about

18/f

currently attending community college, taking psychology, english, math, and french, thinking about majoring in psychology.

i write songs and play piano.

i loooove music. all kinds. my favorite artists are fiona apple and muse. my ipod is practically a part of my body.



advice

Don't ask me why, ok? I need to know how long you can go without eating before something bad happens? I don't want to die but I need to lose weight and I have tried it all.

please don't judge me. :(

If you don't eat, you will gain weight. (I know that sounds backwards). Your body will think you're starving and hold on to whatever food you give it. Eating more often is a better way to stimulate your metabolism.

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hi 14f


I was wondering how to keep my foundation from fading? i use maybeleen dream mousse foundation, its the wet kind. In dhe morning i put the wet foundation on, than the powder kind. it looks good, but during the day at school i see i can see my pimples and skin come threw. like my skins like a redish color and i use the makeup to cover it,but my face isnt all red just a little on my cheeks and chin.Help me out there? I also wanted to know some sexy makeup ideas usually i wear the gray eyeshadow with purple,blue or green eyeliner, and sometimes over lap them, it looks nice and i get a lot of compliments. I want more! haha i like to look nice, and i want my bf to be proud of his girl. :) i love make up,i don't wear it constantly though. im happy with the way i look..sometimes. tips, ideas and links would be appreciated thanks so much!!!

You need to use a makeup primer- Bare Escentuals Prime Time is amazing. I also recommend not using a mousse foundation, they fade quickly. Maybelline Mineral Powder powder foundation is really good and lasts all day. Use stick concealer on any red areas, then set it with a powder, otherwise it will come right now. L'oreal Bare Naturale translucent powder is good.

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Hi! I'm from Miami.... and I am planning to move to California. I am almost done with college and since I'm a Mass Communications/Broadcast Journalism major, I think there's a lot of opportunities there. I also had an internship that has opened a lot of doors, but what better place than California? I am in love with the idea of living in California, but I'm terrified of earthquakes. I have a lot of anxiety and I have dreams that I'll be at the gym, and there will be an earthquake. Or that I'll be at work, and it will hit... or that my boyfriend and I will be driving, and then an earthquake will happen. I'm terrified! I did a little research on it, but it's not the same as getting an opinion of someone who lives there. If you live in California, can you tell me a little bit about it? And if there are any earthquakes... and what their like? I would appreciate it greatly! Thank you!

I live in California, and I've never worried about earthquakes. I am 19, and the entire time I've been alive I've never experienced a major earthquake. Once every few years I've experienced a minor earthquake since I live nearly on a fault line; however, they're more fun than anything. You might feel a little shaking but usually the way you notice is something moving (i.e. clothes in a closet). It's all just experience, I'd be kind of scared to live in Florida because of tropical storms.

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How can I make my breast smaller? There not terribly big but I still hate them! I'm a dancer and I HATE it when my breast "jiggle" on stage. I really want to make my breast smaller. I will work out 24/7 if I have to. To tell you the truth I want the breasts of a nine year old (thats not relistic I know). Please tell me! I'll stop eating, I'll work out 24/7, I'll eat my dog!!! (well that last one was a joke haha) PLEASE HELP!!!

The only way you can really make them smaller is if you lose a lot of weight, but I'm guessing that since you're a dancer and work out a lot you already are skinny. Just buy a good sports bra; it might be a pain for dance but at other times you won't want tiny breasts.

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Okay so there's this party going on this Saturday and all the seniors are going including myself and I have TO LOOK absolutely fabulous and hot. I'm going with the whole sexy blonde vixen/new girl look. Anyways I've limited my dress options and I just wanna hear what you guys think. The occasion is just a house party with beer pong, keg stands probably, and I have no idea what else so its pretty casual. But I still wanna stand out from the rest of the girls in a good way.

Dress Options:

1) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449976&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1

2) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449974&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1

3) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=441453&CategoryID=14961&PageID=14953*8*24*-1*-1*1

I think I'm going to pair it with some classic YSL Pumps:
http://www.ysl.com/us/en/onlineBoutique/Women/Shoes/P-Tribute%20Platform%20Patent%20Slingback.aspx

Here's a photo of me also so you guys can see which dress would look great on me:

http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094269905692_10000015357728.jpg

http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094186572367_10000015357728.jpg

Definitely the first one, the second is too professional-looking for a party and the third is kind of shapeless.

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how do you get buttsex to not hurt?

Honestly? You don't.

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Okay, well I am going to the movies with my boyfriend this weekend and I usually know what I would wear, but I am not too sure this time. Any suggestions?

It depends on how the weather is where you live, really.


If it's nice out, a cute top, maybe empire waist, with a dark pair of jeans, heels (flats if he's shorter), cute earrings, and maybe a little sweater for inside.

Example shirt:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_567885_-1_12646_12552


Example jeans:
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat90120&productId=1435_7603


Example shoes:
http://www.payless.com/store/product/detail.jsp?skuId=074480060&productId=66246&subCatId=&catId=&lotId=074480&category=&catdisplayName=Womens+

And some cute earrings and bag. It's cute without trying too hard.


If it's a little colder, try a cute tight long sleeved shirt, jeans, and knee high boots over. If it's really cold, a coat over.


Do something cute with your hair- maybe half up or curled, and subtle but pretty makeup.

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just wanted to sat "your hott"

haha thanks :)

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I got this phone around August, maybe July. This phone is absolute crap! IT SUCKS. If any of you have this phone too and the same problem let me know and let me know if verizon has fixed it or has sent a replacement.

My phone randomly shuts off. Sometimes when im recieving a call! it's redicilous. I'm getting sick of it... this happens maybe 2 times a day. Sometimes more, sometimes less. And sometimes when it shuts off and i turn it back on, MY WHOLE ENTIRE PHONE IS RESET. All my settings are put back to default! IM GETTING SICK OF CHANGING EVERYTHING BACK. It's so annoying! I saw that people had the same problems on phone review sites but they just returned it withen the 14 day period, im way over it. Any suggestions?

It's just a problem with the phone, I have the Voyager (which is the exact same phone just minus apps) and it does that, and so do enV2s. My mom took hers to the Verizon store after having problems with it turning off and they plugged in it and did something (reprogramming I think) that fixed it, so I suggest taking it to the store.

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Ok My ex and I are talking about getting back to gether, she loves that I can give her orgasms but yesterday when I was being funny I pulled it out and she compared it to her bfs. she was like I thought u were bigger, well u must b fatter and hes longer. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT BIGGER.
its about... 6in but when really turned on and hard its about 6.5in. and diameter is 2 inchs and the circumference is like 6 inchs. I wanna be longer please tellme how

Sorry, but there's no way to make it bigger, and really, if she cares, you shouldn't be with her in the first place.

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So when i get erections if im around a girl i find semi attractive i always find myself trying to make it noticable to them. So my question is do girls find it arousing if they can see you have an erection?

No. Not at all. In fact, although I know you can't help it, it is kind of creepy sometimes, when it's someone you don't know all too well or don't like. It's just weird/awkward, especially if you haven't kissed or done anything physical. I try to ignore it.

If it's a boyfriend/husband, whole nother story.

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I guess this is mostly for girls, any idea where I can buy those long stretchy tanktops all the girls wear? They're like layered underneath sweatshirts and hoodies. I have ones but they have lace on the bottom, i want like plain edged ones. Thanks guys!

Also, I'm probably an XL or XXL in them, any idea where to find them? I know some stores have online sites where they sell plus sizes, but idk what stores.

American Eagle has them.


Plain:
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat380157&productId=3360_9446


With lace:
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat380157&productId=3360_9617


They have extended sizes online, and tend to run pretty big anyway. In other stores, I wear a medium in fitted shirts, small in tight shirts, and at AE it's always an XS if I want it to fit.

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18/f
Okay so my boyfriend and I were having sex and the condom broke... he never came or anything, but im still scared. I'm not on birth control or anything. He tells me not to worry because he didnt cum, but its there a chance the pre cum can have sperm in it? Should I go take plan B, or just calm down?

Precum does have enough sperm in it to enable conception (and I read that in a college textbook, so it's a pretty reliable source). Some guys have a lot of precum, some don't. Your best option is to take Plan B just in case. Preventative measures don't hurt, as long as you're only taking it once.

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I am 20 years old and my BFF turns 21 only 4 months before I do but I really want to go to his party at a bar. I may or may not drink but I at least need ID to get in. I know Fake IDs are wrong but I'm not asking for a lecture about it, my question is how can I get a fake ID? Is there another way to get in without ID? Would it be possible to use someone elses ID that looks similar to me? How well do they look at your picture and do they record the information? I need all the answers I can get and maybe some personal stories. Thanks a bunch!

You can try to sneak in, but that's not a great idea.

To get a fake ID, you just kind of have to know someone, so ask around...but if you can get an ID for someone who's the same height and the same color hair, that's usually all they check, especially if it's a crowded place.

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should I break up with my boyfriend? We fight about 2-3 times a day averagely; I love him still but this fighting is getting to be too much.. is this reason enough even though i still love him? we have tried to work this out, believe me.. he promised and the promises were broken.. nothing works

If you can't figure out the reason why you fight so much, you can't fix it, so yes, you probably should break up. Loving someone is not a reason to stay with them. If you can't handle a breakup, then at least take a break, but it really sounds like you're better off without him.

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whenever im with my gf we always makeout and stuff, but we never go any further. I know shes had sex with one guy and done alot of other stuff with other guys but weve never done anything and its not like we just starting going out. Its not that im asking her to hav sex, but she wont even give me a bj or hj. what can i say or do to get her to 'go further' without saying like can u give me a blowjob?

It's hard to tell without actually knowing her...she could be shy, she could be wanting to wait, she could be wanting you to make the first move...Really, unless you think she'd be comfortable with you like moving her hand so she does,(which most girls would hate) the only thing you can do is talk about it. Because really, if you're not mature to talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it anyway.

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18/f
My boyfriend and I just had unprotected sex for time (for both of us) last friday. I wasn't on birth control either. My boyfriend bought me this PlanB pill that you're supposed to take within three days after intercourse. I just took it and today is the third day. For the past two-three months, my periods started around the 9th. We had sex on the 16th and I haven't had my period yet.What am I supposed to think of this? Is it just a change in my "time of the month"? Am I late because I had sex? Can you get pregnant within three days? Help?

If you've gotten your period for 2 or 3 months, chances are, you're not pregnant. Plan B can mess with your period, make it come earlier or later or sometimes not at all.

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15, F.

Alright, In June I had gotten the env Touch because my enV 2 had fallen in a lake and gotten lost.
Ever since I got it, it would decied to turn off at random times.

Today -October 15- My phone had turned off when I got off my school bus to go into school. I turned it on, and went to type in my phone unlock code but then realized it wasn't there.
Somehow when my phone shut off, it reseted my internal and external background, banner, and took off my phone lock code.
But everything else was fine.

I though it was just a random screw up in the system since nothing had happened the rest of the day.

Now it's 8:20pm and my phone just did the exact same thing again.
I turned it on and put everything back to normal.
No less then 3 minutes later it turned off and did the same thing again.

I'm not sure whats going on, but I'm going to bring this to my dads attention tomorrow morning.
If I get another enV Touch if the one I have turns out to have problems, is there any way possible I can save the locked texts I have?

I NEED these texts and I NEED proof of who they're from because they are harassment texts from this girl I locked so I can take her to court of they continue. My schoo principal has seen these texts, so he knows who they're from.

If I forward them to my email it wont say they're from this girl. This is why I absolutley NEED to save these texts somehow with proof of the number they're from.

Help?

And yes, I have a phone memory card that can switch all my data to a new phone, but it DOES NOT switch texts to the knew phone, I've had many experiences with this.

Help, asap.

Take it to the Verizon Store. Most of the newer LG phones do this, but supposedly they can fix it at the store.

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I read recently that Obama won the Nobel Peace Prize. Well, why was President Obama awarded the Nobel Peace Prize anyway? I understand that it's a very big reward to earn the Nobel Peace Prize but I cannot figure out why they felt Obama deserved it. I mean, he hasn't been in office very long and hasn't really contributed anything to our country yet. We're in a very bad economic state even and we still have a lot of our men overseas. I'm not saying that President Obama doesn't deserve the award though--I'm saying I don't know WHY he earned it. Why did he receive the Nobel Peace Prize? I can't recall anything he's done yet that has been so great to deserve such a thing...

It was supposedly for foreign relations and whatnot, but really, it's more of a political gesture- a gesture of faith, as many people begin to turn on Obama for not immediately solving every problem (not realizing that things like the economy don't have quick fixes and can take years). Maybe he will do something to earn it during his term. Who knows?

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i'm looking for some mellow music to do homework & study to, because i just can't focus when it's silent. everyone says john mayer but i'm really not too crazy about him. i LOVE LOVE LOVE secondhand serenade, and things like Keep Driving by Woodale. anyone know of any good artists/songs like that?

George Winston is good piano music.

David Sides' piano covers of popular songs are good, too. (He's on Itunes and YouTube).

Lately, I've been listening to Carla Bruni's album Quelqu'un Ma Dit. Super relaxing and very pretty:
http://music.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=music.artistalbums&artistid=8831298&albumid=12100266

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