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Experimenting gone WRONG!
I'm 17 a female in high school. I've always thought I was straight. I usually tend to masturbate and watch lesbian porn. I never thought much of it until I met a girl who was a lesbian, she was a senior just a grade older than me. She told me all kinds of things and I really started to get curious about being with a girl. It went from being curious to really craving being with a girl. I talked to my friend and told her I've wanted to explore my sexuality and she told me she would gladly help me. We became close friends and socialized a lot! A few days ago I went over and we ended up making out and fingering each other and other stuff. I had slept over so we decided to do those things since we'd be together all night anyway. It was honestly amazing! I have never felt so attracted to someone not even towards a man. The strange part is I went to the rest room a little bit after and I could of sworn her mom was right by her door and heard the whole thing! She didn't tell me anything but she gives me this weird look. Her mom is actually quite beautiful and I've been fantasizing about her. I'm going to sleep over again and I feel so uncomfortable because of the mom.. help!
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I would not worry about it at all, if her mom had a real issue or problem she would have made a scene right then about it. I know most parents are bit nosy more than they should be and some get more of an eyefull of what they wanted to see by accident. Around your age being caught masturbating etc is normal , so is experimenting with a friend. I was caught as well and I find most parents will not mention it again unless they do not approve. Parents now might be different but when I was 17 my mom would never tell me what she saw me doing was normal for my age. In the end have your fun don't worry about her mom.
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I don't see what went wrong with your experimenting if you actually liked it and intend to do so again.
Not many people are okay with others hearing or seeing them when they are having sex. The privacy makes us all feel more comfortable.
So You are concerned about not having total privacy and that is understandable. You and she may have to get together when ever she says her mom isn't home or find another place to do so, maybe at your home. When young and still living with parents, its hard to not have total privacy.
Mom may or may not have been hearing something and stopping by to take a listen to see if she heard correctly. Experimenting at this age is perfectly normal and in a year you'll be considered an adult anyways who can do as you please. Parents biggest concern is a daughter getting pregnant by having sex. If its not a male, than you cant get pregnant. THe only other concern would be if highly religious and believing that gay sex is a sin, that there may be an issue. Ask your friend if her mom said anything to her. If not, then its most likely okay with her.
If I heard some strange sounds from across the house, My first thought would be to go listen to see if it sounds like somebody choking on something, having trouble breathing or in some other medical situation that required calling 911. It could very well be that she came to listen to that very reason and once she realized what the sounds were, meant to give you privacy but couldnt move away fast enough to be discovered nearby. I wouldnt worry unless your girlfriend says her mom already told her she has a problem with that.
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