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im shy, quiet, & i dont really talk to people who im not friends with. so one of my biggest problems is making friends. whenever my friends and i hang out with guys, im always ignored. i dont wanna be a whore or anything but just to talk to people. id say all of my friends are ALOT prettier than me (and dont tell me that 'your sure thats not true' cause it is lol)
for example, i was with friend A hanging out at someones house the other night. there were two really hot guys, and guess who they fall for without even knowing her? friend A! at first im just like whatever but then every guy, even the not hot ones were all over her. and here i am chillin all quiet. then i just ignored it cause it happens all the time but then one of the weirdest guys there started talking to me. then i felt like scum. lol.
can i get some tips on how to make friends, flirt, or just not be ignored? thanks in advance!
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Why not just try to join in the conversation? Don't allow yourself to be ignored. Tell a funny joke you know. If there's a guy there you don't know, ask what school he goes to. Just stick with the friends you came with and join in the conversations.
If you sit in the corner, act timid, and allow yourself to be ignored, no one is going to want to approach you. But if you have conversations with people and act confident, you'll get a lot more attention.
Once you start coming out of your shell and start having simple conversations with people, if the guys still don't give you attention, then who needs them? Who says the only guys in the world are the ones your friends hang out with?
Instead of sitting at a party where you feel uncomfortable and like "scum," go out and do something fun and meet people that way. Join a club or sport. Get a job. There's lots of ways to meet new people in the environment of your choice.
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