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time goes by too fast
im 15/f. never had a boyfriend or kiss :(. i feel like time is running out for me to just experiment. like i never got to go through that phase of a boyfriend for a week and then dump him. (not that i really wanted to.) i feel like by time i get a boyfriend, he'll be expecting more from me than i've experienced. im not going to let him pressure me into doing anything but im just saying. i really dont even know what im asking advice for, but i guess i just need help on how to cope with this situation?
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Your not behind on anything, and your not falling behind. Im 16 and I myself have never had a boyfriend. But experimenting is basically with every guy you will date in the future until you get married, it's like every guy is just an experiment. When you do get your first boyfriend and if he expects to much outta you, what I would do if I was you is tell him youve never had a boyfrined before and your not ready to do all this stuff. If he really liked you he would understand. Thats how you can tell if the guy really likes you also. Just wait it out your time will come. And when it does have fun it will all be worth it. Hope I helped !!
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I don't know from which part of world you are? But your question holds lot of importance for you and for all those who have just reached the teenage phase of their life.
At the age of 15, it is nothing unusual of arising feelings to have a boy friend, being kissed from him, and some absurd desire of directly or indirectly getting pleasure. It happens and this is a natural phenomenon caused by hormonal changes in your body. At this age you may be allured when you see kissing and hugging and your mind will give provocation to happen the same with your self. But remember this is the most vulnerable phase of your life, if you don't hold your emotions then anyone can misguide you for his evil intentions often leading to sexual exploitation.
Your question is the mixture of wild feelings and emotions that you have to control, so when you grow a fine groomed lady and a perfect female, you don't have to regret upon your past action. When you will understand all this, then you will become mature enough to judge a responsible partner,,,or in your terms--your boy friend.
After reading this if still any doubt or query remains in your mind, please feel free to contact, mumbo_molu@yahoo.com...or provide your feedback to me.
Thanks and regards
mumbo_molu
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ok I see your problem, I was worried too. I accually had never had a boyfriend until I was 15. and when I did it was ok. but the second boyfriend wanted alot more. I never even kissed the first one! but when the time came I just straight up told him I was unprepared. and I didnt know what I was doing. he just said he woud teach me haha, so you have no worries, the time will come when you learn these things. if you have a caring boyfriend you should trust him and he should wait and understand your situation and how you feel. he shouldnt expect more than you can handle and I think you should just be honest with him about it. I was. and it worked out ok. It was comforting to just let him know I had no idea what I was doing! :) it made me feel lame but.. it was better than embarassing myself :P
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Haha girl trust me! College is exploration world! Your not running out of time your time has just began. I've been there done that! Hunnie your going to gain so much experience by the time your out of college you'll be laughing at yourself for ever thinking you were running out of time. Kids in college don't always care if you've got what they want! They'll teach you hwo to do it!XD Those crazy kids! You'd be surprised but if your really worried just go up to a cute guy and be yourself and get that boyfriend you need! Hope I helped! =)
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Don't worry about it. Your time will come.
You're not 'runnning out of time' because you're only 15. I know people that haven't had
a boyfriend/kiss yet.
And don't worry, guys just complicate things sometimes anyways.
Like I said, don't worry about it, your time will come. Everything will work out just fine =]
<3 Laura.
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