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ok..my guy friend tells me he kinda likes me.. and i had secretley kinda been crushin on him too.. so i told him..then he started talkin bout how we have a lot of things in common..and i thought he was gunna ask me out..but he still hasnt..i noe hes shy but he also noes that i think the guy should ask the grl.. i still like him and i think he still likes me but he jus wont ask me out..and like i said i still think the guy should ask the grl...help!! (link)
well they same exact thing happened to me kinda. the guy i had a crush on kept bugging me for about a week asking me who i like but i wouldnt tell him. finally i did. and then my friends told me that the day before i told him, they found out that he liked me. so then the next week i was expecting him to ask me out but he didnt. so i made the move (in a note) and he said yes. and now we've been going out ever since. so i think YOU should make the move and ask him out. if you keep waiting he might never ask you out and you'll lose your chance. so act now! you dont wanna lose your chance!


ive been with this guy for 8 months and just last month i got a fone call saying that he was cheating on me. when i tol him about this he just said oh babe dont listen to her she just hating. befor all this shit happend he would call me like 9 times a day and now after all this drama he only calls me every 4 days but sometimes if im lucky he'll call me for 2 days straight and then he will stop and go back to the 4 day thing...i love this guy alot but im so confused i just dont know what to do...i need help...PLEASE!!! (link)
well maybe your friend is just jealous and she wants you to break up with him so she can go out with him. but on the other hand, maybe he is cheating on you. you never know. so you should investigate and keep a look out just in case.


Ok i have this really good guy friend who used to go out with 1 of my friends but she dumped him and now she is being really mean to him! I found out she likes my boyfriend and she has been trying to steal my bestfriend. She even called me a bitch once. But she does this all behind my abck and when she is with me she is really really nice. The thing is she has a reputauin for using people.All my friends are friends with her and i think that if I dump her everyone would be mad at me. My guy friend(her ex) has been trying to convine me to dump her as a friend and is saying he would be there for me if she says anything mean and stuff. I really dont know what to do! Know 1 knows she likes my boyfriend and no one relizes she is stealing my bff !I dont want people to hate me but i dont really like her much ! What should i do ? (link)
you should stop hanging out with her. this girl is a total bi***! and if your other friends will be mad at you if you dump her, then forget them. obviously they're not worth your friendship either. your guy friend is your REAL friend and you should stick with him. forget all of those other people cuz they're just worthless pieces of sh**.


i have a friend that is very special to me. i have known her foreva nd i dont want to loose her becuz of things pplz say or who i hang out wit. My other friends dont like her but i do nd i want to be all of there friends nd they dont want to be her friend nd i dont kno wat to do. Tell me if u have ne advice.

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well i think you should just be friends with her. no one has the right to tell you what to do. and your other friends are just a**holes, if they dont like you being friends with her then who gives a crap. what's the big deal anyways. their opinion doesnt matter, the only thing that matters is what *you* think.


me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early? (link)
no it's not wrong to feel that. it's perfectly normal and natural. i mean cmon your 16. i think i's pretty much normal to feel this way in a relationship at your age.


ok this is the same person who wrote the question about how i dont know how to tell my mom i have a boyfriend.....well she caught us together.(we werent doin nething but we sat close)...well i went for a walk and he met up wit me so we made out then sat next to each otha watchin the sun set...when my mom pulls up and asked me if i was ok and asked who was that kid sittin next to me....i told her he'd fallen off his bike and was hurt so i just sat and talked to him......she gave him a ride home but still didnt think of me likin him........now i definatly cant tell her bc now shes gonna think i go for walks everyday just to see him....now how do i tell her that i have a boyfriend?
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hmmm..well if your mom seems kool with you having a b/f like my mom, my mom is kool with it cuz like at skool she sees us holding hands and she doesnt mind it. if she's one of those strict type of moms, maybe you should wait a while before you tell her. then see what happens then.


I'm really attracted to my friend. Hes 17 years old and is a total hottie. I really would love to spend the rest of my life with him. He gives me chills down my spine to see him happy and when hes sad it kills me ... literaly. The only thing is, that is stopping me from being with him, is my religion. In my religion it is against my code to have sex with another male. What do you think i should do? I really want to be with him and have sex with him but when i do i feel bad... help please. im an 18 year old male. Weve known each other for 5 years now. please help. (link)
screw your religion. if you really like this guy then just go for it! of course i'm straight and a prefer oppposite sex relationships, but if you really like your friend that much, then just forget about your religion and take advantage of this.




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