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Unconfortable With my Body
14/f
For my age i guess you could say im overweight but for all the muscle and height i have to me..im not really. I weigh about 160 pounds and you may say holy crap she is fat but im not i just have like a stomach that goes out but like not really (bro calls it a poochie) but like me and my friends always call each other fat playing all the time but now it has gotten to my head and i think i am...when i loose my virginity for the 1st time i want to be confident with my partner to be able to show him my body with out being scared...how can i do this when everything just seems so wrong..i also wear a 36C and feel my boobs are look really weird cuz they dont look like some on movies i no this all sounds weird but please help is it just a phase?? Thanks! XOXO
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if you want to be more confident about your body, and want to be healthy, you can always try eating healthy and doing more exercise. do fun things like taking dance class or something like that so you can be getting in shape and have fun at the same time. :) it isn't about being skinny and looking hot or anything but being skinny isn't so healthy either, but being out of shape can lead to a lot of health problems later on when you're older, but since your only 14, that's a good thing so you should work on getting in shape now, but remember to have fun with it too, and don't stress over it. hope I helped!
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I, myself, am about 160 pounds also. And I have the stomach that goes out ,but that's about it. I dont have a double chin or whatever, so as you explained yourself, we kind of have the same problem. So I know how you feel.
First of all, don't worry about your boobs. Nobody's looks like the ones on TV/movies. They enhance them to make it look better,in most cases.
As for your question "is this just a phase?"..I think the answer is no. Phases are things that go without explanation. The weight isn't going to come off by itself, you have to work at it. But, usually most of the weight gain during puberty comes off, about 1-5 pounds.
Almost every teenage girl is upset with their body. Don't feel alone, because a lot of other people at this very moment are degrading themselves and their bodies. Us teenage girls just have to live with it and learn to love ourselves. It's hard to, but you just have to work at it.
Good luck with everything.
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