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i think i might be a lesbian. how do i tell? i mean i have had sex with guys before (only 5) but its getting boring...i mean i dont get off very easily anymore and i dont look forward to having sex. i mean the kissing and foreplay is fine but the actual pentrating kinda turns me off. could i be a lesbian or is there something wrong with me?
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This doesn't strike me as being a lesbian, friend. This strikes me as that the guys you have been with have not been satisfying you enough, whether it be they are not using enough foreplay, lubrication, etc. Maybe when they are penetrating you, they are being too rough wth you or not rough enough, considering everyone is different when it comes to getting turned on.
Maybe you should try oral sex with guys and see if that helps you to become more turned on, then try penetration. Everyone has different turn on's, just try to find yours. I don't think you're a lesbian at all, you just need to find what really turns you on and explain and suggest these things to the guy you are with.
Best of luck, friend.
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I guess the only way to really know is to just wait and see who your more attracted to men or women i mean if you find women more attractive then your obviously going to be fond of them and that could mean your a lesbian but if you think your attracted to both your bisexual meaning you like either or. Hope i helped :D
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