Ok i have this really good guy friend who used to go out with 1 of my friends but she dumped him and now she is being really mean to him! I found out she likes my boyfriend and she has been trying to steal my bestfriend. She even called me a bitch once. But she does this all behind my abck and when she is with me she is really really nice. The thing is she has a reputauin for using people.All my friends are friends with her and i think that if I dump her everyone would be mad at me. My guy friend(her ex) has been trying to convine me to dump her as a friend and is saying he would be there for me if she says anything mean and stuff. I really dont know what to do! Know 1 knows she likes my boyfriend and no one relizes she is stealing my bff !I dont want people to hate me but i dont really like her much ! What should i do ?
the_haha_boat answered Saturday August 21 2004, 5:31 pm: If your friends would be mad at you for getting rid of a friend who treats you poorly, then obviously they aren't worth it either. If this guy did nothing to deserve this treatment then just go ahead and dump them. He is your real friend so you should do anything to make your friendship better (? I guess) So yeah, i think you should stop hanging out with her. [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
xASH answered Saturday August 21 2004, 5:11 pm: you need to let her go. she doesn't sound like a real friend. if your friends get mad you then explain to them what happen. And at least you know if your friends don't have your back then your guy friend will. [ xASH's advice column | Ask xASH A Question ]
Steph2 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:36 pm: i say you take her aside and talk to her! tell her whats on your mind, and how u feel...if she likes ur boyfriend, tell her hes urs right now and she needs to back off until u 2 r over...cuz its just not right...and tell her she needs to be less selfish about friends and to stop doing stuff behind ur bak, but u gotta b nice about it so u dont start a fight. i hope this helped some and good luck!! :)
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heretohelpxoxo answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:30 pm: You should really re-consider being friends with her, if she is doing all this stuff just stop talking to her. Don't like, avoid her because then it will give her more reason to talk bad about you. Try and be friendly and really nice. It will really make her mad..trust me, lol...I hope I helped...bye good luck [ heretohelpxoxo's advice column | Ask heretohelpxoxo A Question ]
brittishbaby answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:27 pm: Just dont be friends w/ her. no one can force you to be friends w/ anyone. and if theres a time that you have to hang out, then be nice and dont be a byotch. so i dont think your friends can be mad at you when you do that. [ brittishbaby's advice column | Ask brittishbaby A Question ]
lilangelshan08 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:07 pm: DUMP HER! if your friends can't except the reason for why you dumped her then that's there problem, as for her trying to take your man if he really cares about you then he won't even think twice about going out with her and stay with you. trust your friends if they are true friends they will stay by your side, good luck and i hope i helped
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