I play volleyball. I'm not just a normal teenage girl. But I am going through the same crapola of highschool like everyone else.
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does anyone have any quotes about really missing someone who has died? (link)
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Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
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so most of the guys that i have liked have been preppy.
cute type boys.
but then one guy came up and started flirting.
callin' me "beautiful" and "baby" and all this stuff.
its kind of obvious he likes me.
[not to sound conceded]
and i didnt think he was cute or like him really before, but every sine he called me those things and we flirt or wahtever i have grown to like him.
is this because he likes me?
is this the wrong thing to do?
im prepppp and he is hardcore!
weirdd. (link)
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Classifying who you like by genres or cliques is bullshit. Just because you're preppy, doesn't mean you HAVE to like preppy guys. It seems to me like the only reason you like him is because he shows you the most attention. Every girl likes attention from the opposite sex (unless they're gay), so maybe you're more excited from a boy calling you beautiful rather than your actual liking to him. If he likes you, cool. if he doesn't, he's a flirt. No big deal. And I'm not sure what you mean by is this the wrong thing to do? You're not even doing anything. Simple flirting isn't a crime, it only gets messy if someone's feelings are involved and signals get crossed; and the person thinks you like them rather than simply flirting. So ask him if he likes you!
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OK so I am male/28 I've been with my BF for a year and a half (we're gay) and 3 nights go we had a massive argument.
In the heat of my rage I threw the contents of a glass of wine in his face, and then I made a run for it for the sake of my own safety.
We havent spoken since then, even though i have written him a long msg on facebook and told him we need to talk. He has taken most of his stuff and the only times he makes contact is to say something spiteful on SMS.
We live together and so the rent is our joint responsibility. I just about afford it on my own, but i wouldnt really have much money over to life the life I used to. My question is, should he continue to pay for the rent cos he choose to move out? If so, for how long?
Also i'm still not 100% sure that is definately over but the more time passes the more sure it is looking.
Please give me advice. THanks (link)
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You're just going to let him go without a fight? After a year and a half? Come on...perhaps the rent shouldn't be your biggest concern, perhaps it should be the person that you care for is leaving over one fight. Couples fight all the time, but the love stays. And if you're willing to let him go this easily, regardless of whether he answers on Facebook or not, then perhaps it's time to split after all.
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So i've liked this guy for 2 or 3 months off and on. i told him i liked him a couple weeks ago. he seemed to understand and was looking straight into my eyes the whole time and he seemed like he liked the thought of it.
but then again, after i tried talkin to him once, (i just kept it small talk. i just said hi how are you) he wasn't looking at me at all. he answered and everything but he didn't seem so open and then one of his friends came up and he acted like i wasn't there.
but then in the last week, he said hi and bye on his own (which, we know who each other are, we just haven't talked since 5th grade and it's like we don't know each other, so it was a good thing) and i've been catching him looking at me for a while, but i haven't seen anything else. he acts like he's thinking about it (if he likes me or not) but i don't know if he really does...
so after a while, how can i tell if he likes me or not? what kind of signs will he show?
16/f
thanks in advance. =] (link)
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You could just ask him, plain and simple. It sounds like he does like you, but isn't sure what the next move is. So he results to avoiding you because he doesn't know what to say. But just to be sure and not get your hopes up, ask him what's up, don't be hostile, just be like hey, things have been a little tense lately, is everything alright? Tell him you're not expecting a proposal or anything, you just wanted to let him know what was up.
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On myspace, how do you hide when your last login was? I really don't think people need to know how much I go on there :P .... I have it so it doesn't tell when I'm online... but I don't like how it says the last day you were on. Thx (link)
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Well the only thing that i look forward to these days is guys flirting with me and giving compliments because my families been fighting, my friends have been mean and ditching me, adn this one guy was flirting with me soo much and then my friends ruined it. He said i was hot, but i had no boobs, and then i was embarassed. He goes to a different school, and i only see him at the movie theater. 1-is there anyway to make my boobs look bigger? Also, my hair gets all fuzzy at the top, and 2-is there any way to get rid of that?
Thanks a bunch!! (link)
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Sounds like this guy is kind of skeez. (skeez- inconsiderate pervert) No matter how hot he is, he should like you for you, not what your cup size is. But if it really concerns you, you could try enhancing bras like push up or extra padded. Don't stuff your bra or anything because first, it's totally noticeable and second, it's not something anyone should be proud of. For the hair issue, I would just spray A LITTLE hairspray or use some really really light gel and smooth down the top.
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people tell me you were way too much makeup
and i ignorge them but i just dont know to believe them or not because they say
a lot of people are making fun of you.
i just dont know anymore what to decide..
helppppppp! (link)
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A lot of girls think that putting layers of makeup on makes them attractive, but really the most attractive thing is being comfortable in your own skin and not being fake by wearing tons and tons of makeup. A lot of makeup is definitely a turnoff. So try wearing a little less and you'll see that a lot of people won't even notice you have blemishes that need covering up. I used to wear a lot of makeup but it was really noticeable, so i started wearing less and less and now i wear barely any at all, and people just say I look the same, which is a good thing. You want to be beautiful all the time, not just when you have a ton of makeup on. Plus when I had a bunch of makeup on, I could never get a boy, haha, but now that I wear less I get A LOT more attention from boys.
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ok so my guy friends thought they would be funny and threaten to fight my guy friend from another school. it just started off as funny but then one of my friends lets call him A was making fun of him for all this stuff i told him about me and the other guy hooking up. and A like told the guy to apologize for trying to go farther than what i wanted to. apparently he said other stuff too but neither of them will tell me what it was. well anyways, my friend from another school wont talk to me now but he wont tell me why. and im really confused. i dont know what to do?! (link)
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I'm not gonna lie, that's pretty fucked up. Your guy friend from another school doesn't deserve to be treated like that. Regardless of he's a jerk or not, threatening someone is never funny. And it always ends bad. You should have stopped it right from the beginning. First of all you shouldn't even be telling other guys about you two hooking up, it's none of their business. He has every right to be mad at you. He won't be mad forever, but if I was him I wouldn't forgive you anytime soon. You just need to wait it out and see how he's feeling. And if he means anything at all to you, you'll keep trying to make things better, but since the way you acted, it doesn't sound like you care about his feelings at all.
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Okay, so I've always been very anti-social all my life. I only had a few friends in school, but they were just "school friends" and we never did anything on the weekends. My Mum kept telling me to make friends, so I did.
We've been hanging out a lot lately, and now my mum is becoming suspicious. She thinks I'm lying about who I'm going to see, and I tell her to ring my friend's parents to ask but she says no.
But whenever I ask to go out now she acts really weirdly and I'm starting to have to skip things with my friends, because of the way my mum behaves.
Well my question is, what do I do about it? (link)
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I think your mom is just concerned that if you're spending all this time with your friends, you won't need her anymore. When you didn't have as much friends, you obviously spent more time together. Now when you're off with your friends, she doesn't know what you're doing or who you're with. Even if she knows you're a good kid, those thoughts are still going through her mind, because well....she's a mom. It's their job to worry, especially when kids are freakin criminals these days. Maybe you could just reassure her that no matter who you're hanging out with these days, you know wrong from right and you wouldn't do anything that she would disapprove of, but now that you have these friends, a little more freedom would be nicer.
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what is thw website to look up the ring that a a word on it? like at least $20, something like i saw on maginze before, i forgot the website, anyone know? pleaaassseee help, so that i can buy something for my boyfriend a ring with word on it. thank! (link)
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I'm not sure if this is the specific one you were talking about but here's one: http://www.sndgems.com/engraving.htm
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People say that I'm a little "slow on the uptake", and I was wondering, is that a bad thing, or is it not that big of a deal? (link)
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It's not necessarily a bad or good thing. Just because you're slow on the uptake doesn't mean you're stupid. But at the same time, even if you don't really understand what people are talking about, don't be like "WHAT??? I DON'T GET IT!" or stand there will your mouth open and a confused look on your face. you know?
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im a soon to be 18 year old girl. im in 11th grade. can i please have tips to look pretty. my prom is this year and i dint get asked. i need a whole new makeover any suggestions. i also need a diet any suggestions. any clothes store that will make me look hott .. thanks in advance (link)
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well it all depends on your body type and hair and skin and features. As for dieting, I would take those extra trips to the gym and try not to eat the unhealthy school food and the 4th meal at 11pm. Good makeup suggestions are in any magazine, my favorite is Seventeen because they give make up and style tips for every skin type and body type. That's as much advice as I can give.
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If a guy that you like just broke up with his girlfriend, how long should you wait before you approach him? (link)
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It kinda depends on how long their relationship was. You can't make it too soon, cuz that'll look a little trashy. I would wait a week with no communication, then talk a little bit, you know ask him how his day is going, then gradually start talking more and more. This way by the time you start talking to him, everyone probably knows that him and his girlfriend have broken up and he'll have a little healing time. If it was a super long relationship, maybe 2 weeks.
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There is this one boy at my school who gets on my nerves 24/7. he likes me and he has told me he has liked me but i dont like him at all and i only see him as a friend. Plus im taken. And he nos that but he just wont quit. he keeps trying to touch me and get close to me but i just push him off me and tell him to stop. i dont know how to get this dude to stop because i just want to be friends with him.
any advice? (link)
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Just be real straight forward. Don't let him just shake it off or take it as a joke. You need to say "You are my friend, but stop touching me, stop flirting with me. period. I have a boyfriend now and I don't feel the same way about you as you do for me, so back off. I mean it." it may sound harsh, but once he gets the point, he'll see the error in his ways.
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okay so my boyfriend ended up breaking up with me after everything because he said that he loved one of my best friends at school and that he has ever since the beginning of last year and so basically he dated me three times while being "in love" with her and playing me thinking that he loved me. but nope i got played. and well i dont know what to do. i am fine in a way because well he has his own feelings and i understand... but well me and him are friends and me and my friend is.. but the feeling is still there (link)
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That's a little heartless of him, but he can't helps the way he feels and neither can you. You can't just rush those kind of feelings out the door. You have to take time. So many girls try to get over guys by hooking up the next day or talking shit about their ex's. The truth is you just gotta let it all out. If you wanna cry, cry. If you wanna yell, yell. You can't bottle it all up. And as for the two of you being friends. I know, every guy/girl says "Well we can still be friends" but honestly we know that's never the case. Maybe you should just take a month with no communication whatsoever with him, no talking, messaging, not even eye contact. I know that sounds extreme, but after the feelings have died down a little, it's gonna be easier to be friends. It's gonna be hard if you still have feelings for him and you're around him all the time. You have to get over him before you can befriend him.
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Ok well i have a boyfriend of over a year and i have been attracted to guys my whole life. i still love guys. but i think i also like girls too. like sometimes i will look of porno mags. of girls boobs and of them masturbating and i get horney, but i have never done anything with a girl except make out when i was drunk one time. my bf told me he likes bi girls and for some reason i just cant come right out and tell him i am...I just wanted to know if i could be bi or am i just going thru a faze? 16/f (link)
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Every person questions their sexual orientation. You have nothing to be ashamed of. There's no harm in looking at that kind of stuff. Hormones are raging, and this is the point in adolescence when curiosity levels are high. I can almost guarantee that a of girls have gone through the exact same thing. Even if they deny it and say ewww thats gross, the truth is that at one point or another the "what if's" of being bisexual or gay have crossed their minds. Mostly it's just a curiosity about what it would be like to be with the same sex. I think what you're going through is perfectly normal and that although you're boyfriend says he likes bisexual girls, maybe this isn't something you should share with him until you're 100% sure. Just in case things get around. These are the kind of things that can be kept to oneself, if you know what I mean. I'm not saying bisexuality is something to be ashamed of, I'm just saying you don't want all these rumors to be spreading when this was just a small phase. But, if these feelings continue and get stronger, I would spend a little more time with girls just to get the feel for it and then make a declaration. There's nothing wrong with testing the waters.
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whenever im with a bunch of friends i dont feeel girly at all because all the girls are like flirting and being crazy and stuff and i just feel awkward.
what should i do to just open up? (link)
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Flirting comes naturally. You can't force yourself to flirt. It's easier to flirt when you're flirting with someone that you know a little bit. Next time you're with a guy, don't be slutty and think that hanging all over him is going to get you the same results. Just plan your moves, think about how much you can smile or laugh or be playful or be touchy. It's all about thinking what your next move can be. Don't be all out there and obvious, because then he'll know you're insecure about it. Just give a little and take some back, gradually flirt. And if your with a usual group of guys, wear A LITTLE bit of makeup and fix your hair up, so they notice a difference of appearance and a new attitude. Although it might feel awkward at first, once the conversation is flowing it becomes easier. Just make sure you don't overdo it. That applies to the makeup and the flirting. You don't want to put on a false front, you just want to change it up a bit so they notice.
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Does anyone know a bunch of teenage rock love songs?? thanks!!!! (link)
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as in songs sung about teenagers or songs sung by teenagers?
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Heyy does anyone know how to do this hair style??
i have hair about 2.5 inches below my shoulders
http://entimg.msn.com/i/gal/HilaryDuff/Duff_Hilary19538_4001.jpg
and if you could please put links to other hairstyles like that and like messy buns and stuff.
and instructions to to make a messy bun..i dont wanna know the thing about put it in a ponytail and the last wind dont pull it all the way through i already know how to do that :P
thanxx:) (link)
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well depending on how many layers you have, this is what i do: Hold you hair like you're about to put it into a ponytail, but before you do, shake it a couple times and let the small layers fall down. You can either put it in a ponytail and use bobbypins to stick hair up and leave some random pieces down or you can put it into a bun and use bobby pins and do the same thing. Then pin your bangs back to make that little poof. As for the hairs hanging down, you can curl them to give it a wavy beachy look or put some back up with pins.
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Ok well me and my girlfriend have been dating over 5 months now. She grew up with her grandparents and they have always been strict. Once she turned 18 and started college we figured things would be better and they were. Now all of a sudden they are trying to control and ruin her life. They are trying to prevent her from seeing me and from going on a trip with me to visit her mom in Florida. Thing is they don't even want her going to see her mother. All the have been doing is calling her and flipping on her about things. Now they even have her father after her who now thinks she is doing drugs which isn't true. My question to you is what else can we do to get them to just let us be? But wait there is a catch. They are paying for all her schooling and they keep money in her account and if she does the wrong thing they may not support her anymore. Please Help!! (link)
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In your case, you can honestly tell them what your best intentions are for their granddaughter. Just say sincerely, that you understand their overprotectiveness but you are a gentleman and are only thinking of her best wishes and you would never do anything that they would disapprove of. As for her parents, that is her own battle to fight. She is 18, and if she's still scared to have a mature conversation with them about what has been going on, then nothing will ever change. She needs to point out that she appreciates their hospitality and money for school, but that at this point in her life, it is time for her to take action for herself, without consulting them because she is not a baby. This way you're not telling them that they're wrong, but just stating your point and how things will be handled. Your girlfriend needs to make sure that she is not asking them what is okay and whats not okay, but telling them that if she wants to visit her mom and her boyfriend, that is what she will do. But remember to say that in a way that understanding and respectful. They might get upset, but i doubt they would turn on their own granddaughter and take away funding for her schooling. Good Luck!
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