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Is this considered cheating


Question Posted Tuesday December 23 2008, 8:55 pm

Lets say you were intoxicated to a point where you ended up blanking out and dont remember every detail of the night, and someone tried to get you to have sex with them by touching you where they shouldnt but you you managed to tell them no you cant do it so you didnt have sex, didnt kiss them, or touch them back. Would you consider that cheating??

PS: drinking is only ok in moderation and I dont think I will be touching any for a long time. That could have turned to a dangerous situation and I am aware of that.


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AskShay answered Tuesday December 30 2008, 3:03 pm:
no it does not consist of cheating because you stop and went yourway.

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Lynn_lushh answered Wednesday December 24 2008, 5:49 pm:
nope, that isn't cheating but the fact that that person was trying to take advantage of you is molestation and it could of been worse, so in the future try to be more responsible when drinking or have a trusty friend with you always so you don't end up in a situation like that again, and you should also consider reporting that guy or something b/c he could do something like that again later on to someone else and that person might not even get the chance to stop him and that can mess up their life.
hope i helped,
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TanDancer answered Wednesday December 24 2008, 1:49 am:
This isn't cheating--it's molestation. However, (I'm assuming this happened to you) I would talk to your significant other about it, so that word doesn't get to him/her through someone else and they believe you are cheating, which can be just as damaging to a relationship. If the guilt doesn't go away or you just need to, I would also suggest talking to a psychologist or therapist of some sort. While it's not smart to drink enough to lose control over yourself, it is never your fault if someone molests or rapes you. If you need someone to talk to, remember that there are many of us here that love to help, and you can always message us. Good luck and much love.

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Psycotheis answered Wednesday December 24 2008, 1:23 am:
In all technicality, "cheating" generally means you were WILLING to be in some sort of relationship or affair with another person while in a relationship. Since by all means you weren't willing and nothing was really done by your own choice, its not cheating. However, if the situation had gone farther and you did something back, certain people considering that as cheating on a relationship.

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