and I'm scared. (link)
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NO I READ YOUR QUESTION JUST FIND U SAID YOU DINT KNOW IF U WERE HAVING A MISS CARRIGE AND I TOLD U WAYS OF CHECKING IF U WERE OR NOT ITS ONE THING TO ASK FOR ADVICE BUT DONT ACT STUPD WHEN YOU DONT HERE WHAT U WANT LEARN TO USE A CONDOM!
And u need to tell your mom miscarring can kill u and spotting is a sign of that if you loose to much blood you can helmerage and die! U need to go to the ER and have them check hcg levels if there going up your good if there going down not so good! Also your mom would rather have you and a baby in this world then not have you at all!! Tell her before its too late!
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It doesn't happen very often but I was just sitting here then all of a sudden my bottom lip got hot, then a little sore then a bump appeared. It's gone already which is like 5 minutes later. Any ideas on why this happened or what it could have been? (link)
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its herps... go get checked before it spreads to your upper lip area too.
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I've been with my boyfriend for five years. Last year we broke up but then got back together 5 months later. We've almost been back together for a year. We broke up becos I felt unappreciated, there was no romance, and it got so boring that I was going crazy. It's actually worse since we've gotten back together. There's never any thank yous or appreciation shown when I do things for him. He helps me out financially so I feel indebted to him. I'm afraid of making the wrong decision if I leave. Where do you draw the line? (link)
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Where I come from, someone who trades sex for money is called a whore. I bet it is the same where you live. ;)
Are you serious? What a princess is right! he pays for stuff and you are basically like a hooker who bitches even when she gets paid. how ungrateful are you? seriously? bet you treat him awful and he doesn't complain like this bitchfest you put up on the internet about him!
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I don't really keep up with celebrity gossip but I was recently talking to my boyfriend about Lilo because he use to think she was pretty and now is skanky. Anyway, we were talking about her jail time and he said he heard she was only suppose to be in jail for 9 months. Today I just saw a glimpse of a headline on Google news (and I can't find that article now) that said she would only have to spend 9 DAYS in jail. Just curious if anybody knows... (link)
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well at first they said 90 days. but since she is a celebrity and is getting special treatment, and is doing good, they will probably only make it 2 wks
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I want a nickname for my name cuz i'm tired of hearing the same name so if anyone has a nickname for the mane Kayla please respond! I dont care if it's an emo, or punk and any weird name.
P.S I'm looking for a Weird or Different name something unique! thanks =) (link)
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Kay
Kayleey
Kaysha
Kayci
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me and my boyfriend have been fighting alot lately. we talked about a break, but then realized that we'd both be very, very uncomfortable with it. we want to do something, but we're not to sure how to fix it.
any ideas? (link)
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talk about what get's you two in arguments, and be honest! you guys like each other (since you wanna be around him all the time)actually take a break. see how it affects you.
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okay so theres this boy that my friend is trying to hook me up with , iv never met him we just talk on facebook , i really like him i know it sounds weird that i like him since iv never met hiim buuut , we have alot in common , we both sing , draw ,like poetry , and hes pretty cute based on his pictures , and i know this safe because my friend knows him from her school , hes not like a 30 year old petaphile or anything .
anyways we wants to chill with me and i dont know what to wear ? what should i wear if im meeting him for the first time ? (link)
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wear one of those tank top dresses, or a pair of shorts and a t-shirt
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im a girl and whenever i shave down there i always get bumps and my hair doesnt get shaved all the way so it still feels scratchy.
is this normal? what kind of razor should i use to prevent this and what kind of technique? (link)
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yes this happens to everyone, even if you do use shaving cream. well you could shave it, and then tweeze it, so it will be smooth. you can use any kind of razor, just using shaving cream for the best results, than tweeze afterwards. and after you shave it is natural to be itchy down their. so its fine.
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Hi I just got my first period and I need to start using tampons because pads arent working well for me and I dont want period stains at school! So anyways I FINALLY figured out where to put a tampon in and I can get it in now but Ive tried twice but every time I put one in it feels weird and when I bend over it hurts. And when I stand up I can kinda feel it in there and it feel's like it's getting like slowly pushed out and it's the kind of feeling you get when your at the bottom of a deep pool and your blew out all your air and your just sitting there with no air if you know what Im talking about kind of a weird squeezing feeling? Am I putting it in far enough or am I even putting it in right or is something wrong with me!? (link)
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make sure when you insert the tampon you don't push it directly straight up, push it towards you at an angle. and make sure the WHOLE tampon goes. the only thing that should be hanging out is the string. it might feel weird at first but you'll get used to it. plus your body is not used to it, so if you use it often (like i do) it will be no problem. and make sure you tuck the string outside your undies so the string is visible, so you can easily pull it out, and you'll see after keep on trying you wont feel it at all! good luck!
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Hi :D. So here goes.. I relly like this girl but we live millions of miles away. I have dated a girl before that lives in the same area as her and it worked out really well.. So the girl i like has made a promise to her self that she will only date when she turns 16. She is 15 now and turns 16 in October. I am willing to wait until she is ready to date again but do you think she will still like me in 3 months time..?
Thanks
-J ;) (link)
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I think that there is a HUGE chance that she will darling! And she promises to still like u in 3 months :)
and ill have u know that is tht cutest thing ever :)
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so you said i should talk to this guy and get to know more about him , because obviously i hardly know anything about him.
but the thing is what do i talk about ??
i hardly have a clue on how to talk to this guy??
how do i start talking to this guy???? (link)
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Okay, well if you have any classes together, or same classes you can start up a conversation about that. Or talk about your favorite music and his. Places you like to go, and ask him. Maybe you could invite him and some of his friends and some of your to the movies or somewhere else to hang out. That way you are close to his friends too. And that way you aren't just alone with him, so it won't be as ackward. You could ask people that are mutual friends between you guys how is he. That way you kind of get to see what other people think he is like. Just treat him like any other guy that you have as a friend. Because you want that friend relationship before you go into a relationship. Hope that helps...
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i really like this guy a lot. and i think he knows that i like him too cause i make it look pretty obvious. Sometimes i would catch him looking at me and sometimes he would stand really really close to me that my back would brush against him. sometimes he would come up to me and say half a sentence but then stop and just leave, sometimes he would ignore me and try not to notice me. he keeps giving me mixed signals which confuses me. and i am too nervous to talk to him to make the first move..we've really never talked to each other before but say hi.
so one day i decided to ignore him when he was walking past me , and i think i kinda hurt him...
i am very confused ...does he like me or not like me?? why does he keep giving mixed signals?? should i make the first move? (link)
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From what your saying im not completely sure if he does like you. Because most of the time guys will show that they like you and want to be around you. They make it pretty well known. But, you might want to try talking to him. Get to know him better, because from what you said you don't know much about him. You like the idea of him. You might get to know him and him not be who you think he is. And lots of times, i've done this before, you like someone so you kinda make every little thing that they do into something bigger then it is.
So I think that you should just try to start talking to him. And get to know him better. Because he can't really like you unless he knowns you. And once you too start talking, ya'll will get to know eachother, and maybe something can happen. Hope I helped. Keep my informed on what happens :)
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i know of this guy and i think he is soo hot lol. i have a friend that is friends with him and we're hanging out soon. should i ask about him? how should i casually bring it up. i want to meet him soo bad. any ideas without making me sound desperate/creepy lol. (link)
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I think you should just ask her about him. GO FOR IT! Just casually bring it up in conversation. Maybe ya'll can start talking about guys and you could just bring him up. And ask about how they know eachother and tell her you think he's cute and would like to meet him. Most people like hooking other people up, so maybe she'll even make the effort to fix you to up. Hope I helped.
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im recently single and my friends keep trying to get me with my best friend who already has a girlfriend. me and him are close enough to talk about anything in the world but friends try so hard to the point its not funny any more we used to joke and hed hold me as they freakout. he trusts me that i like him and his gf together, their perfect. i cant convince my friends to stop how do i? their mind is set, but so is mine as im not gonna be with him him and his girl are amazing together. im proud of him (link)
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You need to tell your friends how you feel in a serious tone. Tell them that you are honestly happy for him and his gf. And all you want it to be friends with him. They need to understand that it has gone to far. If they are your real friends they will understand how you feel and hopefully stop.
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