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So I'm going to be 17 in 3 days and I've only been asked out three times and i've only had 1 boyfriend. Nobody asked me to prom last year. In fact I've never been asked to any dance or party.
People tell me i'm really pretty but I feel like the ugliest troll in the entire world.
I have to go back to school soon for my senior year and I start to cry even thinking about it because I know I'm going to be surrounded by over 1,000 gorgeous rich girls that make me look like a pile of trash.
I think everybody looks down at me because I'm short for my age and so they see me as a little kid (I'm 5ft exactly). Like I'll try to talk to the popular preppy girls and they'll just roll their eyes at me.
One of them talked to me once in my television productions class and I was so shocked that I asked her if she was talking to me or somebody behind me. I couldn't believe that they even noticed my existence.
I've tried dying my hair different colors (brown and blonde) and being as skinny as possible (I'm 75 pounds) and I put on makeup and dress nicely.
I try to be funny,smart and empathic and the friends I do have love me for it and people come looking for me to give them advice and a shoulder to lean on all the time.
When I got my senior portraits done the photographer told me I should be a model because I was so pretty.
I don't know what's wrong with me I must be some sort of freak. I feel so horrible about myself I just want to disappear.
I don't know what more I can do to make myself look like something more then a stepping stone.
I fear that I'm never going to amount to anything and that nobody will ever love me and that I'm either going to get murdered or that I'll live out my life completely alone and die without ever knowing what love is.
Please give me some advice.
Thank You so much.
Woah. It sounds like you have A LOT of self-esteem issues. Firstly if everyone thinks that you are beautiful and that you could be a model, they're not ALL lying. Secondly, the reason guys don't ask you out is because you're not confident. I don't have to know you to know that. I can see and hear it from this post. You feel invisible but do you do things to be noticed? Guys like confident girls who know what they want. You know that one "popular" girl in class who is always laughing and flirting with guys. She's not getting the guys because she's popular, she's popular because she knows how to get the guys. For example, I'm not the prettiest girl in my class, but I am the one who knows how to talk to people, I entertain people, I make them laugh and people like to laugh. They like to hang out with people who give them something to talk about or remember. If you feel like a piece of trash stepping stone, thats going to come out no matter what. I don't think the problem is your looks, its your personality. And please don't start feeling bad about your personality. Your biggest flaw is your lack of self-confidence and love for who you are which is really quite sad but much better than arrogance. I think the first thing you need to do is work on learning who you are and who you want to be and sticking to it. You need to learn that there are 6 billion people on this planet and you can't have all of them like YOU. You can't even guarantee that one of them will like you but what you can do is make sure YOU are the best possible person you can be. What is the use of a million people liking you if you don't like yourself. You said you have friends and you've had a boyfriend so obviously you are likable but you still feel like shit inside because you don't respect and love yourself. Instead of searching for OTHER people's love, give yourself some. I would look online for some ways to gain confidence and love yourself and some support groups because there are tons of people out there who just can't see how special they could be and what they have to offer the world. Good luck and I hope you find the beauty of not being perfect. xxx
I am 14 years old. Turning 15 in 4 months and going into grade 10. I havent even started my period yet, all my frends have gotten theirs. I have very small hardly noticeable breasts, i dont wear a bra and i have been like this since grade 7, my breasts have not made any size difference. i have a little hair under my arms and fewer hair in my vagina. i have never had this "discharge" everyone talks about. i am really worried, i know everyone says that its not something to look forward too but every girl wants it. i get made fun of alot,, i dont have someone i can turn to talk about this and i cant stop thinking about it. i cry alot about this. can any body help me out there?
How old was your mom when she got her period? My mom was fairly early (11) so I got mom pretty early too (12). My friend got hers this year... I'm now 18 but her mom got her period at 17. Also some girls just develop later than others but if you're really worried you should talk to your mom about it or if you're not comfortable with that, find the nearest clinic and go with a friend or by yourself and get some tests done. I think it is still a bit too early to worry since there are lots of girl who only get there period at 15-16. Consider yourself lucky. Once you get your period you'll be wishing for the days when you didn't have to worry about leaking, forgetting to bring pads or tampons to school or getting it before nice holidays at the beach.. In the meantime you can always wear a AA bra with padding, maybe a good push up from Victoria's secret. Unfortunately for some girls even after they get their period they barely have boobs so just use what they do to make themselves look bigger if it really bothers you that much. Good luck! xxx
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. I kinda screwed it up in the beginning by involving another guy. Its complicated and not going in depth about it. Anyways, things are a lot better now :) I'm finally beginning to feel like there is nothing to worry about. except this. He's been having these bad dreams a lot lately. Dreams about me cheating on him etc. I told him they were just bad dreams and that I would never ever do that to him. He believes me but he still has these dreams. He's getting really paranoid about them and i'm scared he will let these dreams get to him and break up with me. I'm looking at buying him a dream catcher to hopefully help get rid of the bad dreams. I've tried reassuring him that I'm insanely in love with him. But i'm just so worried about this now too. What should I do?? And why does he always have these dreams??
(Sorry for the long reply.) Personally when I worry a lot about something, I will most likely dream about it. For example, I'm deadly scared of mummies but fascinated by them at the same time. I made the mistake of watching a program about them on National Geographic complete with scary music and unnaturally low narrator's, three days later had a horrible nightmare about being trapped inside a pyramid with tens of thousands of them seeping through the walls and down the corridors to the last chamber in which I was stuck. Long story short, you should try talking to him about his worries and also telling him the more he worries the more dreams he is going to have. You can research more online with him about our daily worries or even simple encounters appearing in our dreams. One last example, I saw a simple status from an old friend that said "So happy today." Haven't really seen any posts from her in ages but that night I had a really random dream and she appeared in it for about 2% of the dream. It's normal for people to dream about things they've been thinking about so it's probably not the dreams you should be worrying about but the underlying feelings he's not showing you that is causing them. Good luck with everything! Maybe even show him this post to show how serious you are! xxx
Alright, so my best friend from high school and I attend different colleges, about an hour away from each other. We occasionally make the trip to each other's school to hangout but it only happens once in a while due to lack of money and busy schedules. Anyways, I've just moved into a new apartment and my friend has been saying how she really wants to come see my new place and I've been wanting to go down there to see her and hangout. Well I found out tonight that she's in town (where I go to school/live) and didn't get ahold of me. I found out through a mutual friend of ours who she's been having a "thing" with for a year or so now (he's a guy, by the way). But they're all just hanging out and whatnot, so it's not like a date or something. He mentioned it to me and when I asked her she said she was "literally just going to ask if I had to work tomorrow" even though we had been talking all night. I suppose I don't really need advice, just clarification as to if it's a valid reason to be upset with her. Thanks! :)
I think it is a valid reason and besides, if you guys are really best friends, even if you were slightly jealous and upset over something insignificant she should respect those feelings anyway whether they can be justified or not. If she was my best friend though, I would worry.
18/f
I really want to get a tattoo. I was thinking about getting one on the back of my shoulder, so where my shoulder blade would be. I really want something meaningful but I can't think of the perfect idea.
I want something with a saying or word. I love sayings that mean something.. here are some examples of what I like
-thats life
-stay strong
-no regrets
-life goes on
something along those lines.. I'm also fine with some designs like hearts and butterflies or stars.. but I would like there to be a saying too. The saying can be in english or another language is fine too- latin, italian, french, (just not spanish please).
Oh and I don't want it to be too big. I'm thinking maybe 3 inches wide and tall? Anybody have pictures or ideas?
Oh and if you've gotten a tattoo before, did it hurt? I'm kind of worried about the pain. Did you regret it? Thanks!
I'm going to get the quote the journey is the reward above my left hip with a small heart. I haven't gotten a tattoo but a lot of my friends have them and the one on your shoulder blade would hurt more than the one on your lower back because it always hurts more on an area where the bone is closer to the surface. Good luck!
Which are not safe dogs for families. We are looking for a dog that is safe, doesnt shed and still protects the house
Your best choice I think would be either a Golden Labrador retriever or a Labrador retriever if you don't have any real experience training dogs. However if you do have experience I would go with an Alaskan Malamute, they're very lovable and gentle with children yet they make for great guard dogs however they can be aggressive if not trained properly therefore if you don't want to put in a lot of time and effort doing your reading go with the first two. One thing to remember is that no matter what dog you end up choosing it is best to do your research on that dog including traits, history common health problems, diet, etc. Dogs are a great addition to a family, they're been proven to make happier, healthier kids (when kids are young they actually help strengthen their immune system!) but they need to be walked usually around 2 hours a day, once for an hour in the morning and once for an hour in the evening unless you have a really active walk where they have to focus and are able to get rid of all their energy. Now dogs to STAY AWAY FROM.
Chow Chow- may not like to be touched, aloof, independent
Terriers (Rat Terrier, Jack Russell)- bred to kill vermin, often avoided due to tendency to nip, sometimes too hyper
Chihuahua- any toy breed is too small and delicate for kids, ex. breaking a leg falling off a bed, and may be intimidated and snap
Belgian Malinois- the author owns 3, but admits like many herding/protection breeds, they are too high-energy, high-drive and too impulsive to be suitable as a child's pet
Cane Corso- Large, very powerful, and may not tolerate children well
Border Collie- any herding breed is not the best choice, may try to "herd" children by nipping, some have fear/anxiety issues and may bite, very energetic
South African Boerboel- can be dominant, too over-protective, and are very large and powerful
Siberian Husky- the CDC considers them high risk for bites
Doberman- territorial, and some may be too protective over children
Shar Pei- guard dog instincts, independent
Actually I would stay away from most Asian dogs. Not being racist here for those EXTRA SENSITIVE people out there -__- But Akita's, Chow Chow's, Shar Pei's, etc. Not the best choice.
Anyways feel free to ask me more questions once you've picked the dog! Sorry for the late reply! I was on holiday. Enjoy your new dog!
Hello. This summer I'm going to be traveling a lot with my family. Mostly around europe. I'm looking to make some money before school starts so that way I can buy a new wardrobe and some other things I need. Getting a job isn't going to be helpful considering I'll be traveling the whole summer. I won't know anyone (except my family) in europe so there's no way I could babysit or anything. I was thinking.. is it possible to get paid by giving out advice to people online? It doesn't have to be advicenators. But perhaps I could make my own website (which I can already do) and have a PayPal option where they pay me (not expensive) maybe a dollar each time they ask a question? or maybe even less like .50 cents?
I give out advice on this website and majority of the time I get 5 ratings. My friends also say I give out great advice to them when they need help, so since giving out advice and helping others is my passion and hobby, would it be wise to get paid while giving out advice?
please voice your opinions and thoughts. How much money do you think I should ask for each question? should I make it a donation type of thing? (so its not mandatory to pay, only volunteer pay)
Oh and I'm also really into photography. I just bought a really nice camera for 300 dollars and taking photography classes. Since i'll be in europe, I'm going to bring my camera with me and take many pictures. Perhaps I could sell some of my pictures too? Any opinions on this? Thank you!
I'm pretty sure that people who give advice/answer questions on ChaCha already get paid around 25-75 cents per questions. Worth checking it out. I doubt anyone will want to buy your pictures unless they're for a magazine since everyone will have their cameras and people in Europe won't need photos of Europe.. I suggest you look for a job before you go to Europe in your hometown first because that is most likely where you will get the money from. Just little errands around, thats how I made my money for my Eurotrip. If you can't find anything check out Chacha. Lots of people use it and the more questions you answer the more you get paid so really your salary depends on you.
crazy hair day is coming up at my school and I want to do something really amazing or at least amazingly stupid looking. So either crazy amazing or crazy stupid! LOL! Would you all please give me your crazy hair day ideas? I will leave ratings for everybody!
Well i gave myself an afro and then randomly stuck chocolate bars and put candy in it and big pink bows and did like white underliner dust powder with a really pretty pink eye shadow and everyone said i looked really cute but like also it was really crazy! One tip i have though is don't make a really circular afro because it could look weird. like it wasn't all of my hair in an afro. it was kinda like rihanna's afro in rude boy. the zebra scene? it was just the front and the rest was in two braids on each side. it\'s kind of hard to describe but hopefully you can picture it. also i streaked my hair in rainbow and did my lips in rainbow lipgloss. it looked amazing and i won the competition. i'd wear a pink dress if you have one kind of like people at ice cream shops wear or in christina aguileras candyman video? :) good luck! hope i helped!
I know everybody is into stick straight hair these days, but I have stick straight hair and I hate it! Seriously, the only time I am really happy with my hair is when it is wavy. How do I do a wavy perm? Is this something that I should do at a salon or can I do this at home? If I give myself a home permanent, do I need to have somebody else there to help me?
Can you tell I've never done this before? :-)
I would NEVER do a home perm. Go to a salon and ask them to perm your hair curly. You should first find a picture or what kind of curls you want. Like Taylor Swift tight ringlets or big Beyonce curls or just a bit wavy like Selena Gomez. Good luck! If you have any more questions just ask. Hope I helped.
This girl and i have been talking and going on dates for awhile now, and we have been basically an unoffial couple for over a year but have been extremly like one since december. In this time we go on dates, in which i pay, constantly, we see eachother a lot even if for 5 mins to get a jamba. We dont go to the same school so it makes it difficult to see eachother often but we manage. We call eachother baby and honey and act like a couple. We just went to prom together in March and have contiued to stay as we have been up to now. And i am planning on asking her to be my girlfriend. Yet recently she has been recontectting with this guy named brandon who she has been friends with from awhile, three years ago she liked him, a lot, and she says hes one of her bestfriends. she helped him get together with his last gf but was always trying to get closer to him I worry she is liking him again and that she is just dragging me along. I am really annoyed at her recently as she invited him to a prom at her church. She had asked him if he go on a date with her and he said yeah then she asked him and he was like no i dont want to but she was like i want you to be my date. I was kinda shocked that she had asked him and i became distant in my text messages after she told me. then she sends me this "Haha well I was gonna ask you but then you didn't seem like you had fun at your prom and so then the thing with brandon happened and I thought it'd be funny to ask him and go as friends lol he is gonna fight jd and tanner at once :D" and then we talked about how we did have fun and she was like yeah we both did. But it still annoys me she asked him and i am having troubles trusting him as a friend. What do yall think? what should i do? Im kinda lost and confused and hope im not overreacting.
I think the best thing is to tell her that you feel uneasy about her asking him and that you would have preferred her at least asking you first and if you didn't want to go you would of just told her. You should also tell her that you want her to be your girlfriend and if she's just messing around with you and she's not sure after an entire year of going on dates and you paying and calling each other baby and honey whether she wants to be your girlfriend or not and if she still likes Brandon that you don't want to be going on dates anymore because honestly if she does say she's not sure she's just dragging you around and trying to see if Brandon will go to her but keeping you around as a security blanket. Don't let her play around with you! But if she says that she didn't know you felt insecure and apologizes and everything is fine then well you have nothing to worry about! :) Hope I helped? Good luck!
19f.
please don't ask if it's the right guy or anything of that. this is someone i'm not dating but close with - don't judge. i'm not asking IF i should have sex with him or not i'm asking how to make it happen.
to be honest i'm not one of those girls comfortable with the dirty talk. i'm to the point of just wanting to jump on this guy everytime i see him hahaa and i know he would have sex with me in a second i just don't know how to bring it up. whenever we talk or see each other he always starts the inappropriate talk that i like, and i just go along with it. he will even text me just being like "wanna fuck?"
i just don't think i could ever text him asking that ha. i'm done with the whole "just watch a movie together" blah blah blah..
basically i want to say something to him that will make him just really want me and make it known i want to have sex with him. maybe this will be more of a friends with benefits situation but i'm fine with that. don't give me a big speech about it i know what i'm doing with that part i just need to make it actually happen.
even just texting him i could say something or next time i see him but i think i'd be more shy when saying it in person because like i said .. i'm bad with the dirty talk.
any suggestions? thanks!:)
Well if he says wanna fuck again or something along those lines you can be like "I'm waiting" and then text your address of something with a wink and then put haha. and he should get the hint but like if he shows his friends or anything to show off you can always say it was just a joke. Like something that could be a joke but where he would know its not like that. I used that with my old fuck buddy and it was great. He actually came over haha. But not before he asked me. Try it? Or if you want something less edgy ask me.
So I really need some unbiased advice here. I am currently attending a community college. I enrolled here with the intent of getting in my basic classes at a cheaper cost and transferring to a 4 year university after my second year of community college. I didn't do well in high school (averaged a 2.6), didn't graduate and had to finish via night school. I've changed my ways and am now a straight A student. It's definitely crunch time, I need to pick a major/school in the very near future but in order to choose what college or university to transfer to, I first need to choose my career path and choose the school based off that.
I have NO idea what career I want to go into. I love art. I love drawing and painting and designing things and I'm really good at it. If the economy and money was not a factor honestly my dream job would be buying, redesigning, renovating, and selling homes. HOWEVER, living comfortably is definitely important to me, my dad struggled with money when I was young and I don't want to deal with that. The economy isn't in a place to foster that kind of home buying profit anymore and I realize that....so I'm looking into other areas.
I would also love interior design, but I live with my dad and he has nothing but negative things to say about the entire art/design field because "it's completely dependent on the economy, and you'll always be moving around chasing the jobs that will never be there".
For a brief, and I do mean BRIEF time, I considered becoming an orthodontist. Mainly because it's one of the highest paying careers in America. Also I could complete my schooling through the US Army and get most of my school paid for in exchange for dental service to US troops after graduation. HA! looked into it, only credible dental school in Michigan (where I live) is University of Michigan....I would first have to transfer to UofM, once enrolled complete the prerequisites for admission to their dental school (They do not take dental admissions if you did your prerequisites at a community college), [ALL OF THIS WITH NO GUARANTEE OF EVEN GETTING INTO UofM DENTAL], then apply to UofM Dental...which, if I didn't get in the whole thing would have been a waste of time and a whole lot of money. Then once completing the dental program apply to the orthodontics program, which accepts 104 applicants out of 1400-2000 a year. With my high school record I doubt I'd ever see the inside of the door to the dental school.
Needless to say.....that idea is out.
So now I have no idea what to do. I would love to go to school out of state somewhere warm...maybe California or Texas...but I have two dogs that my family hardly pays attention to so I can't leave them and it would be really hard to take them with me to school out of state. So for their sake I need to stay in Michigan.
The only general school subject that I really enjoy is art. I don't hate English, but I certainly don't enjoy it. I'm not a science fan. Not good at math. History bores me to death.
I know a lot about computers because my dad has taught me a lot, but I don't enjoy working with them.
I speak and understand some Spanish, and I would like to minor in it and become a fluent speaker, but I wouldn't necessarily want that to be the highlight of my career.
I'm a good college student and I'm willing to put in the time and effort to get to a goal for whatever career I choose, I just have no idea what to do.
Law, medical, and science fields are definitely out.
I feel so lost. Every one of my classmates in high school seemed to know exactly what they wanted to do, or at least had a good idea....the whole time I just took classes to take classes. I really wish I had more direction for this...please help me.
Well you're good at computers but you love art and every other subject is generally a no? Well my brother is currently in school majoring in Graphic design? Maybe you can try that. Although a lot of it is on the computer you get to do art as well because your "designing" logos, advertisements, etc and everyone will see your designs. If you're good at art and good at computers then you'll be good at graphic design and they make a lot of money and it's a pretty secure job. You will most definitely find a job when you get out of university if you're good with computers. Companies are constantly looking for designs like Nike has the tick and Adidas has the stripes. It can simple like that or complicated. You can look up graphic design because I really don't know THAT much about it but you can just about design anything like clothes, packaging or cartoons, etc. Hope I helped? :/ Good luck! xxx
(this is not the dream, this is just an explanation) so my friend at school, R, and my other friend J are going out. we're all friends, but R recently went to rehab and so its just been me and J hanging out most of the time. also, i went through a bad breakup recently, so that might have something to do with this, if that helps.
this is the dream:
J and i went on vacation with my family. we were in a pretty messy room that was connected to a bathroom, without a door. there was all this junk everywhere. i think we were somewhere in the woods, in a cabin. anyways, my parents were downstairs along with my sister. it was kinda dark outside, and there were no lights on the inside. J and i start messing around, like getting into the missionary position with out clothes on, and then he says "wanna seal the deal?" which i'm guessing meant he wanted to fuck, and i said "what about R?" and he's like "oh, good point" and gets off of me. then i go to the bathroom and took a shower. when i came back, J was still on the bed and i got on top of him and we took off eachother's clothes and started having sex. i couldnt feel anything, but we kept going. then iheard my little sister coming upstairs and he pulled it out, and i swear, it was about as big around as a pencil and as long as my middle finger. and so i'm thinking "thats why i didnt feel anything" and then he disappears and my family and i start picking up all the junk laying around everywhere and pack up and go home.
*end of dream*
anyone know what any of this might mean? it might be totally pointless, but it confused me because i dont feel that way towards J and i wouldnt ever do anything to hurt R. thanks for any answers.
Maybe since J and you have been hanging out so much you're worried that he may have feelings for you hence the sex part of the dream and you rejecting, and you're worried you'll do something stupid with him one day but you won't feel anything because you don't have any feelings for him and he doesn't really have any feelings for you because he just left before you guys packed up and went home. If you feel like you two are getting too close or your teenage hormones are raging just because his girlfriend went to rehab then just don't hang out alone or try to keep hanging out to a minimum. Good luck. Hope I helped? That's just my interpretation but I could be totally wrong.
is there any home remedys for treating sweaty plams ?
Hyperhidrosis is a fairly common disorder shared by millions across the world. By definition, Hyperhidrosis is the excessive sweating of the head, face, hands, feet and armpits no matter the temperature or conditions.
The sweating is erratic, unpredictable and uncontrollable. You do have some options.
To stop the excessive sweating try:
1. Drysol
Drysol is a prescription deodorant that works wonders for underarm, hand and foot sweating. Apply it to your hands, feet, armpits or anywhere else you sweat at night before bed. You only need to apply it once a day - it's not like regular deodorant. This stuff is Clinical Strength. Beware of irritation with Drysol. You may have to take a day or two off from this treatment if your skin gets too dry, sensative or red with a rash.
2. Drink more water to lower your body temperature.
A lot of people are confused by this solution. They think if they drink more water, it will give them that much more fluid to sweat out. This is totally incorrect. Drinking more water cools your core temperature and will alleviate some of the excessive sweating. Of course now you'll need to worry about all those bathroom breaks. :)
3. Drink Green Tea or Sage Tea at night
Tea contains an astringent property which will dry out oils and prevent excess moister from escaping the skin. It essentially drys you from the inside out.
In addition to helping your complexion, green tea will neutralize many of the toxins that create the pungent odor in sweat. By the way, that odor is caused by bacteria that treats your sweat as a breeding ground. Gross!
4. Try Certain Dri (non-prescription deodorant)
You can buy this one at most pharmacies. Certain dry is a little less abrasive than Drysol so you won't need to worry as much about irritation. It is however a little less strong. You'll want to gauge your level of Hyperhidrosis by first trying Certain Dri. If your sweating continues, upgrade to Drysol and that should do the trick.
5. Avoid spicy foods, alcohol and caffeine
Don't underestimate the power of your diet. Onions, Garlic, Curry, Coffee and a whole host of other ingredients are powerful triggers for hyperhidrosis sweating. Cut out some of these cultprits and see gradual but noticeable results. Add leafy greens and tea into your diet for a positive effect on sweating. Changing your diet will really cut out the spontaneous sweating from your daily lunch breaks.
6. Try Iontophoresis treatments.
This is more of a phase 3 solution. Try the clinical deodorants and diet fixes first. However, there is a treatment called Iontophoresis where you place your hands and feet into bowls or plates. The plates are filled with mineral water. Connected to the plates is an Iontophoresis electromagnetic device. Gentle electic pulses are distributed through mineral water. The minerals bond and temporarily change the nature of your sweat pores to block the sweat. This treatment works well. You can learn about it through the Source link I've provided below.
7. Try a Sage Tea Soak
There's something called a Sage Tea solution what you do is...
a. Buy Sage Tea from your supermarket
b. Fill a large bowl with room temperature water
c. Put the sage tea bags in the bowl and let the tea dissolve a bit.
d. soak your hands for 15 minutes in the bowl.
Sage Tea will act as an astringent to dry the skin and prevent excessive sweating for many days to follow.
Don't just do this soak one day. Do it everyday for 5 days straight (15 minutes at a time) and you'll see great results.
If your hands tan from the tea, just wash them in the sink with antibacterial soap. The residue will come off easily.
8. ETS (Endoscopic Thorasic Surgery)
If the sweating is bad enough, some people will opt towards ETS (Endoscopic Thorasic Surgery). This is, however, a LAST resort. I recommend you try everything else possible before opting towards surgery. You can speak with your Dermatologist to find out more.
Hope I helped
Today i have been wearing an "emma" push up bra from the store aerie. it is the first day that i was wearing it. I was wearing it starting at 6:40 or 50. At around 11:40 in spanish class, the upper left side of my chest began to pinch and sting. I have bad anxiety so i suddenly thought omg! what if i have a heart problem??" then i tried to get my mind off of it. Then the pain moved to the left and back to the right. it caused me to burp and feel nauseous. thats when i for sure thought that it was anxiety until i thought about my bra. me and my friend traded bras in the girls bathroom because her's wasn't a mega push up bra. My chest felt slightly better but then came back worse within minutes. I live in new jersey so it is normally cold and now it is turning into spring. Maybe its allergies or my asthma? i have seasonal asthma only when allergies get bad. i have veryyy bad allergies. Do you think i pulled a muscle? dehidrated? ( weather increased to 86 degrees) i can't breathe out of my nose currently. What do YOU think is wrong with me? I will be seeing a doctor probably very soon but what do YOU think?
I think you're making this way to big of a deal. If you have allergies already or some form of asthma and then you were wearing a mega push up bra it probably just means your chest was constrained adn your bra was too tight causing you to have even more trouble breathing which caused the pain in your chest because your lungs were working double time trying to get oxygen and they had trouble expanding because your bra was constricting them. Try not wearing the push up bra for a couple of days and then if the pain comes back go and see a doctor. Happens to me a lot when I wear a really tight bra. Good luck. Hope I helped
When I get turned on and get wet, it always smells funny. I was just wondering if most other girls experience this? like, do yall just smell like peaches down there? or is there no smell at all?
I wash every day..and I don't think I have anything wrong with me just because I can't remember it not being like this and I don't have any symptoms of anything.
If it smells like peaches its fine. You should be worried if it smelt like fish or pee. That means you don't shower often enough or you should douche. It's actually good your vagina smells good like that. All the guys I dated love it. :) They think its amazing that your vagina smells like fruit because not all girls smell sweet. Some just don't smell like anything or they smell bad. LOL. Hope I helped :)
Hey all,
I get really horny when I have my periods. I was just wondering if this is normal because of all the hormones in my body or was it something else?
Thanks in advance
Yes this is normal. It is scientifically proven that whilst girls are on their period their sex drive is more active and they look for men that aren't necessarily their type but who look and act like their could quench their thirst for sex. So if you get with a guy on your period don't expect it to last long. LOL. I use to think this was all bullshit but looking back most of my boyfriends that are assholes got with me whilst I was on my period. Hope I helped.
When you've loved someone and have waited for them for seven years straight(continue to)--would this be considered as love or lust?
Love
The only computer in my house is in my room. My dad is the only one who used it today and in a minimized window is "Literotica." I flipped back through the pages and he's reading titles in the Incest section under the searches "love," "lust," and "daddy."
I am his only daughter. I'm 17. He's 60.
I'm really disturbed. I've seen it on the history before but I've figured, everyone has strange fetishes. But incest?! This is really grossing me out. I feel like I have to hide my body now around him. I dress like most teenage girls-- short shorts, low cut tops-- and now I just want to cover up and die.
Should I bring it up with my mom? She's the only other one living in the house. I'm too embarrassed to tell my boyfriend. This is just so weird. My dad's seriously not a creep or a perv, this is just so unexpected.
Thanks for any advice =/
He's probably only typing in incest because those are the only videos where 60 year old guys get to fuck 16 year old girls. I'm sure its nothing to worry about and hes not thinking about you specifically. Every old guy dreams of having a young hot girl and like I said thats normally what incest is. Not like you type in hot young chick and the guy she's fucking is practically bald and wrinkly? You see? Don't bring it up with your mom cuz she might tell your dad and then it will be RLY akward especially if its nothing cuz then he might try to "talk" to you about it and like explain everything... And I'd just die if my dad did that. If you don't feel comfortable dressing like that just cover up until you go out and wear those shorts underneath sweats that you can just take off until the whole thing blows over. Good luck! Hope I helped :/
17/f I have a reputation in school as a boyfriend stealer. The friends I do have, don't ever let me meet there boyfriends or near boys they like. I don't mean to take anyones boyfriend, and I never date any of my friends boyfriends but they always end up liking me. I really don't know why I'm just myself and
nice. But I was wondering on ways to NOT flirt.
Don't make any physical contact and stay away from them when you're with your friends. For example if you go for dinner sit next to two girls not the boy. If the guy makes fun of you just laugh. Don't say anything playful back. For example, "Yea but Jessicas always falling down the stairs." Don't say something back. For example "Yea but you're always tripping UP the stairs Jared." And then laugh. Cuz guys do take that as flirting. Definitely don't give the guy your email or your phone number and if he asks you in front of everyone and you do give it to him don't text him back if he does cuz that probably means he's in the beginning stages of liking you anyways. Hope I helped? :/