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Break Up
If a guy that you like just broke up with his girlfriend, how long should you wait before you approach him?
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Well it depends.
Was it a long term relationship with his girlfriend?
Or was it like a 4 monther or less?
If it was a long term relationship, I would wait 2 weeks-and slowly start talking to him.
If he was in a short term relationship, I would wait a week and then start talking to him.
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There's no set time, but generally go slow. Get to know him as a friend, then start teasing/ flirting a little bit and see what happens. If he seems to be in the mood, continue. If he seems to still be out of it from getting over a relationship, go back to the "just friends and that's it" square.
Wait till he starts flirting back noticeably before doing something like asking him out. Otherwise it may freak him out as he wouldn't be ready for it. Subtlety is key =].
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It kinda depends on how long their relationship was. You can't make it too soon, cuz that'll look a little trashy. I would wait a week with no communication, then talk a little bit, you know ask him how his day is going, then gradually start talking more and more. This way by the time you start talking to him, everyone probably knows that him and his girlfriend have broken up and he'll have a little healing time. If it was a super long relationship, maybe 2 weeks.
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