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I am interested in a guy from work. Help please?
I work at a buffet restaurant as a part time employee and I am interested in a guy that works there with me. He's a tech there and he is a smart guy. I think he is a really great guy and not a lot of other people think he is. Others think he is an assss because he can be really mean with them but with me he is not. If he ever acts up with me I just tell him he should just calm down and he does. We talk about our families a lot together. It's weird he told me "We're pratically family!" Hopefully he doesn't see me in that way.
Since he is a tech at the place we work he teaches me so many things. Everytime he does something new that I don't know about he teaches me.
I would like to go out with him as friends outside of work to get to know each other, but I don't want him to get the wrong idea.. I guess you can say I have a crush on him, but I want to become really good friends with him. What can I do? Do you think he actually sees me as family?
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Ask him to hang out in a group to start out. Find some other people from work and you can all go out together. Once you are all hanging out, focus on talking with him in particular. After doing this a couple of times, go ahead and ask him to hang out alone.
And no, I do not think he sees you as family. Believe Moi. Moi has a charm that is lethal to men.
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Usually when someone says that they usually mean it because they wouldn't randomly put that out there. Anyways if your only interested in being friends with him just ask him to go watch a movie that you really want to see and just state that you just want to go as friends if he seems uncomfortable with the idea. However before asking you should probably decide if you like him as a friend or something more because it could get pretty messy afterwards if you decide that you like him more than just a friend. Confusion is killer!!!
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