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guy going back to ex!!!!
Hi guys,
I have a dilemma!!!
I am really interested in this guy...we have known each other for years and have been on and off for a long long time...
Just recently we have rekindled and things were going really well when on Saturday night he cancelled his plans to go to the footy to come into the city with his friends and my friends for my brothers bday.
Things were good i thought, laughing...kissing...chatting etc...We had organised a hotel room and everything!! :)
All of a sudden this group of girls rocked up which i assumed were friends with him and his mates as one girl in particular was all over his mate...
Later in the night the guy i like told me "sorry im being weird but that girl is my ex and i feel weird hooking u with you in front of her as it is recent and i dont want her to cause a scene"...i was taken back by it and didnt know ow to act?
Anyways, later on this girl took the guy into another room with her friends as she said she needed to talk to him....so after awhile and he still hadnt come back i went and found him dancing and mucking around with his ex and her friends.....i felt like an idiot so i decided to leave and not cause a scene...
His cousin messaged me saying sorry for his cousin and that he had left wth his ex and stayed at hers...i was sooooo devastated as i really like him!!!
i heard nothing from him until this morning (MONDAY) which he said sorry for say night and that the chick is obsessed and he had a massive fight with her once i left and he did NOT stay at hers!! He went on to sy he wanted to be with me soooo BAD!!!
Im not sure what to think or do in this situtaion!!!Please help ASAP????
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Talk to him and see if he sounds trustable, find out behind his back if he stayed at his ex's house or not, and if he did then, thr answer is pretty clear, ignore him and move on. May be tough at first but it is all worth it!! :D But if he didn't stay at his ex's then, talk to him and tell him that you were hurt and annoyed that he LEFT you to go hang with his ex and now that he wants you, you feel hesitant! It is understandable, the way you feel, so just talk to him and NO one can blame you for the way you felt, it is totally natural!
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Well do you relle feel like this guy is worth it? and would he lie to you? i mean if you can trust him and you know he wouldnt lie then id say forget about the whole thing and just go with the guy.. But if its a i dont know type of thing then i would deff look into it before anything happens between you guyz. I know how alot guyz lik to mess with girls emotions soo you just gota be careful with any guy.
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hmm well you should definatly talk to him about it. just be like, listen i am hearing that you went home with this girl and that you are back together. tell him that you are okay with them getting back together if that is what he wants... but he cant keep leading you on if he still has feelings for her. hopefully he will tell you the truth..
Good luck :)
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