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Reason to be upset with best friend?
Alright, so my best friend from high school and I attend different colleges, about an hour away from each other. We occasionally make the trip to each other's school to hangout but it only happens once in a while due to lack of money and busy schedules. Anyways, I've just moved into a new apartment and my friend has been saying how she really wants to come see my new place and I've been wanting to go down there to see her and hangout. Well I found out tonight that she's in town (where I go to school/live) and didn't get ahold of me. I found out through a mutual friend of ours who she's been having a "thing" with for a year or so now (he's a guy, by the way). But they're all just hanging out and whatnot, so it's not like a date or something. He mentioned it to me and when I asked her she said she was "literally just going to ask if I had to work tomorrow" even though we had been talking all night. I suppose I don't really need advice, just clarification as to if it's a valid reason to be upset with her. Thanks! :)
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I think you guys are slowly growing apart unfortunately. College is a time where you meet a complete different set of people and your whole lives change.
Or maybe she's at you for something you probably didn't tell her.
If not, just ask her then, if she's your best friend but yeah it is a valid reason to be mad.
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I think it is a valid reason and besides, if you guys are really best friends, even if you were slightly jealous and upset over something insignificant she should respect those feelings anyway whether they can be justified or not. If she was my best friend though, I would worry.
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