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It's a relationship problem with one of my closest friend-bo
Well, I've become close to this guy, I can tell him anything and everything and I trust him with all I have. The only time I saw him was school and outside of school too. But now that its summer, I haven't seem him in a while, and it's driving me nuts because I like him more then a friend, and he knows that, he likes me too but we're not dating. So that means, he can do whatever he wants. I know he cares for me and wants me to be happy and see me, but, lately, him and his friends have been hanging out with these girls they've known since summer has started, which was only about two or three weeks ago. And I'm afraid the guy I like is going to fall for one of the girls and forget all about me. I don't know what to do. We've known each other then he's known the girls, but I can't help free will. People always say guys go to bed and wake up thinking of the girl they care about, it used to be me, I know it, but what if its not anymore? What do I do?
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I don't understand why you haven't just straight up told him how you feel, even about the fear of losing his interest. Ask him if it is possible that you guys can get together this weekend and do something just the two of you because you need to talk to him about something personal. Once he accepts your invitation, tell him that you like him very much and that you think of him all the time,and that you realize you like him for more than a friend. Tell him that he makes you happy and you want to make him happy too. Ask him for a relationship if that's what you want out of the friendship. You already know each other so it should be no problem. Tell him that you get concerned when he is kicking with these other girls and that you want to be first in his life, and that you trust him but want to hold that title of his girl. GOOD LUCK
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If it worries you a lot, try to keep in contact with him as much as possible. Texting him or calling him can decrease your worries, though don't constantly call or message him. Emails work the same way too. Communication is always the key to a healthy relationship.
If you can't comunicate with him without being face to face, then try to set up plans so you can meet up with him. Wanting to be with him says that you still want him, and he will prolbably see this.
And if he's the great guy you make him seem like, then you shouldn't worry at all. As a guy, he'll have friends that will expose him to lots of girls. Its something to get use to later. But as long as you have hope, things should be better
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you need to tell him exactly how you feel. if he feels the same... then you two should get together. if he doesnt feel the same, then he is allowed to date other girls and you should do the same by dating other guys.
I hope things work out for you :)
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