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Life is full of hardships and though being as young as I am, I've dealt with a lot over my time. I'll admit, I've never had a death of a loved one, getting stung by a bee, had cancer, or died and revived so I can live to tell about it, I still have some know hows on how to deal with it all. I know things here and there that have nothing to do with anything but it helps in times of need. Its all a matter of paying attention and figuring out what could have, would have, or should have been done.

I can give great advice sometimes, buts a matter of fact that you can't just read it and go,"That's a great idea, I might do that..." Take into account that advice is only as good as the person who uses it, not the person who gives it...
The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.
George Eliot
English novelist (1819 - 1880)


Character is what God and the angels know of us; reputation is what men and women think of us.
Horace Mann
US educator (1796 - 1859)

Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Hebrews 13:2

We are, each of us angels with only one wing; and we can only fly by embracing one another.
Luciano de Crescenzo

A man does not have to be an angel in order to be a saint.
Albert Schweitzer
French philosopher & physician (1875 - 1965)

God always has an angel of help for those who are willing to do their duty.
T. L. Cuyler

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so i made a video that exceeds the time limit. can someone tell me where i can edit the video to make it shorter for free? like an editing website or something....all help will be appreciated

Mediaconverter.org may help, I know you can do adjustments on the site, but I don't think there are too many websites that will allow a free edit...

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OMG! I have tried everything to get my wii internet working. See I have my computer cconectd to my tv, so I assumed the internet would work wii as well. But everytime I try the acess point shows up as 4EDQ0 and it says I need a code to acces it. I have no clue what that code is. If their are any coputer genius's out their please please help me! If you know what the code may be then put it down

the code is probably your network password, assuming your internet network is closed. If its an open network, there should be no need for a code...

You should also check the Wii manual just in case...

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I purchased ghd hair straightener from hairstraightenercare.com And its working well.
But i am worried that is it good to use hair straightener twice in a week?
Please suggest me.

Straightening your hair too much can actually kill your hair, making it look literally like its dead. Twice a week should be fine, as long as your hair is able to retain its natural oils and such for a little bit of time so that it can heal from the heat damage. But if your still worried, I suggest finding a hair care product that protects your hair from heat damage.

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a few days ago, i noticed i got a cold sore on the side of my mouth. it's not very noticeable, it doesn't hurt, but i know it is a cold sore. i know this is a form of herpes, it's just from the cold weather or chapped lips [not due to anything sexual], but would i still be able to kiss my boyfriend? or is that too risky?

According to certain readings, its okay to kiss as long as there isn't a clear liquid coming from it(pus) because thats how it spreads. Really, your better off waiting till it subsides, unless he doesn't really care. I mean, the worst that can happen it he gets a cold sore too. Its harmless anyways...(unless you attempt to do anything sexual, in which I tell you to decline...)

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Lets say you were intoxicated to a point where you ended up blanking out and dont remember every detail of the night, and someone tried to get you to have sex with them by touching you where they shouldnt but you you managed to tell them no you cant do it so you didnt have sex, didnt kiss them, or touch them back. Would you consider that cheating??

PS: drinking is only ok in moderation and I dont think I will be touching any for a long time. That could have turned to a dangerous situation and I am aware of that.

In all technicality, "cheating" generally means you were WILLING to be in some sort of relationship or affair with another person while in a relationship. Since by all means you weren't willing and nothing was really done by your own choice, its not cheating. However, if the situation had gone farther and you did something back, certain people considering that as cheating on a relationship.

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how do i get myspace 2.0 i've been trying the whole costomize profile but they dont have it anymore?

You should check customize your profile again and see if there is a page that tells you to upgrade to MS Profile 2.0 or go and report a bug. For mine when I went to pro 1 I was prompted to upgrade when I went to customize profile, but you may a different problem.

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i feel like i'm always competing with my boyfriend. we both really love each other but like he always tells me how im "good at everything" and then he tries to do something im okay at but not too great at and be better than me...is this normal? i honestly don't think im good at everything...can anyone give me advice?

16/f and hes 16/m

Er, its a guy thing. Guys want to try to impress women by being good at more things than them. If you do better at more things than he, he will most likely find ways to try and make himself seem better. Its nothing that's out of the ordinary, though it can get out of hand if things get too far. He just feels intimidated and feels you do good at everything you do and really just wants to impress you that he can do what you can't. Competitive or not, its how most guys are...

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Hi, I recently just got my first boyfriend, and I really like him a lot. He went out with my best friend, who is perfectly OK with it, trust me. But, I'm not sure how to act. I am still being myself, obviousely. However, I feel like I'm acting more like a friend than a girlfriend. I just want to know how to act more like a girlfriend.
Thanks!
ps. we hav kissed..but have not made out.

It will usually start out like that. You will only act as though your just really good friends, but it is the beginning of the relationship, you don't need to rush in and suddenly start being a significant other just like that. Let the relationship grow, and you will begin to develop it on your own.

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so im fixing up my myspace and im getting a little sick of going from site to site trying to find good page graphics. i want to make my own. is there like a program i can download or a site with a generator maybe ? because everywhere ive checked is just agitating me. "/

pimp-my-profile.com has a generator which you can use to make layouts. Its actually a very good generator too.

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Well, my other problem was never solved.
But a message keeps popping up on iTunes and it says something similar to ''The iTunes library could not be saved (-48)''

Is there any way I could fix this? I think this is the main cause why my songs don't stay in iTunes...

Thanks!

Try uninstalling Itunes and reinstalling it. You may not have the correct programs to save music to Itunes.

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Trying to burn a disc from itunes library i get a message that disc recording software not found and i have done everything properly I am on a new system my old one was a 32 bit vista and changed to a 64 bit vista, Havent been able to burn a cd since any advice i would be greatfull

You do not specify if you have a disk recording program. Which means, its likely you dont. I would suggest getting one so you can bunr CDs

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i'm going to be a junior next year and am interested in doing a program they have at my school called post secondary where you can take some college classes along with your high school classes and basically be enrolled in college too.
kent state university is the college btw.

so has anyone ever done this or know anything about it?

if so i have some questions...

is it like a ton of work? i know its going to be a lot more but i just want to know the work load

were the ACTs really hard? [we have to take those to get it]

did it make you miss friends you normally got to see more?

do you think it was worth it?

thanks
i think i could do it, i get A's and B's and always want to do the highest classes i can haha so thanks for any advice! =]

I live in Vegas and we have the same program, or at least close to it. Its a great program and gets you way ahead of the game. It can be frustrating at some times because of the difference in normality, financial needs, peers, and the workload you may receive on some weeks.

The work load all depends on your professor and the classes you take for highschool. Certain professors give homework, others don't. But your highschool classes will. Which means one day you may have very little if any HW, but another you may be up to your neck in papers. Not to be discouraging, but procrastination is no longer an ally(if it ever was) if you take the program.

Though I have yet to take the ACTs, I'm sure its about the same as normal highschool ACTs. I wouldn't know why they would increase the level of difficulty just because you go to a college for high school.

I personally don't and do miss old friends. There are things I could still do in my original highschool, but I never have the time, even though I can drive. But other people take the program as well, so you also make new friends. In a way, its somewhat better to make friends in the program, because there is less peer pressure and drama.

Sometimes I wonder if its worth all my day to do all these classes I take over my highschool classes. But then I realize every time I think about just dropping out and going back to my original high school, that I'm having a great opportunity to get use to college life now and am able to get the basic classes out of the way now and focus on career, unlike staying in a normal high school. There, all you can take is AP classes, but they are harder than actual college classes...

Overall, I recommend it. Its a great opportunity you should not pass up. Even if it means not being able to see your normal friends at school. You make new friends and are able to see your old ones when your not in school. Its a challenge, but its all worth it.

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How do you be yourself?

I a wonder about stuff like friendship and like my personality and when i ask my friend about these things she just says:

"Just be yourself."

How do I be myself?

To be yourself, you act the way you naturally are(not copying others all the time), you express your opinions based on your own ideas(not influences of others), you be who you are, how you are, the way you want to be. No one can really tell you how to be yourself, because we aren't you. Only you can be you, and you have to find your own way to be yourself. Don't copy other people all the time, don't act like other people, don't express opinions of other people(unless they are your own as well), and just be you....

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I live in Missouri. I'm 17/F My parents both have auto insurance with AAA, and I've heard that some insurances give discounts for good grades (3.0 on a 4.0 GPA+), is that true with AAA for young drivers? Also, how many hours of driving school would I have to take to get a discount of my insurance for AAA?

That is something your should check with your insurance agent, different areas have different plans and discounts. I do believe, however, that the discount for high GPA is true for AAA.

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when your school or colleges look at volunteering, does key club volunteer work count as actual out of school volunteering? or should you do extra on your own if you want out of school hours?

You should check with the teacher or president about it, because technically you can only get hours by working for of non-profit organizations. But different people have different rules, so check with whoever is in charge

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I need a good song to make me cry

about a guy i REALLY liked, and he got back with is ex =( and he never knew how i felt.

i know all taylor swift songs, so please dont give me those!
thanks!

(Song - Artist)
Broken Hearts, Torn Up Letters, and the Story of a Lonely Girl - Lostprophets[though not the saddest song, it might help]
Congratulations - Blue October
My Immortal - Evanescence
Hello - Evanescence
Missing - Evanescence
Broken Wing - Thousand Foot Krutch
Attack(acoustic) - 30 Seconds to Mars
Rain - Breaking Benjamin
Forget It - Breaking Benjamin
Valentines Day - Linkin Park
My December - Linkin Park
In The End - Linkin Park
The Reason - Hoobastank
Already Over pt2 - RED


You dont have to like any of these or find them helpful, its just what I think are quite sad to me

Good way to listen to sad songs is to form a playlist on playlist.com and find as many sad songs as you can on the site and add them to the playlist and just listen to them every time you feel you want to cry. Saves up the time to have to find any, because they are conveniently right there for internet use...

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On my myspace i have this thing.... I don't know when it appeared but it's a small black box and it says my display name then videos.
It... i really don't know what it is. it's just there :p obviously has to do with videos but i don't have any videos uploaded at all
so if you could give me advice on how to get rid of the damn thing the it'd be appreciated

On Myspace, if you use profile editor 2.0 then you will have a better chance of hiding it. First go to customize profile. Then just go to modules on the top panel and click around till the video thing disappears. If you prefer profile editor 1, then you will have to go to your account settings or try in Profile Editor videos and music and see if theres anything there.

If none of the above work, try getting rid of all your codes and see if that solves the problem. You'll have to start all over with the layouts and stuff, but it gets rid of the video thing is it was a coded module

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hi all
i have a question.... i go to gym about 5 days a week... but still i have a few extra pounds around my belly n chest.... and in my diet i only include eggs on the non-vegetarian portion just after the gym...what i want to know is that is the yellow part of the egg so full of fats that i shud leave it in my plate only or shuld i eat it too.... i want to increase muscle mass on my biceps then which part of the egg should i eat and any special time when eating eggs would be mist effective ??

er, eggs dont really increase anything... They're just food. They'll give you the protein you need to help gain muscle when you work out, but the only way your going to gain muscle mass anywhere is to exercise. Theres no easy way for almost anything...

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My boyfriend's cat goes outside, and I guess she caught fleas. While I was there over the weekend Im pretty sure I brought them home. Ive been itchy for the past couple days and its driving me insane. Theyre more than likely in my house now too. What do I do to get rid of them on me, my pets, and in my house? Is there anyway without a bomb?

take a look at this website

http://www.drsfostersmith.com/pic/article.cfm?aid=60

it has all the information you want, need, and more.

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what are some good christian songs/artists?

Anberlin
House of Heroes
High Flight Society
Family Force 5
Emery
Flyleaf
Fireflight
Jonah33
Red
Relient K
Ivoryline
Stellar Kart
Casting Crowns
Jeremy Camp
Falling Up
Kutless
Children 13:8
Capitallights(sp?)

there are plenty more out there. If you have Itunes, you could listen to the online radio station The Blast. Or see if you can find this FM radio station from this site http://www.effectradio.com/

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