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Hey! My name is Ashlea. I've been a member on here for a few years. I'm 24 years old and have a little baby boy. I'm pretty outgoing and I love to joke around. I have a very strong sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I don't care too much about what other people think about me because in the end, you're all you got. Nothing else matters but your true opinion of yourself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways. I never look down on anyone nor do I judge people for their decisions or lifestyles. I love to listen to music. That's probably the only reason I like driving, otherwise, It'd be boring as hell. I love spending time with my son. He is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. He is my best friend and when I'm with him, nothing else matters. The whole world could pass me by, and as long as I have him, it doesn't matter one bit. He's the only one who can truly make me smile. I am truly happy because of him. I love spending money when I have it, and sometimes, that can be a bad habit. I love to write poems, and am told I am very good at it, but only when I'm upset or bothered by something. Lately, though, I have not written any. I also enjoy writing. I seem to have a way with words and I love how a paper sounds after I write it. It makes me sound more intelligent.(lol) I also like to watch movies, mostly comedy and drama...I hate action movies and boy-ish movies. Horror movies give me nightmares(yes, even at this age.) ...I like to go on the computer alot and I love meeting new people, so feel free to get in touch with me!
I hate people who think they are better than you, and people who are snobby or stuck-up. Having that attitude will never get you anywhere in life, and I look at it as a sign of immaturity. I like to be around people that within the first 5 minutes of talking to them you know that you will already feel comfortable with them because they are that down to earth. I can't stand people who criticize other people and their lives. Understand that you, as well, have things about your life that you do not like...so you wouldn't like it very much if people talked about you in a bad way, would you? We're all human, we all make mistakes and run into bad situations. Things happen that we can't control. These are all parts of life though and can be handled with the help of others, which is why negative criticism is not needed.
I believe that what you can't control, you have to let go. Too often we hang onto things when we have no control or power over its outcome, so in the end, life will take its course and we have to just go with it.
I guess some people would say I can be selfish at times, although I choose not to believe that(lol), and if things don't go my way, i WILL be upset. But, I also learn to get over it and move on. I love giving advice. Everyone I know say that's the one thing they love about me the most...I never judge anyone on any of their problems and I truly do enjoy helping people with their problems in any way I can. I will go to any extent I have to in order to help someone else. I have a habit of putting other people's needs ahead of my own. I have been giving people advice and helping people so much with their problems that I don't even get that GREAT feeling anymore from helping people. It's just in my nature and I am happy to just be able to be of some sort of help to anyone: stanger or friend.
I am not here for the ratings or comments. I am only here to help you, and I hope to recieve help in return when I am in need as well. I understand how sometimes you just need somebody to talk to...someone that understands. So don't be afraid to ask me any questions about anything...i'll help you with anything I can. If there is anything I can help you with that you would like to discuss privately, you can note me in my inbox or email me as well as instant message me on AIM. I would be glad to help you. hope to hear from you soon!!
♥ .even the people that never frown...eventually b r e a k . d o w n. ♥
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Kinda long! But please I need your opinion!
22/f. I recently started talking to a guy that I met on tagged. I haven't seen him in person but we have seen pictures of eachother. We've been talkin for over a week now, almost all hours of the night, and I swear we can have a conversation about anything. I will admit, I am not the type to talk on the phone, so it MUST be serious if I'm sacrificing what little sleep I already get because I enjoy talking to him. For once, I'm talkin to a guy who is like myself in very many ways and is not about sex and all that. I can tell he is a very genuine person. We are both very focused on being friends first....
The thing is I know that one day he is going to want to meet me in person yet hasn't mentioned anything about it yet. I'm a big girl (BBW), and I'm just terrified that his opinion may change if he meets me in person. I mean I have pictures on my tagged showing me from my knees up, but I'm wearing black so you can't truly tell how big I really am... I am my worst enemy and there's many flaws that I know I have (big feet, etc.) But I will say what I lack in looks I make up for in personality.
I haven't dated in 4 1/2 years. So I am very shy when it comes down to it. I've been hurt numerous time and I've come to a point where I put my love life in PARK. I've found extra things to do to keep myself busy so the love life wouldn't be such a big deal. But it's tough cause I feel so alone. My friends are getting married and having kids and I feel just so out of the loop...
What do I do? Continue talkin to him?
Yes, continue talking to him! Why not? Even if this turns out to be nothing serious, at least you made a good friend in the process: someone you can talk to, trust, and depend on. As for your looks, you can always do things to get in shape. At the end of the day, if he cares about you, he wouldn't mind. But, it is obviously an insecurity of yours, so, if for your own personal reasons, work on getting in shape. The things you cannot change are what make you who you are...we all have flaws that we would love to change, but it's who you are and you need to find a way to accept that. If you do end up meeting him, take a friend with you because you never know who you're connecting with on the internet.
Hi!I am 15 years old and am a female. You might be thinking 15 years old? Ridiculous. But please i am not the average pathetic 15 year old! I really need help, i'm almost stuck in a love triangle. I met this guy Mike and he is super nice, very polite, and cute and only one year older than me. But he seems to just be wanting to have sex. I've only known him for about a week and i am on my period so its delaying everything thank god! But than there's this guy Steve. He's 4 years older than me but he's really nice, funny, but ugly. Which i do mind a little, but in all honesty looks are not my all! And Steve says that if I keep associating with Mike he will not talk to me any more and things. I like them both but i am scared Mike will hurt me or more like use me for Sex, and Steve well, i see him more as a really good friend but he does not seem to understand that. Just a little advice please, or what you think i should do. Thank You so Much!
Ok first things first, if you think, or better yet know, that Mike is only going to use you for sex, drop him. You will get nowhere with him and you WILL end up getting hurt. You will develop feelings for him and he, on the other hand, will be interested in something completely different. Mike, in my opinion, seems like a dead end. Steve seems to like you, and while his looks may not be what you would like, take it from me, as you get older you will realize that being treated right and being happy is so much more important than how someone looks. At the end of the day, however, a little attraction to someone never hurt anyone either. Steve seems to be looking out for you and he seems to feel something toward you that Mike does not. I know it may be difficult to push off a guy that wants sex, like Mike. He may push harder to be with you and tell you how much he cares for you, but, keep in mind that all of those sweet nothings are just simply efforts to get into your pants. Simple as that. If I were you, I would give it a shot with Steve. He seems to be your safest bet here, and if it doesn't work out, so be it. At least you tried. Hope I helped!! Write back if you have any other questions!!
My boyfriend is turning 21 on sunday. I can not think of a single thing to get for him. ive even asked him and he says he doesnt want anything...im really desperate for some ideas. ive already looked for concert tickets & sports game tickets & theres no thing really that he would be interested in...he has a nice watch..im really just drawing a blank...please help!
I would get him a nice meaningful card and a few fun drinking gifts...that's what i did for my boyfriend's 21st. You could also include a gift card for a mall or his favorite store.
So right now, I'm really in the mood for some movies that will just make me..well, cry.
Some movies that I absolutely adore, that make me really cry, would be Philadelphia (With Tom Hanks..I seriously sob every time I see this movie), Beaches, and Brian's Song.
So does anybody know of any movies that are just tear-jerkers?
Please don't say Titanic or anything like that, I've already seen it.
Thanks.
A Walk to Remember, The Time-Traveler's Wife, My Dog Skip, Marley and Me.
I have a question for anyone that might know, preferably somebody who knows from experience. How much does it cost to get an ambulance to come pick you up? Will the people who run the ambulance be able to help me or do they need to take me to the hospital? I guess overall what I really need to know just in case it is how much does an ambulance ride cost? Does it vary or is there pretty much a set price? I have been having some problems but I don't know if I can afford to go. Can anybody help me?
I believe it is anywhere between 600 and 900 dollars generally. When they take you to the hospital, they will send you a bill in the mail. You do not have to pay upfront on the spot. Then, you can make payments on it if you need to. Also, I am not sure if they will stay at your house and help you as opposed to taking you to the hospital. They will, of course, help you with what they can and, if needed, take you to the ER. My advice: If you feel you need to be checked out right now, go. Don't second guess it when it comes to your health.
Hope I helped! Any other questions, inbox me.
Me and my "boyfriend" had sex for the first time. He's a big jock and I was really excited that someone was actually interested in me. So when he came over to my house he wanted to have sex and I for some reason agreed to do it with him. Anyway, my period was 4 days late and I was freaking out and my bestfriend told me to take some pregnancy tests. All three of them that I took were positive. I told my "boyfriend" about it and he just laughed and broke up with me. I want to keep the baby, but I don't want to me known as a slut for the rest of my school life because I made one mistake. I don't know what to do. i still have to tell my parents too and they think I've never even have had a boyfriend before. I just need some advise, and please don't say, "your way to young to be having sex" because I already understand this. Thank you!
Ok, first and foremost, you have to tell your parents. As hard as this will be, you have to. Their your outlet to seeing a doctor and properly caring for you and your child during this time. As you already guessed, of course they're not going to be happy. You already know that. But, there is also no way around this one. They have to know. As someone else suggested, talk to the parent you get along with better first. This may help ease the tension for when your other parent finds out.
Second, you MUST see a doctor, no matter what you're planning on doing with the baby. Protect your child's health, whether you plan on keeping it or not. You can't go through a pregnancy without proper care from a doctor: running tests, making sure the baby is doing ok by hearing the heartbeat and ultrasound, monitoring the babys health and your well being as well during pregnancy. If you do not plan on keeping it, give it up for adoption. Everyone has their own beliefs, but I personally would not get an abortion. At least give your child a chance at life, even if someone else will be taking care of him/her. The least you could do at this point is last the 9 months of pregnancy for the baby's sake. Also, have you thought about the possibility of your parents taking care of the baby? That way, your child can still be a part of your life and you can help take care of it as much as you can.
As for your "boyfriend", he is young too and doesn't know what to do. He is being a complete jerk right now, yes, but he doesn't understand the concept of responsibilities yet. You both are very young, and this type of situation is scary to anyone. I got pregnant at the age of 20, and I was terrified so trust me, I can only imagine what you are going through right now.
In the end, everything will be okay. Yes, you made a mistake. But, in the end, you are giving a child a chance at life. This is, above all, YOUR child, and is the most precious thing in the world. Take a deep breath, think hard about everything going on right now, take it all in, and most important, take responsibility for your actions and do what is right in the end.
Take care, good luck, and please email me if ever needed.
babyash1669@yahoo.com
so i want to get my tongue pierced
im not like amazing with pain
when i got my ears done i didnt feel it
so im just wondering if you think its going to be painful?
and what is feels like?
and any other information that you may find useful for me
I've had my tongue pierced before, and I, myself, am also not great with pain.
I was terrifed but it literally lasts about 1 second to get it done. You lay down on the table, you wash your mouth out with listerine and stick your tongue out. The person piercing it will tell you to take one breath in, and at that moment will stick the needle straight through and then the barbell. It is extremely quick and you only feel a pinch for that one second, not even a bad one!
Getting it pierced was not the painful part at all. The aftermath was. I literally could not talk for a few days. I was so swollen and in pain that I couldn't even talk in school back then because of it. I was slurring my words and you couldn't even understand me. The best thing is to wash your mouth with listerine AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE!! ..after doing everything: eating, drinking, smoking if you smoke. It is very important that you care for it properly, as it can get very easily infected.
I've been wanting a new screen name for a while and i have no clue what i should change itt to be.
my names ania and middle names marie
if that gives you any ideas.
i would love if you gave me a few ideas.
thanks
x Misz Ania x
ania x mariee
XxAniaMariexX
Okay so there is two questions here
first one is Me and this guy has been having sex since like october but then we took a brake and we started having sex again but then he was like fuck...and i was like and he was like you make me cum to fast. SO like is that a good thing my friends say it is but is it?
2nd one is
When me and him have sex i don't get off is that like a normal thing like when women have sex all the time with a man and don't get off is there somthing wrong or yeah
his the first person i have splet with
first question: yes its a good thing. i mean, it may begin to irritate you at times but you have to remember this is the first person youve slept with, therefore, you are "tight" down there and that makes a guy cum very quickly. Through time, you will loosen up a bit (not bad! and not alot!), just enough so he can get used to your body and not cum so quick......therefore, making sex funner and longer!!
second question: i have actually heard of a lot of girls never being able to get off from intercourse. they will be able to through other sexual acts, but not sex itself. some girls are like this all the time, no matter how much experience theyve had, and this is perfectly 100% normal!..on the other hand, after getting used to things a bit sexually, you may begin to get off from it. either way, its perfectly normal!
male/17
yesterday i went to go pee and it burned really bad and thats never happened before im scared i might have an std but ive only had the same sex partner for the past five months so im not really sure thats the only thing wrong but it really freaked me out
is this something common and i should not worry about it?? what else cud it be besides and std?
It could be a number of things ..it could be an STD such as herpes. I know you say you had the same partner for 5 months but no matter what, you need to take care of your body verses trusing someone else..she could have fooled around with someone else. either way, get CHECKED OUT at the doctors and dont take any chances!!!!
This is what I found and seems very helpful:
1. You could have a mild infection (bacterial or yeast)
2. Herpes comes and goes. (Viral infection) You don't have to have actual intercourse to contact herpes...oral sex, petting with contact of the genitals, etc. can expose you to herpes. Have you been tested? There's the possibility that you have lesions occuring inside your urethra that you can't see.
3. Some external irritant could be hurting the inside of your urethra so that it stings sometimes. Does it sting near the tip or deeper in? Soap or bubble bath could do it., although that would probably be near the tip. Swimming could let chlorine (in a pool or hot tub) or other contaminants (in a pond or river) irritate the urethra. Rough masterbation might also do it.
SOURCE: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070524110327AAoZbcy
hope this helped a little!!!
i have the biggest freakin pimple.
i swear ive popped it like ten times.
and it keeps getting its little 'head' back.
i though once you popped it.. it was gone?
i dunno. i guess this is my first huge pimple ;
since im known fer my super clear face. hahah.
yeahh..
welll any advice?
you shouldn't ever pop your pimples. thats how people get scarring on their face after a while. its not good for your skin at all. ive heard several times that if you leave a pimple alone, it should be gone within about 3 days. if you pick at it or pop it, it will prolong it for upto 10 days or more. as much as it bothers you, leave it alone. thats the best thing you can do for it. everyones face is different, so i cant recommend a certain face wash. for me, i use clearasil every morning and every night. it works wonders and my face has always been pretty clear. try a facewash that is made for sensitive skin. clearasil daily face wash has it that says sensitive skin on the bottle. try that for a week and see how your face is. if it worsens your skin or irritates it, try another kind. give it at least a week for each face wash though so you know what is working and what isnt. if you want to know how to better care for your skin and exactly what to use, see a dermotologist.
ok so i asked the question about the boyfriend and ex bf that wants me back.
so i told the ex that we should just stick to friends but that didnt really work out, he still asks for me back every day.
and now, my mom and i are fighting a lot about my grades and she walked out and said that she didnt want me or my brother anymore, so i called my bf (the 21 year old) just to talk to someone and he said he wasnt gonna deal with my bull sh*t and to call him when i have all my probelems solved permanently or else dont call him again. Why is he doing this?? i wasnt trying to bring him into it, i just needed to talk to someone about it all. And i really miss him a lot, and he told my best friend that he'd talk to me but he wasnt promising that we'd get back together because he has a lot to deal with already and he didnt wanna stand in the way of me graduating...but him breaking up with me only made things worse because now i cant concentrate in class at all...i dont have any idea what to do, because my mom said she doesnt want me anymore, and neither does my boyfriend...so i kinda feel like no one cares. =( What do you think i should do? I really love your advice.
first off, people definately care about you in life. i know how it feels to think noone cares about you because situations fall into place around the exact same time in your life that is unfortunate.
as for your bf, he is wrong. i think its time to reevaluate everything you have with him. you don't need him in your life. he turned away from you at a time you needed him the most. anyone that cares about you even the slightest bit shouldnt do that. he should be there for you. there are no excuses for this one. he said you have alot of b*llshit going on? who doesnt? he isnt worth it. this is just an early sign of many more back-turnings to come.
as for your mom, sometimes people are going through things emotionally within themselves and turn away from the people they love. this does not mean your mom doesnt love you...just because shes a parent doesnt exclude her from having real feelings and being depressed. i dont know whats going on with her and it isnt fair that you and your brother have to deal with this. you didnt do anything wrong. kids have trouble in school all the time. thats no reason for your mom to turn away from you. sometimes people, even parents, say things they dont mean, so i would give it a few days and see what happens. talk to your mom and tell her how this made you feel. if you arent close enough with your mom to share your feelings, maybe talk to your dad, older sister, or another adult that could possible help you guys. do whats best for you and your brother as a family. dont turn away from your mother, but maybe bringing someone else in to help the situation will be good.
overall, try your best not to let yourself get too upset over this. i know its easier said than done, but stressing out will only intensify the situation. sit back and think about everything going on right now. dont take it all as a whole, but one thing at a time. think about your situation with your boyfriend first. think hard about it and decide what you want to do and where you want to take it. if he left you, i would leave it be because you shouldnt want him back after this anyway. you're much better than that. thank him for letting you go. he did you a favor. trust me. ...then, take the situation with your mom..decide if right now is the best time to talk to her about it all or to wait a little while. know that she does love you. arguing with someone and saying hurtful things doesnt take away any amount of love. remember that....third, dont feel alone with any of this. so many people go through things like this everyday. trust me.
lastly, please dont let this stand in the way of school work. i know how it feels to stress out so bad over things that you cant concentrate at school, but please try to remember what YOU want out of life and YOUR goals in the long run: graduating.
please write back if you ever need/want to.
OK, well I have this student teacher in my 5th hour. He's a good friend of my dad, and I have been over to his house a few times..but of course with my parents.
So, one day I totally didnt get my homework, so he suggested that I could go over to his house so we wouldnt have to stay later after school or anything. Cause I always meet with my friends after school. He asked my parents and they said ok, and I was thinking like ok. and i didnt really think. so when we got to his house he said to go in his bedroom and we'll do it in there and i thought that was weird why dont i just do out on the table. but he insisted that we do it in his bedroom. so i said fine ok, i went into his bedroom and i siad i had to go the bathroom so when i came out, he was on the bed naked...i tried to run out of the room but he wouldnt let me...he threw me down on the bed..and he was tea-bagging me. then i started yelling get off of me your sick..but when i did that he put his penis in my mouth. then i took it out and he yelled at my saying if you dont do everything i say then i am gonna kill you..so at that point imma like ok, i will because i didnt want to lose my life because of him. he made my strip all my clothes off and have vaginal sex, oral sex, and anal sex. he made me suck his dick and he fingered me...so by that time i was getting into it and i was sorta enjying it..it felt so good, i know thats nasty, but i dont know if i should like it..i know techinally hes my teacher but it feels so good..but is it normal for me to like it...even if it is very, very disguisting?
Please tell someone immeidately!! He could do this to someone else and most likely will if he hasnt already!!! He RAPED you and you need to realize how serious this is!!! Respect yourself and pleae please tell your parents please!!! Dont let this guy get away with this!!!!
so i was watching private practice on thursday. and in the show, there was a boy who had i think hiv, or hpv. i can't remember which one. anyways, his parents knew he had it, but never told him. he had sex for the first time with this girl that he loved and found out the next morning that he had it.
at the end of the show, they come in together and are like we have a lot of questions.
i figured that she got it in the show.
but could she definitely get it? like no chance that she wouldn't?
like she had sex with him, and now she automatically got it?
or is there a possibility that she doesn't have it.
My doctor told me that just because one person has an STD, that does not mean the other person will definitaely get it. Also, just because you are clean and clear of STDS does not mean your boyfriend doesnt have one. She said it's pretty much luck if you dont get one and if you have sex with someone that has an STD, it is a toss up whether you will get it or not. Chances are not good for you though, as you most likely will get something, but there is always a small chance that luckily you wont.
my fiance and I have been trying to have a baby now for months and we're having a very difficult time. I just can't seem to get pregnant no matter how many times we have sex and how many times he ejaculates in me. I have even tried pretty much doing a headstand to keep the "stuff" inside of me. can anyone give me tips on how to get pregnant? what tim e of the month is easiest to get pregnant? Like when do most women ovulate? I WILL RATE HIGH! PLEASE HELP!
Doing a headstand does help the sperm travel in you, as someone else on here says it doesn't. I've read it several places. Try lying on your back with your feet up against a wall for about 20 minutes to half an hour.
Also, go to this website. It's very helpful in showing you on a calendar which days you should be most fertile. It is on the right of the page:
http://www.ovulation-calendar.net/
Heres another site:
http://www.babycenter.com/ovulation-calculator
me: 17
ex: 18
current bf: 21
okay, so my boyfriend and i broke up at the beginning of august. we had dated for a year and almost 8 months.
Let me explain a little about this situation. He broke up with me for no apparent reason, while i was recovering from a tonsillectomy. He just walked out. then, two days after that
he came back to my house and begged for me back. he said he needed me and loved me more than anyone in the world and all that good stuff. So we gave it another try. Then we got in a fight and i caught him in a lie and he told me that i could never deserve anyone better than him, i could never get anyone better so i told him to lose my number. So we didn't talk for a few weeks. During those few weeks i was talking to anohter guy. We went out on a date, and it amazed me how well i was treated. he was so chivalrous, so kind and polite. He pulled out my chair, offwred to buy me whatever i wanted, and it was great.
So now he's my boyfriend. And he is just amazing. And my ex and i are friends, but he is begging for me back. And he kissed me last night and said he needed me. And now he is telling me he is tired of everyone telling him everything is his fault, and that he always messes things up, so he wants to make it to where he'll never have to hear it again...meaning ending it all.
And I feel bad because i have told him before that it was his fault we broke up and i did nothing wrong, because i didnt. i literally woke up one morning after what i thought was an amazing night, to find him packing his clothes...
i dont want to hurt him, and i dont want him to hurt himself...and a huge part of me wants him back, badly. but i dont wanna lose my current boyfriend either...what should i do?
This is a situation where you need to just stand back and evaluate everything. Sometimes, things are best left in the past and taken as a lesson learned. In relationships, sometimes we dont always treat the other with the respect and care they deserve. And sometimes we deserve a second chance. At all times in life, we are not always going to treat other people fairly, and it's okay to mess up. I think your ex boyfriend really does care, or maybe hes just sick of everyone on his back about what he did to you. Lying is in no way acceptable and never should be. I don't know what he lied about, but if it were something serious, then that can't be overlooked. There is a reason he walked out on you, and it's upto you to decide whether you want to risk that again. You don't want someone who is going to second guess your relationship and walk out. Did he give you a reason for it? A GOOD one? Try to understand his feelings and maybe you guys need to sit down and really talk.
As for him wanting to hurt himself, it seems like he has issues that go beyond you and him. For someone to have thoughts like that, there is something else going on in his head that he needs to get help for. You can't stay with someone just because youre scared they may hurt themselves. If he were to hurt himself, that would be in no way your fault. You did nothing wrong so please dont go on with that on your shoulders. He may just say that because he thinks if he says hes gonna hurt himself, youll see how much he wants you back and forgive him.
As for your new bf, he sounds wonderful. I wouldnt ruin things with him. Take it as far as you can. You deserve respect and love and it's hard to find someone like that nowadays. If you've got the full package, hold on to him.
All in all, I would sit down with your ex and the two of you spill out your feelings. Dig dip and let it all out. Explain to him that you do care for him, however, am seeing someone else now and you dont know where it will lead, but youre moving on. Tell him you can still be friends and you will always be there for him, but you cant go back to the past. Life doesnt work that easily.
Good luck and lemme know how it works out .
Okay, (rather long, brace yourself)
so my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost eight months.
And he does things that really piss me off to no end, he does really immature things, and he goes out of his way to make me feel bad about myself.
Ill give some examples.
Immaturity
When im telling him an important story, and say things like "He came really fast"
He'll laugh at the sexual content.
the other day a basket ball hit me in the face.
and i call him im like
"Jake, i was playing basketball with alyssa and the ball hit me in the face, it really hurts"
He'll laugh at the balls part.
Like, its funny the first few times, but then it just gets annoying, and it makes me feel like he doesnt care about me.
Or he'll (please dont get offended) say the N word to me and he gets mad when i dont laugh.
Im like, "Thats not funny, its mean"
and just other things, and they may seem funny, but he brings them up at the worst times.
Making me Feel Bad
We were video-chatting the other day, and my web cam is attatched to my lap top, so, when i move around it moves with me.
And i guess my boobs zoomed in on the screen,
and he'll start laughing and be like "Your tits were on the screen"
Or ill dive in his pool.
and i KNOW my bathing suit top didnt fall down, and he'll make something up to say he saw my boobs. And i'll automatically be embarrassed.
When i know that didnt happen.
Or if i point something out about him that annoys me or bothers me.
He'll turn it around and blame it on me, or make it look like its my fault
For instance, I was watching gossip girl one night, and he knows that i cant talk on the phone and watch t.v at the same time.
So, i was like "We can talk on AIM"
And he was like "nono its fine go watch tv, ill do hw or something"
I take funny pictures of myself and send it to him cuz i think theyre funny, and when i dont do something he wants, he threatens to put them on facebook.
Or he shows people, when i strictly told him not to,and one time he set one as his backround
I just dont trust his witht hem anymore
and he makes me feel really bad.
On purpose.
Showing off in front of his friends
He is a totally different person in front of his friends. He'll show me off in front of them about how we make out and stuff, and act like he doesnt care about my opinion, and says really hurtful things even though he's 'just kidding.'
Too close for comfort
he shares things with me that really gross me out, and he relies on the fact that we love eachother so much that i wont break up with him. He's got that wrong, becuase i can totally still dump his ass. We made a promise to eachother that we'd stay together long as possible, and he gets too comfortable with that, and thinks he can do anything, and i wont break up with him for it. Like saying mean things about my friends, and all of the above.
Now, my sisters wedding is coming up in about 2 weeks, and i invited him to it.
Im the maid of honor and i wanted him to be my date.
I cant break up with him now.
and i know if i do, despite all these things, i'll still be upset.
Why is that i can come up with a billion things i hate about him, but i still love him, and would be really upset if we broke up?
That makes no sense.
Also, what should i do about these problems?
Sorry for writing so much.
I really hope you can help
Unfortunately, each person is different and each person matures at a different speed. It seems to me that your boyfriend is just immature and still stuck in that annoying boy phase where sexual words are funny and teasing is okay. It is not okay for him to blackmail you or go behind your back and do something he says he wont(show your pics around). You should be able to trust your boyfriend, especially after 8 months, and if you can't, I suggest you leave him. I know you care about him and thats expected, however, right now, it doesn't seem like he fully understands what a committment is on any level. Maybe you breaking up with him will make him realize. He may think its all "harmless fun" and doesn't truly see how it is making you feel. I would try seriously sitting down and talking to him about it ALL, and if that doesn't help, I would break up with him. It's not going to work on these terms right now.
ok so i live in a society where having sex is completely normal. i have had one sexual partner in my life and we were together for 3 years. we broke up a year ago and now i am currently engaged to a man i am head over heals in love with, the only problem is he thinks im a virgin. and if i do not bleed on my wedding night i am doomed for a divorce. we are both muslims and i need some advice on how i can fake my virginity for my wedding night. either by putting fake blood inside of me or any creams or pills that can make me bleed. Please give me advice fast my wedding is in october.
I am sure you already heard this is a trust issue and your marriage will start out as a lie and blah blah blah.
I do not know your full situation so I cannot say such things.
The one thing I will say is that some women do not bleed when having sex for the first time. It is okay if you don't bleed and he won't notice a thing. If you haven't had sex in a year, chances are, you may bleed a little anyways because they say after 6 months, it is practically like being a virgin again. So most likely, you will bleed again and it will hurt a little and everything since it's been so long. I wouldn't put anything there to make it look like blood because if he finds out, then there's big problems.
Everything will be fine. Whether you bleed or don't bleed, I'm pretty sure the one thing he's not focused on is if you bleed or not. If he does mention it and you don't bleed, go online or show him a book to prove to him that you dont HAVE to bleed.
Here's a site that may help:
http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm
Good luck and congrats!!!!
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Hey there.
I'm an 18 yo Female! : )
Basically school started on August 25th, and I've already missed 4 classes in a row in the past 2 weeks. Last week I had a cold and my doctor said I was too sick to go to school, and this week I had pink eye. so I've had to stay off.
Tomorrow's going to be the 4th day of class I've missed. I've been e-mailing my teachers letting them know what's going on. I just don't want to be completely lost when I go back to class, I've been keeping up with the work.
Do yall think there's anything else I should do? I don't want them to think I'm skipping.
I would ask the doctor for a note to bring in and show your teachers as soon as you get back.
Your education is important, yes, but your health comes first. If you are truly too sick to go to class, you can not help that.
I think teachers in college look at it as, if you show up to class you show up...if not, then you don't. It's your loss. You pay to go to school so they are not going to stress it if you don't show up.
Keep emailing, let them know you'll have a doctors note for them, and keep up with the work you're missing. As long as you show concern and care and you still keep up with the work even though you're out of class, that shows enough determination.