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not exactly what i pictured.
so most of the guys that i have liked have been preppy.
cute type boys.
but then one guy came up and started flirting.
callin' me "beautiful" and "baby" and all this stuff.
its kind of obvious he likes me.
[not to sound conceded]
and i didnt think he was cute or like him really before, but every sine he called me those things and we flirt or wahtever i have grown to like him.
is this because he likes me?
is this the wrong thing to do?
im prepppp and he is hardcore!
weirdd.
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First of all, it is not weird. Opposites attract. Now:
Is it because he likes me? Probably. We grow to like people because they flatter us. If you didn't like him before all this, you probably just like him because you know he likes you back. No rejection. However, there IS a possibility that you honestly do like him. I don't know you, so I can't be sure.
Is this the wrong thing to do? No, no it's not. It is natural and a normal thing to feel. WHat you need to decipher is whether or not you really do like him.
Hope I helped a little.
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Ok, the fact that you use the excuse that you're prep and he's not is snobby. It's so clique-y. Most of the time, when you find out that someone likes you, obviously, you'll tend to pay more attention to him. Thus, you might grow to like him. If you like him, why on Earth should it matter what kind of person you are or if it's "right"
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Classifying who you like by genres or cliques is bullshit. Just because you're preppy, doesn't mean you HAVE to like preppy guys. It seems to me like the only reason you like him is because he shows you the most attention. Every girl likes attention from the opposite sex (unless they're gay), so maybe you're more excited from a boy calling you beautiful rather than your actual liking to him. If he likes you, cool. if he doesn't, he's a flirt. No big deal. And I'm not sure what you mean by is this the wrong thing to do? You're not even doing anything. Simple flirting isn't a crime, it only gets messy if someone's feelings are involved and signals get crossed; and the person thinks you like them rather than simply flirting. So ask him if he likes you!
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The fact is every girl loves to be called beautiful, and sometimes we all need change. If you genuinely like him, there is nothing wrong with it. Just because you didn't like him first, doesn't mean you can't like him now. Just make sure that you truly like HIM not just the attention taht he gives you. And if you find that you really do like HIM, then I say go for it. It doesn't matter that he is hardcore and your not. If you both like eachother, that is all that matters.
Good luck :)
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