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my life is going go so good right now. everythings perfect, ive got the perfect bestfriend, and i have the perfect kid.
but, hes not mine. hes someone elses, and they fight constantly, i dont even think he likes her anymore. and him and i have always liked eachother, and he came over yesterday, and we were having like, 45345x of fun. we went to the park, and well, when he said goodbye, he said "i love you" and gave me a big hug, that like picked me off the ground. :P
and wouldnt ya know it... his girlfriends brother was there to pick him up. :[
they are fighting again, but becuase of me.. and well, i dont know. he always says sorry to me, and says he does love me.
but, he wont break up with his girlfirned, becuase his friends are her friends, and her brothers are his bestfriends. :P
:[ should i stick around, or just give up on all of it togehter. ?
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I think you should tell him to brake up with her but to do it gently. Tell him to say that he still loves her but not in the same way anymore. And if he argrees to all this and brakes up with her don't go out with him right away give it some time max would be about 3 weeks but at least 1 week. I hope everything works out for you.
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If he's not going to break up with his girlfriend over who his friend's are, then why would you wanna stick around? That's a dumb reason not to dump somebody that he doesn't love.
Give him an ultimatum before you leave. He either dumps her regardless of who his friends are, or you're done with the whole thing.
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Honestly I think you should give up and move on. I know it maybe hard but what this kid is doing is messed up. He cant just be going out with her cause her brothers are his frineds, and his friends are her frineds. Thats hurting both you and her. Talk to him about it. Tell him you wont talk to him or something unless he makes up his mind. Who does he want you or her and his "friends". I can understnad he doesnt want to lose his friends but thats just hurting this girl. If they were his true friends they'd still be his frineds. Dont wait for him. It's not fun waiting. Just talk to him about it. Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anymore advice just leave it in my inbox!
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If his relationship is bad, he should break up with her regardless of the connections made or if you're in the picture at all. You can't hang on to a realtionship based on the same friendships. This is a battle he has to fight on his own. Let him know that if he really loved you, he wouldn't be with the other girl right now and being a little pussy and backing down from the truth isn't going to solve anything. You can wait, but don't wait forever.
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