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want him so bad.
19f.
please don't ask if it's the right guy or anything of that. this is someone i'm not dating but close with - don't judge. i'm not asking IF i should have sex with him or not i'm asking how to make it happen.
to be honest i'm not one of those girls comfortable with the dirty talk. i'm to the point of just wanting to jump on this guy everytime i see him hahaa and i know he would have sex with me in a second i just don't know how to bring it up. whenever we talk or see each other he always starts the inappropriate talk that i like, and i just go along with it. he will even text me just being like "wanna fuck?"
i just don't think i could ever text him asking that ha. i'm done with the whole "just watch a movie together" blah blah blah..
basically i want to say something to him that will make him just really want me and make it known i want to have sex with him. maybe this will be more of a friends with benefits situation but i'm fine with that. don't give me a big speech about it i know what i'm doing with that part i just need to make it actually happen.
even just texting him i could say something or next time i see him but i think i'd be more shy when saying it in person because like i said .. i'm bad with the dirty talk.
any suggestions? thanks!:)
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Jesus Christ.
You're 20 years old. Either grow up, strip naked in the bathroom while he's over, and come out asking why he hasn't taken his clothes off yet, or speak your mind like an adult.
He's likely your age or older. He's been taught that guys who jump into sex without invitation are creepy and abusive. He's not all over you because you haven't given him clear communication that it's welcome and ok for him to be all over you.
Stop dancing around the damn issue already and speak up. On behalf of all adult guys who want to get laid and don't because of shit like this, open your mouth and tell the guy what you want/need.
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I think you should just ask him to come over and if he starts flirting just like..get on that hahaha! Just text him and be flirty and say something like "pleaseee come over" or something. He'll probably get it. If you know he would, then you just need to initiate it.
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Well if he says wanna fuck again or something along those lines you can be like "I'm waiting" and then text your address of something with a wink and then put haha. and he should get the hint but like if he shows his friends or anything to show off you can always say it was just a joke. Like something that could be a joke but where he would know its not like that. I used that with my old fuck buddy and it was great. He actually came over haha. But not before he asked me. Try it? Or if you want something less edgy ask me.
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