I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
E-mail: xkelseyx12@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: June 6, 2008
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Ok, I know obviously, not to go to a nail salon to get my pretty parts waxed. So would I take myself to like a hair salon? And if I want EVERYTHING waxed off, that's a brazilian wax, right?
I'm a little confused on what to tell them, as to what service I want. (link)
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yepp its brazilian and you should try kudzu.com. you can find a salon around you that does that type of wax and also you can see testemonials on people have ussed that salon.. this way you know you are going to a reliable place.
Good luck :)
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I can't talk on the phone without shaking or driving myself nuts beforehand. I can't communicate with people without sweating or anxiety attacks..it takes me about 15 minutes to work up a hello in a social situation...and when someone doesn't reply or acknowledge it, the awkwardness fills me up and tears me up. I cry a lot over this. Hysterically. I can't be left by myself in any social situations. Usually, I'd have my dad or mom walk with me, get me into programs, register me, talk with my teachers, etc. I've been raised like that for the past 10 years now. I'm in this comfort zone and when I'm tossed out there in the real world, I can't project my voice, I can't go a day without someone going "aww, she's so shy," I can't go a day without disappointment. I feel like I need my parents to lead me and take me by the hand. And I push myself, like..go out there, knock..say hello...say it loudly. I do it and then I feel like I'm a failure. I feel like crying. I mess up relationships with my friends because I like being by myself more than with them. And then I regret it. I don't know what to do. I'm SIXTEEN. And I feel like I'll NEVER be able to communicate with people. I get on with the friends that I have left...but when I talk to teachers or any authority figures, I feel as if I subconsciously put on an act...with a lowered, innocent voice (as if my parents beat and starve me at home..) and I talk like please, please don't hurt me teacher...with closed eyes or something. What can I do?
16/f :( (link)
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you should consider going to see a professional.. it sounds like you suffer from really intense anxiety. i know that you get nervous around people, but if you talk to a professional [your parents can come with you] they will hopefully be able to help you get through this, they can reccomend things for you to do and possibly even give you medicine for it.
Good luck and I hope all ends well! :)
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Well, I've become close to this guy, I can tell him anything and everything and I trust him with all I have. The only time I saw him was school and outside of school too. But now that its summer, I haven't seem him in a while, and it's driving me nuts because I like him more then a friend, and he knows that, he likes me too but we're not dating. So that means, he can do whatever he wants. I know he cares for me and wants me to be happy and see me, but, lately, him and his friends have been hanging out with these girls they've known since summer has started, which was only about two or three weeks ago. And I'm afraid the guy I like is going to fall for one of the girls and forget all about me. I don't know what to do. We've known each other then he's known the girls, but I can't help free will. People always say guys go to bed and wake up thinking of the girl they care about, it used to be me, I know it, but what if its not anymore? What do I do? (link)
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you need to tell him exactly how you feel. if he feels the same... then you two should get together. if he doesnt feel the same, then he is allowed to date other girls and you should do the same by dating other guys.
I hope things work out for you :)
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My family (husband and 2 kids) have not had a real family vacation in 8 years. My kids asked to go to Disney World. They are ages 15 and 12. I booked a 1 week vacation about 4 months ago. We are scheduled to leave June 28th. My mother has since been diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer. Her surgery is June 27th. My only sibling is flying to NJ from CA to be with my mom. I told my husband to go on the Florida trip without me because I felt that the right thing for me to do would be to stay with my mother. He is refusing to go without me and blaming me for ruining our vacation. Is it right for him to blame me? We can’t cancel without losing a lot of money. We will not be able to book another trip anywhere in the near future because fuel prices are sky high, and we would have already lost a bundle. Do I go on the trip or stay with my mother who may be dying in the near term? (link)
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you are the only person who can truly make this decision. but think about it this way... you family has plenty of time to go on vacation later in life, and there will always be another chance. But with your mom, there may not be another chance. this is only going to happen once [hopefully] and your mom really needs you. your husband may be upset now, but eventually he will understand. he has no right to blame you, and you just really need to explain to him your dillemma. hopefully he will respect whatever decision you decide to make and maybe even help you to make the right decision. just let him know that this is really hard on you and that you need him right now.
whatever decision you make, it will most liekly be the right one. just look deep down in your heart, and you will know what you really need to do.
Good luck with everything and my prayers are with your mom :)
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everyone always talks about what shape they are. like full figured or pear shaped and i never knew what my shape was. im 5'8" thin (115lbs) and muscular small b-cup small waist and im white but i'm half spanish so i've got the hips and a little bit of booty. basically im asking if theres any sites that have diagrams or pictures of body shapes. i think im pear shaped but i really dont know.
help? (link)
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here is a website with photos.. the women in the photos are older and "bigger" but it will give you the general ideea.
http://www.hotexercise.com/body-exercises/body-shape/
and here is a website without photos but it has really good description..
http://www.hotexercise.com/body-exercises/body-shape/
Hope these help you :)
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is it required to use a condom during oral sex? (link)
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well you are the only one that chooses whether you use one or not. doctors will say that you should because it protects against STD's, but its your choice whether or not to take the risk.
hope this helps :)
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so, my eyes lately have seemed to look really tired. i have those stages where i dont get enough sleep, and my eyes just look droopy. is there any kind of eyeshadow or something that i could use that could help my eyes seem more open and bright and awake?
thanks so much!! (link)
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try lots of mascara and after you finished all your eye makeup. take a white eye shadow and start at the corner of your eye and apply it about an inch thich underneath your eyes.
Hope this helps :)
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F/18
Couple of years back me and Anjy were best friends. We never fought in our five years of friendship and shared everything with each other. Then I changed school. Now things are different. We dont talk over the phone or im. We occasionally say a hi on facebook but that's about it. She got a bf after a difficult love life and got thru the best college and she did not even tell me. Now i go through her wall and see that she's been calling me a slut and stuff with my ex. Both of them are makin fun of me...I feel sad about the fact that she can do something like this.. I just wanna know how to get over her. (link)
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first of all you should really talk to her about what happened between the two of you, maybe you two can work things out and become friends again. but if she is mean about it and blames you the best thing for you to do is not let her know that she is bothering you. play it off like you dont need her, no matter how much you do. hang out with friends form your new school and sooner or later she will just seem like a distant past. but if you let her know that she really hurt you, she may continue calling you names and what not just to get a rise out of you. if she is not uup for fixing things, then just move on. if you get on with your life, she will see that you dont care whther or not she talks good or bad about you. and she will move on with her life too.
Good luck :)
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14\Female.
I think I suffer from Depression. I always feel sad, and empty. At home I'm miserable. I hate it here, right when I get off the bus I go into my room and write and go to bed. I have stopped eating normaly- now the only time I do I bindge like crazy and eat everything in sight and that's when my Dad says something to me. At school I always have a smile on my face, and Im laughing with all my friends but I dont feel like me. But I fear that if I show up at school with sweats and a baggy T-shit and tell everyone I have considered cutting myself to remember what it feels like to be in control they wont like me. Which I know isn't the case. They love me, I know but I dont feel loved. I eat to fill this emptyness inside of me, cry when I get to angry and Im afraid I'll lash out. I cry constantly alone, but when Im with people I can't. I will always go to the bathroom... or my bedroom like Im ashamed of it. The storys I write that my friends say are ahmazeing are what I wish my life would be. No one knows how said I am, and its like I have two personalitys and I would gie anything to be the girls in my storys. The happy, go lucky always have a happy ending. I dont know what to do though Im afraid that if I tell my parents they wont care and wont do anything about it.
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i suffered through this exact thing for a long time.. and i know how it feels to feel empty. and trust me i know what it is like to want to keep to yourself because you feel ashamed that you are so unhappy. i've been there and let me tell you... you're not alone. you really need to consider talking to someone about it. if you dont want to go to your parents, you may want to try a sibiling [i dont know if you have any?] or you could talk to a friend. also if your school has one... you can always talk to the school psychologist or a guidance counselor at your school. if they can't help you... i am sure they will know of someone who can. the best thing to do is just remind yourself that you ARE loved.. maye you need to take more time with yourself and your family or do things with friends that show more of the true you.. dont get to caught up in your stories though, because that is not real life. when i went through my time of depression I would read about teenage girls who had it all... and in reality no one is really like that. so dont wish that you could be them... because that is not possible and it will only make you feel worse about yourself.
your are 14 and middle school is a really hard time. this is when i went through my really tough years too. but as you grow up... you will realize that there is a lot more to be happy about it and eventually you will find people who make you feel so loved that you wont even remember feeling empty. but try not to resort to drastic things such as cutting because this will not help. if the depression gets that bad, you need to talk to your parents about seeing a proffesional.
remember... your not in this alone and I am here if you ever need someone to talk to you. I really cna relate to this, so any questions you have... just inbox me. and if you ever just need to vent to someone who understands you can use the email on my page and i will listen and do my best to help you through this.
Good luck with everything :)
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Hi guys,
I have a dilemma!!!
I am really interested in this guy...we have known each other for years and have been on and off for a long long time...
Just recently we have rekindled and things were going really well when on Saturday night he cancelled his plans to go to the footy to come into the city with his friends and my friends for my brothers bday.
Things were good i thought, laughing...kissing...chatting etc...We had organised a hotel room and everything!! :)
All of a sudden this group of girls rocked up which i assumed were friends with him and his mates as one girl in particular was all over his mate...
Later in the night the guy i like told me "sorry im being weird but that girl is my ex and i feel weird hooking u with you in front of her as it is recent and i dont want her to cause a scene"...i was taken back by it and didnt know ow to act?
Anyways, later on this girl took the guy into another room with her friends as she said she needed to talk to him....so after awhile and he still hadnt come back i went and found him dancing and mucking around with his ex and her friends.....i felt like an idiot so i decided to leave and not cause a scene...
His cousin messaged me saying sorry for his cousin and that he had left wth his ex and stayed at hers...i was sooooo devastated as i really like him!!!
i heard nothing from him until this morning (MONDAY) which he said sorry for say night and that the chick is obsessed and he had a massive fight with her once i left and he did NOT stay at hers!! He went on to sy he wanted to be with me soooo BAD!!!
Im not sure what to think or do in this situtaion!!!Please help ASAP???? (link)
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hmm well you should definatly talk to him about it. just be like, listen i am hearing that you went home with this girl and that you are back together. tell him that you are okay with them getting back together if that is what he wants... but he cant keep leading you on if he still has feelings for her. hopefully he will tell you the truth..
Good luck :)
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lately with summer break, ive had alot of free time to just sit around and do nothing. while im sitting around doing nothing i over analyze things and worry about things, way too much. i know im doing it but i cant really make myself stop. well the problem is, ive been having sort of mini anxiety attacks from it, but lately ive been having these weird chest pains, like right where my heart is. it only lasts like 15 mins, but is that from anxiety or is it something worse that i should be concerned about? (link)
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it could be either... but regardless of what you may think it is, you should definatly see a doctor. dont freak out yet.. if ti is anxiety the doctor may be able to put you on anti-anxiety medicine. and if it something more serious, well then the doctor will be able to deal with that also.
Good luck :)
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ok so im uhh popular, but theres two different kinds of popular in my school, like two groups -- since its a big school. so the only guy in my drivers ed class i know is one of the popular guys from the other group, meaning i have never even spoken to him. its awkward though, because we know each other and have a lot of mutual friends, but weve never hung out at like a party or anything, which is pretty wierd.
so how do i start talking to him? i can't just be like hey chris whats up? but then again i cant be like hey whats your name? where do you go to school... like normal convo, because thats just wierd.
alright thanks (link)
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just sit next to him in one class and bring up something that is going on in class today. like if its a really boring class just sit down and be like.. great, another day of drivers ed. or just something vasual like that, that will get you both talking. just dont make it sound to strained, because that may make it awkward.
good luck :)
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Hi, me and my bf have been dating for 2 years but since the past six months he's been less than caring and a total fake. He's been really selfish too. During this time, I started feeling something for his best friend Dan. I somehow feel that Dan liked me but he obviously wont tell. And I can never tell him how i feel coz you know, he will never hurt his best friend. And recently one of my best frenz leaked it to his frenz about this so he might be knowing it. The main problem is that I'm leaving for university (2022 miles away from him) and more than anyone I'm hurt that i'm leaving him. I really want him to know this. But my bf (who doesnt know) told me that Dan's got back with his ex (could be a lie). I am obviously burning in jealousy. But I'm frustrated because I think I love him and his shiny brown eyes, and the way he looks at me gives me shivers and........OK Help!!! (link)
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first of all... you need to break up with your boyfriend. you obviously don't have feelings for him anymore and things just aren't the same between you too, and its not okay to continue to lead him on. if the chemistry is gone... its gone. then the whole Dan problem... you need to tell him. if you don't, you will regret it later on in life. so tell him how you feel, and if he doesnt feel the same.. at least you gave it a try. i really hope that he does though!
good lluck :)
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ummm... Well iam 15 and iam very vainy in my whole arm area when i raise my hand up the vaines go away but when i put my hands down they show up again. There not just small blue vains too their big and pop up like you can touch them. by the way iam a male. (link)
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you cant get rid of veins unless they are dead veins and since you are only 15... they probably aren't dead veins. you shouldn't worry though... some girls find it sexyy!
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Ok, so this spring I didn't play any sports, gained some weight, then went to Italy and gained LOTS of weight. A week ago I was 5'5" and 142 pounds. I started this plan on the day that I weighed myself and I am so proud of how I've stuck to it! I'm eating plenty (1200 calories at the very minimum) and exercising enough that each day I have a 1500 calorie deficit. That's almost half a pound a day! I should be losing weight! After the first day I was 139, and now after spending a week trying so hard, I'm 140! I don't understand how this could be. I know my body is looking better than it did before, i'm happy with the results so far, but I don't know why it wouldn't show up on my scale.
I've been doing a lot of cardio and weight training, and I know my body isn't doing that "starvation" thing people talk about because I'm eating enough, so what's the problem? should I just give up? (link)
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your weight is fluxtuating all the time... and honestly if you are seeing results it shoudlnt really matter what the scale says. think about it this way, you could see results on the scale but not in your appearence. consider yourself luckY!
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William is a kid that from day One of school in Kindergarden no one liked. He was always bullied, always hated. Well two years ago I stayed back, and I didn't have to deal with him. Well then last year he CHOSE to stay back to leave the 8th graders that hated him and kicked the crap out of him.And i took this as God [[which I have newly let into my heart]] has given me a second chance. I was really mean to this kid when he was in my grade so for half the year I stuck up for him when no one else would.
Well then he started yelling at me! So I was like whatever let kids pick on your I personally dont care and i stopped sticking up for him. Now I fear my life, because he's gone phycotic. I believe he is the next kid to do a Columnbine. I am DEAD SERIOUS. He told me, and a couple of people that if he had one day left to live he would have a masacar. Well Friday I got in thi huge fight with him that I will not get in details with him and when I accepted Christ I promised myself I would never hit another person unless self defense. Well I am now afraid for my life, I personally think i will be the first kid shot when he does this. I donno if I should tell someone... like my parents who wont care cuz they never do. Or my teacher. Maybe my Guidance teacher. I dont know.. but Im afraid to go to school. He is making personal threats to me that he's gunna punch me in the face. yeh and when that happened Cole was like Dont you fucking touch her or I swear to God-- and then I kinda shut him up. But I dont wanna get anyone who annually stand up for me in trouble and I dont wanna shot.
Any help. (link)
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first of all you dont know for sure that he will do anything... so dont throw accusations around just yet. but if he is personally threatening you... you definatly need to tell someone. you can tell a guidance counselor or set up a meeting with your principal. tell them about the threats he has been giving you, and you should also talk about your fears of him doing something drastic. if his threats start to get more serious, go to the police. this isnt a situation to be taken lightly. if he EVER even slightly mentions anything about a gun or a hit list. the cops need to be notified IMMEDIATLY! if he continues to just be jerk but not threaten you... just try your hardest to be nice and DO NOT engage in arguments with him. simply learn to just walk away.
Good luck with everything, I hope all turns out well :)
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okay, so the last two years i have become more miserable-between family and friends, but, this year it has reached a new extreme. ive tried cutting and purging, running, boxing, but nothing helps. i just feel this emptiness. Sometimes, life isnt even that bad, but for some reason i feel the need to be sad. i dont have energy or desire to to do the things i used to do, and i just dont care. i suffer from anxiety attacks and im not even sure how to handle them, how do i make them go away? somtimes i just break down and cry, and i just want to go away, i just feel like i dont fit in. (link)
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it may be a tough thing to admit, but you may suffer from depression or something more serious. you should talk to your parents about maybe going to see a counselor. this way they can test your for mental illnesses and depression. then they can either talk with you about your problems or possible even prescribe you some medication.
Good luck :)
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i really want to grow out my hair, and ive already looked on wikihow on how to make your hair grow faster, but does anyone else have any other tips on how to make it grow faster? and i heard that hair grows faster in warm weather. is that true? and how often should i get my hair trimmed to get all the dead ends off? (link)
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try prenatal vitamins. last summer i cut all my hair off, and i panicked because it was way to short. i went on prenatal vitamins, even though i wasn't pregnant, and my hair grew a lot faster.
Good luck :)
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Well my ex - boyfriend like broke up with me a few months ago and his friend told me tht he hated me and i didnt do anything to him and i dont believe his friend . uhm well i think i may be starting to like him again but i dont know if i should like talk to him becuz it'll be pretty weird so i dont know wht to do but i really wanna be friends with him . (link)
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i unfortunatly dont really beleive in exes as friends.. in my experiance, it had NEVER worked out well. but you shoudl definatly talk to your ex about him hating you... because you dont want things to be awkward between the two of you. its okay to be friendly with one another... but for me getting back with my ex was never really a good thing, we just ended up hurting eachtoher more. I hope that things work out batter for you. But thinkk long and hard about it before you decide to still have feelings for him
Good luck :)
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im making a video for my sister graduating high school
any recommendations of songs playing during the vid? (link)
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you're gonna miss this by Trace Adkins
graduation by Vitamin C
good riddance by Greenday
I'm coming out by Diana Ross
i hope you dance by Lee Ann Womack
Hope this is what you were looking for :)
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