I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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This guy and I just started seeing each other like a week ago and last Saturday night he spent the night with me. We were at a mutual friends house and we slept on the couch together. It was great, I love feeling close to him after all the pain I've been put through in the past and I feel like I could trust him. But cuddling and kissing on the couch escalated quickly. With every touch it was like he waa asking permission. He knows what I've been through and I believe he is trying to make me comfortable with him? But it was all really fast at the same time. One minute I'm Laying beside him cuddling and the next I'm on top of him and he is kissing my neck and I know he wasn't trying to but he scared me. I made him stop and asked him if we could take a breather. He seemed fine, if not slightly disappointed. when he brought me home he texted me when he got back and kept apologizing and saying he didn't want to hurt me and that he wasn't sure anymore.... I'm so confused and I dont know what I did wrong (link)
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First of all you did nothing wrong. You simply did not feel comfortable moving forward with what was happening in that moment and asked him to stop. His reaction is normal as well. Like most guys he thought the kissing and cuddling would turn into something more and when it didn't he was a little disappointed. I think the best thing to do is to talk about it with him and just tell him you didn't feel comfortable going any further and that you hope hes k with that. If he is, Great! but if not then its k. Move at your own pace and don't let anyone make you do anything your not comfortable with intentionally or unintentionally. :)
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So the other day my 15 year old was on facebook and told us she was getting messages from this who is 18 who lives in California and we live in Georgia. My mom is raising her but my niece told us that this guy told her that if she didn't perform for him he would edit photos of her onto a naked body and post them on the internet. We went to the police and they said since he didn't do it he didn't commit a crime. I always thought this was illegal. Is there anything my mom and I can do about this legally? (link)
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Unfortunately legally nothing can be done until he actually does something and even then sometimes it can be difficult. The best thing to do is just block him and make sure all social media accounts have the appropriate privacy settings in place so he will not have access. If this guy is smart enough he will not actually do anything.
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I'm in 7th grade, and my boyfriend and I are being seriously stalked. A girl (the stalker) has a major crush on my boyfriend and therefore stalks both of us. My bf's personal login information is her password for a website, she knows where we live, and she kniws all of my family. She confronted my bf and said she was "sorry about your dad", who had died two years ago. He NEVER told her. She also knows that I am distantly related to one of the teachers, whic I didn't even know. I thought she was lying at first, but then realized that the teacher and my uncle had the same last name (not my last name). She also knows our complete schedules and follows us in the halls. What should I do?? (link)
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Maybe your bf and you should try talking to her together and explain how you feel?. Its possible she doesn't know how weird everything shes doing is coming across, some people don't have that ability. If that doesn't work I would talk to someone at school or your parents just to keep yourself safe.
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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your still considered a virgin until you have had intercourse.
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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Well you should probably contact the police about this but how helpful they will be kind of depends on your age. You really shouldnt be sending random people anything like that but everyone makes mistakes and so take this as a learning experience. Tell your parents or an adult you trust and let them handle this.
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This would be a bit long, but I need serious advice...I work in a good company with a guy I met I knew back in school, we hit it off real quick bcos we were attracted to each other, until he told me he had a girlfriend, but that the relationship was on the edge, she lives in a different state, and he said they have communication issues if he doesn't call, she doesn't call. He never told me if he was seriously committed to her. we went out on our first date and it was good and ended up kissing. After two days I thought about it and told him how I felt about him having a relationship and what he was doing with me, I told him that I don't want a situation where I want more and it doesn't work out... we talked about it and then we went on a second date, after the date we ended up making out we didn't have sex, when we finished he called his girlfriend and said "hush! I want to talk to the boo".. I felt so disrespected I was mad I wondered why he would do that right in front of me, so we ended up arguing and not talking to each other for weeks. After that we began talking again this time I stated that I cant hang out with him or do any shitty thing with him and I deserve better and I needed to move on. he would always bug me always wanting us to hang out. we fight every week especially on Fridays, its either he says something disrespectful, and when I react he gets angry and it becomes a quarrel we wont talk throughout the weekend till Monday when he comes to apologise.. This time around I had taken enough he was about leaving, and he begged me to walk him to his car I reluctantly agreed, while we were at the car we started talking normally and he kept bringing up the hanging out thing. I told him I didn't want to go out with him that I needed to move on, and that he has a girlfriend and nothing can come out of what ever we do, then he said well its true and that nothing can separate he and his girlfriend then he asked for my phone and he said that he wants to check my contacts to see if there were other men I could date.. I just took my phone and walked out.. then he sent me a message telling e how rude I was, I told him that he knows I have feelings and he capitalises on it so much on it and talks to me anyhow. I told him that I needed him to stay clear away from me. then he replied saying I should free him, I should never say hi to him or else he would embarrass me, he also said that if he ever comes back to beg me that he is not a man he said I had issues and he was tired of dealing with it. I replied "okay and thank you" its been 2weeks and we haven't talked, I bump into him almost everyday, in the kitchen when i'm there he talks about his girlfriend and how he loves her so much, how she is the only one he spends his money on. everytime i'm there it hurts me so much because I felt so cheap and so easy to get, I should never have hung out with him I wish I knew he had a girlfriend before we did. I should never have kissed or made out with him... what do I do I keep seeing him everyday and the pain worsens please I need an advice (link)
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Well clearly he isnt mature so be glad that you didnt end up that lol. Honestly you just need to move on from this. Everyone makes mistakes and you made one too but dont let this affect you. When you see him and he says things just ignore him, think of all the horrible things he's done and how hes not worth being upset over. A guy like that does not deserve you because you deserve so much better. Try going on dates or hanging out with more people. Try and just avoid him at work if possible and just talk to whoever else is around, that way he knows that he doesnt affect you and eventually you'll get over this and no matter happens do not let him back into your life. :)
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I'm 20 and I broke up with my first love a year ago. I loved him with every fibre in my being and did literally everything for him, even if it went against my morals. I spent all the money I had on getting him expensive gifts and I stuck with him, even when he couldn't care less about me. When we broke up because of the fact that he didn't wanna deal with commitment, at this stage in his life, he wasn't upset, not even for a day. It's been over a year and I've been the only one carrying all this pain and I've been holding so much hope that we could get back together, someday. We still see each other and he kisses me and that's what gave me hope that he still likes me. But last night, he told me that he'd never even think of marrying someone like me and that he needs a submissive kind of girl who doesn't pick up on the wrong things he does, like I did.I always picked up on all his lies and everything he hid from me. It hit me all at once, last night that he's been using me this past year and using my vulnerability. I cried in front of him for two hours straight and he kept saying the same things like "You're not my first love so I can't hold that much love for you" and "I told you I didn't want a relationship" "My first made me lose all my emotions" . I don't know why I'm so attached to him or why I'm even this devastated over a jerk like him. I just need someone to talk some sense into me. I worry, that I'll never be good enough for someone. What else can I do for someone to make them appreciate me? I allowed him to cross so many limits of mine and went above and beyond for him, and I get this, in return. How will I expect the next guy in my life to appreciate what I'll do for him and not break my heart again? (link)
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Getting over your first love is probably one of the hardest things ever and it takes awhile to get over it. However some people have a hard time letting go because they simply don't allow themselves to. You need to let yourself enjoy like again. The truth is this guy was a massive jerk to you and he in no way deserved you. You need to understand that and engrave that into you so you don't forget that very important fact. Secondly you need to make yourself realize that what he said or did was all a lie and you have to make yourself believe that you deserve someone so much better. When you say good things to yourself then eventually you'll start to believe it. A year is a long time to carry on with these feeling for him. It's over and you can't hold on any longer it's not healthy. You will find true love and he will be so so so so soooo much better than this guy. Give it time and try and get out and meet new people it will take your mind off him. Remember you deserve someone amazing and not every guy is the same so give someone a chance, don't let this one jerk ruin your life.
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I'm 13 years old and iv'e lived in India my whole life. Many people tell me I have an american accent but I don't think I do. Everyone in my family speaks English but i'm starting to feel self conscious about my accent (link)
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You shouldn't feel self conscious about this. I can't obviously say whether you have an accent or not but it's definitely not a bad thing and I doubt people are saying it as if it were a negative thing. Don't be bothered by it so much, it just makes you cooler if you have an accent, a lot of people actually like people with accents because they just sound amazing so be proud of it :)
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My father took everything of value and left us.
My mother is mentally ill and now has no insurance(so she's off her pills).
My sister is a major suck up to our mother(Favorite child).
Were stuck in an Extended Stay hotel and,its sucking up all the income we have.We have tried all "free" places for medicine and help.But our income is too high,but its not enough for us to live on.
I barely make $150 a week from my job and, its considered part time.I'm at my job all day from 10AM to 4PM and,they don't consider it full time.So because of the time and all the work,I can't get a 2nd job.We have no car,so we take the public city bus everywhere(which is $1.50 there and back per person).
My problem is my mother.She's always been an mental abuser and only to me.She says that "I'll never be anything","I'll never go to college,and even if I did I'd fail it","Ill never be anything in life,or have a husband let alone a boyfriend"... That was just this week.
She said that to me because I told her to "hold on one moment" while I was filling up water bottles,and she wanted me to look for a phone number for her.It only took 2 minutes and I couldn't look away or I'd have water on the floor.
My sister is a major suck up to our mother.She sides with her even when moms wrong.She won't stick up for anyone and can't even keep a job that long.she keeps calling out at work and lying to them about why.I tell her to quit it and I get screamed at by mom (mom encourages her to call out).
Right now I got no friends,because I don't have time.I got no other family to go to,and right now mother plans on leaving with my sister.They plan to go to grandma's and I can't come.she made that clear.Were all old enough to be on our own,but we weren't ever encouraged or pushed to go on our own.Our mother was one of those ones that did everything for you,even when you didn't want her to (tried getting her to stop,but that only made her mad and she'd guilt me into letting her).
So where do I go?Do I leave my job and beg my deadbeat dad to go,live with him in another state?
Or do I take my chances on the street?If I do that I lose everything I own. (link)
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I think the best thing to do is to start looking for a full time job, save a little and move out. If your not wanted or respected why bother living there. It may not be easy but i'm sure you can handle it. Your now an adult so you dont need to rely on people who arent really there for you so dont go and live with your dad either. With a little hard work you can make things happen for yourself. So start by getting a full time job and even if you cant afford to live on your own find a roommate. Good luck :)
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I want to update my phone. I have a iPhone 4, but I'm not sure what iOS it has. But I do know I want to update my phone to iOS 7. I have a lot of notes and pictures that I really need and want to keep. I've did some research that says everything will be saved if I have iCloud. Well, I have iCloud but it's my dads and I want my own, so is there a way I can transfer the stuff from my dads iCloud to my new own? Please help and thanks to the ones that do help :)
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I dont think you can transfer between accounts the only way i know of doing it is transferring everything onto a computer and then coping it back onto your phone.
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Hey. I know this is gonna sound really negative, but I'm really not happy with myself. My BMI is 30.1, which is considered obese. I feel really alone in this, even though I know others are going through the same thing. But it really makes me feel horrible (yes, horrible) when my friends post beach pictures of themselves and they have washboard abs and I have to wear a shirt at the beach. I have a farmer's tan. Ew. I'm 15 now, and I used to be really thin. lIke I was a tiny kid before 3rd grade. But then, I had surgery every six months until last June for scoliosis and I really regret not using those six months in between surgeries to lose weight. I couldn't and still can't play many sports, but I could've lost weight anyway. Also, I really don't have my own thing that I"m know for. Some of my friends are known for their love of surfing. A lot of my friends know me by my obsession with Beyonce. that's not even a real thing like an activity. Any help would be appreciated (except if you're cocky and say that weight loss is easy, because it's not). I've really tried to lose weight. I do intense cardio for like 25 minutes at the gym 4 days a week. Why am I fat? I'm 5'10 and I weight like 218. Don't say I'm not fat. (link)
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Look everyone is different. You dont need to be super thin to have fun and actually have a life. You need to learn to love yourself. The important thing is that your trying to get into shape a lot of people just complain about their weight but do nothing to fix the issue so I think your awesome for that. Being healthy is important dont pay so much attention to the scale because the number isnt important its how you feel about yourself. Keep exercising eventually you will lose the weight you want but until then dont beat yourself up, take it slow and just enjoy your life. The best tip i can give you is dress up look your best because when you look good you feel good and everything will be great.
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Dear Vikki
I'm 24 and from South Africa. I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now and before that we were only friends. I love him a lot and care about him a lot, but at times I feel that my insecurities gets in the way and it ends up in us having an argument about something small and stupid. See we have a long distance relationship at the moment and it is mostly when he cannot have decent conversation at night because his busy and then I start thinking "maybe he doesn't want to talk to me" , "maybe he doesn't find me interesting anymore and he will leave me for someone else" and I do know that he cares for me a lot and that he loves me and as soon as I think I have these feelings under control, it creeps in again. I don't want to lose him, because I was insecure and clingy. I never was like this in the beginning. I was cheated on before and most of the times it is when I'm away from him, when we are together, I don't have it and because of this it makes things hard for me. I care about people real fast and they can actually hurt me with words. How do I get past this? How can I get past my insecurities and not be clingy when I feel like these emotions are creeping in? I'm not jealous when it comes to being his girlfriends, because I know what type of guy he is. I know he will never cheat on me, but because I don't always see myself as beautiful, I'm sometimes afraid he will leave me for someone more beautiful than me. The guy that cheated on me used to say to me, that I shouldn't think that someone can love me, because there feelings will change. I was so deeply hurt.
Is there any advice you can give me? Guess I'm just looking for someone to talk to that I don't know personally!
Thanks!
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I understand where your coming from, being cheated on changes everything for a person. Regaining that trust is really difficult but you have to keep in mind that every guy is different. Just because one guy hurt you and made you feel worthless doesnt mean every guy will. You need to remember the reasons you fell in love with your bf. Think about why your still together that will make those insecurities go away. The truth is if he wasnt into you he wouldnt still be around and he would move on. If he makes that effort to talk to even if its not much its still important to remember that he took time out to talk to you. Long distance relationships require a lot of patience and hard work and if your feeling insecure now then it wont last long. Push the negative feelings out and focus on what you have that will get you through this. :)
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Where can I buy bags from him? They can be fake knock-offs just as long as nobody can tell at my school. ;) (link)
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Outlet stores, bag stores, online at amazon or ebay. If you dont have a credit card you can always buy the prepaid ones from the market and use those its basically a real one.
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.
Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.
In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.
I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.
To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.
What would you do?
What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?
How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?
What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.
Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?
Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.
Thanks in advance.
-Troubled (link)
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Look I get that you dont want to hurt her and ruin her chance at a good life but your not doing yourself any favor either by staying with her. The truth is shes cheating on you and you know that and its wrong to just sit there and accept it. No human being deserves to be treated the way you are shes using you and its just not fair. She might not be a horrible person but what shes doing isnt right either and you cant let her just keep at it. Although you will feel bad you have to break things off. You cant stay with a person knowing their cheating it will eventually destroy you and it will become stressful. You dont have to listen to me of course and its your life you make your own decisions but I dont think anyone is going to tell you to stay with her just so she can become a resident and live in your country. You deserve to be happy and shes not your happiness clearly. I truly believe you should break things off with her. Tell her the truth that you know shes cheating and that you dont want to be used anymore. The best way to deal with the resistance is break up and stay clear. Whether that means moving out, having her move out or just leaving your place for a few days for space. Within that time i guarantee you will come to the realization that what you did was right. If she cared enough about her future she wouldnt have cheated and destroyed not only things with you but her life. Your not responsible for her actions so dont let her think you are. I hope this helps and I hope you figure out whats right for you :) if you need anyone to talk to just shoot me a message :) Good luck!!!
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I am 21 years old (female). Me and my 23 year old boyfriend have been dating for 3
years now. We are very close, and spend a lot of time together. Since 2 months in, we both knew that this is it, we are meant to be together and one day we'll get married :)
We are both still students.
My boyfriend is a foreign national, and is here in my country on a study permit.
He's planned to immigrate here for many years, but applications for citizenship require work or permanent residence permits, that he can only acquire through getting a job. He has been looking out at carreer fairs for when he graduates and he is usually unsuccessfull in finding a company that employs foreign national graduates. The few opportunities that have presented themselves seemed promising untill recently. Our immigration laws are changing, and it will be even more difficult for him to get citizenship now.
Even though he doesn't want to get citizenship through the marriage route (because he feels its better he gets it first, then we'll marry anyways for the right reasons and only the right reasons), I've told him a few times that I feel that if its our last resort before his permit runs out and he is made to go live in his country again; I think we should get married because we're going to anyway. Otherwise, we may lose each other if he gets kicked out of the country.
So now we are both final year, and new laws are coming in that limits his stay more and more. He is trying to get in to postgraduate studies, but I don't know if he'll get in.
He hasn't proposed, and hasn't mentioned that he'll take his last resort.I know he doesn't feel its the right way to do it (and perhaps he also feels we're not ready). But I know that he does want to marry me.
So I'm feeling the pressure mounting. I know I said I'll just marry him, and I want to... but I am so young, and big decisions are scary and even with a marriage certificate it takes 2 years till he's allowed in the country. SO in the mean time I'll have to move with him to some other country or his own (Zimbabwe - where there is no work).
I dont think I'm ready to get married, to move countries, to uproot my career here (I have my first job now). Its all been so far in the future, something we'll do when we feel we are ready.. But we cant wait too long and lose each other...
Im scared he proposes and I say I have to think about it (cause me doubting it will hurt him). Because its so much more complicated than just saying yes cause I love you. Isnt it?
I want things to just stay the way they are for now. (link)
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It may be time to sit down with him and have a serious conversation about where exactly things are heading with you two. I'm sure you both have talked about things before but you might need to sort of need to lay your feelings out for him tell him how its stressing you out and that you need answers. You cant wait around forever and if he is not ready to get married then you need to decide if that's k or is that something you really want right now and if thats the case then you move on. Its really about communication right now. Talk things through and see if you both feel the same way or not and then from there decide what needs to be done.
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So all I see in my school these days are relationships, in all grades lower then mine and I still don't have a gf. What would be an average age for kid, or teens, or basically anybody to start a relationship or be in one as a boyfriend or girlfriend? (link)
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I would say 16-17 is a good age to start because at that age your a little more grown up and you understand things better.
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Everywhere on the web: “why are American children so spoiled?" “why are Americans so obsessed with how they look?" What makes them so racist and judgy. I'm an Amarican child and I'm a little spoiled I admit but I don't care much about how I look, but people obsess on how they look all over the world yet Americans are singled out on mistakes and flaws everyone does. And Afganistan, and all communist and dictatorship hate us to hell. I watched a documentary on life in Cuba and in one scene a mother and child were talking about the U.S military: mother,“the American military is just Latin Americans." Child,“why?" Mother,“they are promised citizenship, education and health care, education is really expensive there." Child,“it's horrible." Mother,“yes. And in the end, they get nothing." How dare they! The military is patriotic, brave Amaricans who are fighting for their country. My great uncle died in the military. And other countries blow up everything and bomb everything, it's not fair. What did we do to them? (link)
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I would say Tv and social media is to blame for the hatred towards Americans. I'm Canadian and I have nothing against americans but ya a lot of shows are american based and they are made out to seem crazier than they really are. People believe what they see. For example people who have never been to Canada and know very little think it snows here all the time and we live in Igloos because there has been shows and movies showcasing that kind of stuff. My point is people believe what they see. So everything in the news, movies, tv, social media has made people believe that amercians arent all that great which yes sucks but the truth. The only way to chance people's opinions is to show them the real americans and i doubt hollywood is planning on doing that anytime soon.
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Is it possible to get a rental car with 100$ in NYC? (link)
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You could take a cab or bus it. A rental car for $100 is unlikely even if you do I doubt it would be a reliable car. Your best option is the subway,cab or bus.
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I work at a buffet restaurant as a part time employee and I am interested in a guy that works there with me. He's a tech there and he is a smart guy. I think he is a really great guy and not a lot of other people think he is. Others think he is an assss because he can be really mean with them but with me he is not. If he ever acts up with me I just tell him he should just calm down and he does. We talk about our families a lot together. It's weird he told me "We're pratically family!" Hopefully he doesn't see me in that way.
Since he is a tech at the place we work he teaches me so many things. Everytime he does something new that I don't know about he teaches me.
I would like to go out with him as friends outside of work to get to know each other, but I don't want him to get the wrong idea.. I guess you can say I have a crush on him, but I want to become really good friends with him. What can I do? Do you think he actually sees me as family? (link)
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Usually when someone says that they usually mean it because they wouldn't randomly put that out there. Anyways if your only interested in being friends with him just ask him to go watch a movie that you really want to see and just state that you just want to go as friends if he seems uncomfortable with the idea. However before asking you should probably decide if you like him as a friend or something more because it could get pretty messy afterwards if you decide that you like him more than just a friend. Confusion is killer!!!
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so i met this guy int he beginning of the year and hes graduated now. We had a thing for a while maybe a month or so but i cant help but to think i pushed him away because i might be afraid of my feelings. after a few weeks have passed we stopped talking and he eventually got a new girlfriend but he kept staring at me waiting for something to happen and he does this all the time. i tried talking to him on facebook but he didnt message me back so i just gave up and thought maybe this is when i need to give him some space or would it be better if i talked to him in person or is it just no use at all? (link)
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I would honestly leave him alone if he's already dating someone. You do not want to be the reason for someone else's breakup. So just move on and if he ever does talk to you then great but in the meantime I would just let him be despite whatever signs he might be showing.
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