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Im dating this girl but we arent bf/gf yet and problems with her guy friend
This girl and i have been talking and going on dates for awhile now, and we have been basically an unoffial couple for over a year but have been extremly like one since december. In this time we go on dates, in which i pay, constantly, we see eachother a lot even if for 5 mins to get a jamba. We dont go to the same school so it makes it difficult to see eachother often but we manage. We call eachother baby and honey and act like a couple. We just went to prom together in March and have contiued to stay as we have been up to now. And i am planning on asking her to be my girlfriend. Yet recently she has been recontectting with this guy named brandon who she has been friends with from awhile, three years ago she liked him, a lot, and she says hes one of her bestfriends. she helped him get together with his last gf but was always trying to get closer to him I worry she is liking him again and that she is just dragging me along. I am really annoyed at her recently as she invited him to a prom at her church. She had asked him if he go on a date with her and he said yeah then she asked him and he was like no i dont want to but she was like i want you to be my date. I was kinda shocked that she had asked him and i became distant in my text messages after she told me. then she sends me this "Haha well I was gonna ask you but then you didn't seem like you had fun at your prom and so then the thing with brandon happened and I thought it'd be funny to ask him and go as friends lol he is gonna fight jd and tanner at once :D" and then we talked about how we did have fun and she was like yeah we both did. But it still annoys me she asked him and i am having troubles trusting him as a friend. What do yall think? what should i do? Im kinda lost and confused and hope im not overreacting.
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I think the best thing is to tell her that you feel uneasy about her asking him and that you would have preferred her at least asking you first and if you didn't want to go you would of just told her. You should also tell her that you want her to be your girlfriend and if she's just messing around with you and she's not sure after an entire year of going on dates and you paying and calling each other baby and honey whether she wants to be your girlfriend or not and if she still likes Brandon that you don't want to be going on dates anymore because honestly if she does say she's not sure she's just dragging you around and trying to see if Brandon will go to her but keeping you around as a security blanket. Don't let her play around with you! But if she says that she didn't know you felt insecure and apologizes and everything is fine then well you have nothing to worry about! :) Hope I helped? Good luck!
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