Okay so a little while back I got fucked over big time and now I can't feel for anything and trust me I have tried.I don't know what to do now so if you could help me that would be great
Well it all really depends on what happened. It sounds like your not legging something go that should be held onto or you let it go but you really shouldn't have.
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so...thers this girl. she has me in the palm of her hand, and i think she knos it.she is always on my mind every second of my life. i love her to death but im not sure if she loves me the same way.she tells me we are going to get married, but how do i know if she means it?shes a real "closed off"person and she opened up to me the other day and it made my heart fly in the sky, but i dont know if its going to continue.it kinda seems like a 1 time thing, u know?i want her so bad, but this is the kicker.Shes dateing other men.it makes me jeaolous to the bone, but i dont knw how to deal with it.you seem to give really good advice, so please get back to me on this, thanks...
I think if you really cared about this girl then you would let her take her time, believe what she tells you. If she's dating other people then that's something your just going to have to except for now. Don't force her into things and situations that you know you shouldn't be putting her in. She obviously closed off to people for a reason, you wouldn't want to hurt the friendship by stressing things. If there's one thing that closed off people need the most is knowing that no matter what happens, they can trust you.
Hoped i helped.
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hey i need some help when i hang out with my friends i feel like... like they would not even see if i just up and left and even when i'm with just one of them i feel out of place and like i just get a feeling that they could care less if i was there or not and like i will tell them you can call when ever for whatever but it seems like they don't care i just don't know what to do we all were so tight and now i feel out of the circle so please help me if you can
Im sure your friends care, i mean if they didnt then i dont think they would be hanging out with you in the first place, right? Maybe your just being paranoid, but maybe you should talk to them. It could be a totally unintentional cause. If you are tight with them, then you dont want to just sit back and watch your friendships fall apart.
Best of luck
Hope i helped :)
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Hey I would like some advice there is this girl I likelove to death I dont know what I should do because i have told her that i love her and she did not say anything back she just like sat there.And part of me tells me to get over her but the other part tells me to hold on I dont know what to do every time I try to start to get over her she is all I can think about.Can you help me out?
Well if you relle care about this girl alot then maybe u should just sit down with her and tell her how you feel. Elaborate on your feelings not just "i love you". I mean if your good friends with her then maybe she feels the same way just not sayin to much about it. Maybe she doesn't. So don't jump to conclusions. Be prepared for the worst and best of the situation, and even if she doesn't have feelings now then you never know wut the future holds. If she means that much to you then don't throw the friendship away if she doesn't have feelings for you. Friendships can always lead to something better, you never know. But it also depends if you find it worth it. If you see your friendship turning to a relationship lata on then work at it, if not then maybe it would be best to let go of the feelings and find someone else.
Best of luck
Hope i helped :)
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I need help! My best friend's birthday is tomorrow, and I don't know what to do with her! I started out thinking a movie, but she doesn't like movies (we don't hang out much, so I wanna do something WITH her) PLEASE HELP!
Well if she doesnt like movies.. Then maybe you guyz could go shopping? or maybe bowling? or the beach? or just hang out and chill.
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today i was with my boyfriend and we went swimming. we were messing around and he put his penis in me for like maybe a second and it popped out. this happened like twice. he said there was no precum or anything but incase there was and he didnt know, do you think i could be pregnant? ive heard many different things about sperm being in precum and i just want the true facts.
Well considering it only happened for a few seconds, i doubt you will have any problem. But yes you can get pregnant from precum. So be careful.
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14\Female.
I think I suffer from Depression. I always feel sad, and empty. At home I'm miserable. I hate it here, right when I get off the bus I go into my room and write and go to bed. I have stopped eating normaly- now the only time I do I bindge like crazy and eat everything in sight and that's when my Dad says something to me. At school I always have a smile on my face, and Im laughing with all my friends but I dont feel like me. But I fear that if I show up at school with sweats and a baggy T-shit and tell everyone I have considered cutting myself to remember what it feels like to be in control they wont like me. Which I know isn't the case. They love me, I know but I dont feel loved. I eat to fill this emptyness inside of me, cry when I get to angry and Im afraid I'll lash out. I cry constantly alone, but when Im with people I can't. I will always go to the bathroom... or my bedroom like Im ashamed of it. The storys I write that my friends say are ahmazeing are what I wish my life would be. No one knows how said I am, and its like I have two personalitys and I would gie anything to be the girls in my storys. The happy, go lucky always have a happy ending. I dont know what to do though Im afraid that if I tell my parents they wont care and wont do anything about it.
Depression is hard to go trhough especially if you dont know the direct cause.. Hiding it i wut most people do czuse they dont want other people to get involved, so thats normal with depression.. but you need to talk to someone about it. If you feel you cant talk to your parents then i would suggest talkin to a best friend. Best friends will alwayz be there for you no matter what. It helps to get it out and to have some one that understands you. Once you find that person that you can go to everytime your feeling sad.. It will help.. things happen thats gone be beyond your controk but you just alwayz got to keep lookin at the bright things in life and that you only live once so you got to make the best of it right..
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so I'm supposed to be getting my period either this or thenext week, and me and my boyfriend messed around last week. Would this upcoming period prove I wasn't pregnant, or would I have to wait for the next one?
To be totally sure id wait until your next one, and if you do miss ur period either times it would be smart to take a prenancy test.
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Hi guys,
I have a dilemma!!!
I am really interested in this guy...we have known each other for years and have been on and off for a long long time...
Just recently we have rekindled and things were going really well when on Saturday night he cancelled his plans to go to the footy to come into the city with his friends and my friends for my brothers bday.
Things were good i thought, laughing...kissing...chatting etc...We had organised a hotel room and everything!! :)
All of a sudden this group of girls rocked up which i assumed were friends with him and his mates as one girl in particular was all over his mate...
Later in the night the guy i like told me "sorry im being weird but that girl is my ex and i feel weird hooking u with you in front of her as it is recent and i dont want her to cause a scene"...i was taken back by it and didnt know ow to act?
Anyways, later on this girl took the guy into another room with her friends as she said she needed to talk to him....so after awhile and he still hadnt come back i went and found him dancing and mucking around with his ex and her friends.....i felt like an idiot so i decided to leave and not cause a scene...
His cousin messaged me saying sorry for his cousin and that he had left wth his ex and stayed at hers...i was sooooo devastated as i really like him!!!
i heard nothing from him until this morning (MONDAY) which he said sorry for say night and that the chick is obsessed and he had a massive fight with her once i left and he did NOT stay at hers!! He went on to sy he wanted to be with me soooo BAD!!!
Im not sure what to think or do in this situtaion!!!Please help ASAP????
Well do you relle feel like this guy is worth it? and would he lie to you? i mean if you can trust him and you know he wouldnt lie then id say forget about the whole thing and just go with the guy.. But if its a i dont know type of thing then i would deff look into it before anything happens between you guyz. I know how alot guyz lik to mess with girls emotions soo you just gota be careful with any guy.
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