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should i tell someone i love him? (link)
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It all depends in the situation you're in. If you're dating him, and you have been for a long time, and you're old enough to know what love is, then I think you should. I think it's good for you to ask though. Some people throw around the word "love" like it's nothing. If your feelings for him are really strong and you think he feels the same way, then I think you should tell him. It is 100% your decision, but if you two have been dating for a long time and you really feel strongly about him then go for it.
Good luck. I really hope this helped. I hope everything turns out good for you.
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im fwb with this guy and were pretty good friends..and well christmas is coming up and he asked me what i wanted but i told him i didnt know..i thought it was kinda wierd he was gonna get me something..but anyway..so i guess that means were exchanging gifts..but i really like him ..like i love him..and i know he doesnt like me more then friends..so i want to get him something like special..but not like were going out..like thoughtful but not over the top..any suggestions?thanks tons (link)
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well first, he asked you what you wanted right? hey he might like you! he probably does..not that many guys do that. alright, onto the gift part. ok, whats he into? i'm assuming sports maybe..i mean if hes into sports you could get him like a giftcard to a sports store, or if you dont like that idea and want to give him something more thoughtful, you could give him like a cute picture frame with like a pic of you, or you and him in it or something?? i think thats thoughtful. you might want to consider talking to his close friends and ask them what he really really likes a lot..and make something cool out of it..or if you have like pics of you two like hanging out..or like trips of some sort like field trips you could make a scrapbook? i dunno thats pretty special..its something he could look at when hes down n stuff..so i realllly hope i helped, and let me know how it works out! good luck!
XoXo Steph
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my name is Abby and im from Maryland and im in 9th grade and i like 2 guys and one guy is so sweet to me and he really likes me but he's not popular at all he's more on the loser side like if tomany people would hear that im going out wiht him i think it would be really bad.. but i really like him and there is this other kid and he is in 8th grade and he kinda likes me and i don't have as good as chance wiht him but he's more popular so idk what to do the loser-average guy that really cares about me or the more popular guy that i kinda might have a chance with? i hope you can help.. thankz (link)
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definetly the sweet one who cares about you. you dont want some stuck up popular freak ((dont take that offensively please!)) who doesnt care about you to be you bf. you want someone, true to you and theirself, and who really cares. good luck!
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okay..im like totally confused right now..and well anyway heres my problem...theres this boy..lets call him..john..okay..john and i have been friends since we were like 8..were neighbors..and in the same grade and everything..so well ever since i was 8 ive liked him..and now i KNOW i love him..but last year..7th grade..i asked him out..and he said no..i was okay with that though cuz we were still friends..so anyway..skool started like a month ago and im in english class with one of my other guy friends..lets call him mike..so mike and me kinda flirt.ALOT.and one of the girls who sits in front of me whispered to me she thinks he likes me..well i didnt believe her cuz were just friends..but then the next day in homeroom..mike is in my homeroom..another girl told me the same thing..then later that day ANOTHER girl told me that..and now im starting to like him cuz whenever we look at eachother we both just smile for no reason at all..but this is were the problem comes in..before all this flirting..i asked john to be friends with benefits with me..and he said yea..we havnt like kissed or anything yet..but idk if i should cuz i kinda like this mike kid..but then i feel like ive waited since i was 8 to do this with him and i dont wanna blow my chance..so as you can see i am really confused...THANK YOU SO MUCH!!SORRY THIS IS LONG!!xoxo (link)
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wow. dont worry bout it being too long..i have homework to do but i don't feel like doing it..heh..im so naughty. lol. okay. so then, onto your problem. you really like "John" but he turned you down. so now you like "John" and "Mike". so the way i see it, i think that if Mike asks you out, see what John's opinion is, and if he says well i dont care, go for it ((if he says i dont care, then he mite like you, thats just wut guys say..its like a translation lol)) if he says no, then say "then if you don't think i should say yes, then are you going to go out with me?" and then if he says no, just be like "you know what? screw you." jp lol. then i think you should go for Mike, cause i think John missed his chance. he'll realize he lost someone who is a fabulous person, and he mite not get you back..unless he does something spontaneous..or just something. lol. if he says yes, then go with him obviously. but i say only go out with Mike if he asks you out. if he doesn't then i would forget about it and him. and if you really as you say "KNOW you love him" then i would just completely forget about Mike altogether..unless you know you cant be with John. so you should probably ask John if you two have a chance at all. like..next time you two can talk personally..since you're neighbors n all. hope that wasn't confusing or anything. lol. good luck! i hope it works out and everything! if you need more advice, IM me or just drop one in the inbox. let me know how it turns out!
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Where can u get those live strong braclets ??? please help me becuz i really wanna kno becuz i wnat to get one really really bad please help me
Thank u very much
Nicole (link)
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try http://wearyellow.com
you can buy packs of 10, 100, or 1200 for the amount of bands in each packet. they are $1 each. i got one from my friend his dad's a doctor. the bracelets are on like back order so its really hard to get them. good luck!
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ok i have a boy problem and i don't know what to do! i like this kid and this other girl likes him to and she has threated me to not be my friends any more and i really like him we talk all the time on teh internet and about stuff just between us! but i don't wanna back stab my best friend b/c she likes him too! so if your could help me that would be great thank you...maggie from virgina..im a female and im 13 (link)
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wow. thats almost the same situation i'm in rite now..yea its tough. it all really just depends..i mean if you have liked this kid longer than she has, i would just say "hey look i know that you like him and all, but i think i deserve a fair shot at him first since i have liked him longer." and remember. you're 13. no relationship with a guy should be worth crying over and stuff like that. and if you really really really wanna stay friends with this girl, explain that too. say like "i really dont want this to ruin our friendship, but i really like this guy." if shes a true friend, i'm sure she'll understand. good luck and let me know how it turns out!! hope i helped!!
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A little while ago i was sick but i am over the sickness but now for like 2 weeks have been stuck with a nasty cough and i have a job interview tomorrow, does anyone know of some super good cough depressants? (link)
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nasty cough = doctor.
i had the same thing like..last year or somethin. its called post nasal drip or something like that. just take LOTS of cough drops..dont talk to much b4 your interview cuz you dont wanna irritate your throat. good luck!! hope this helped!!
Steph
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okay.. i like this guy.. and me and him have been flirting since school started.. well.. i found out the other day he wants to go out with me and im totally happy.. and i was going to.. but then i got on my bus and i asked my friend if she knew him.. so that she could help with the hook up.. and she was like.. "oh.. hes my ex.. do you talk to him?" and i was like.. "yea... i met him this year.." and she was like.. "but you dont like him right?" and i casualy changed the subject but i do.. and then she asked me to ask him why he broke up with her.. and to hook them back up.. i dont know what i should do.. because i liked him before i knew that my friend did.. pLeAsE help! (link)
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ugh. thats a horrible situation to put you in. but your friend had her chance, now its yours. if he likes you and you like him, go for it!!! your friend needs to learn how to deal with this stuff. good luck!!
Steph
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I just moved from my home in Louisiana and now I am really homesick I am crying like crazy and don't know what to do. People in my school are nice but their not my type. Can you give me tips on how to make friends and make my happier?
Elizabeth girl 13 (link)
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aww. im so sorry! just remember that you always have friends back home, and call them or talk to them as much as possible. and if you just moved, then i'm sure you will adjust. and just make the first move and introduce yourself, like say hi, my names elizabeth. whats yours? and you know, just strike up a regular convo like that. tell them what you're interested, if you have any pets, stuff like that. and talk to your parents about how you feel. im sure they'll understand. good luck!!
Steph
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im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica (link)
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OMG EAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW THE HECK DO YOU NOT EAT FOR 5 DAYS?!?!?!?! EAT EAT EAT!!! EAT TILL YOUR STUFFED!! TRUST ME YOU ARE NOT FAT!! IM LIKE THE SAME HEIGHT N LIKE 110 POUNDS!! I SWEAR!! ok sry capslock lol. just eat please! once you eat you'll feel better, i promise.
PLEASE EAT!
Steph
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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do?? (link)
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well i think ya like him. ya wanna know why i think this? well, cuz usually when i guy tells a girl they like her, then well, she usually rejects them. there was a study done on this. and plus, looks dont matter. ok thats a lie. lol. they help, but personality should matter most. i mean would u rather a hot guy that hits u and abuses you or a totally kind sweet guy who isnt all that hot but you know you can trust? i'd pick the second one personally. idk bout you tho. so give him a shot, and im sure it'll turn out ok. good luck!
Steph
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ok about 3 months ago i begged my parents to let me get a hamster...they sed ya...so i got one and ive tooken really good care of it..no problems...well i hav a big enuf cage and i decided i want to get a female hamster n let them mate so i can make them have babies...my mom sed i hav to look into it to make sure its ok n stuff bc she thinks its nasty (she hates rodents) does ne 1 kno ne websites about breeding? also...how do ilet them mate..like will they attack eachother if i buy a female?/..i gues the websites will explain but idk ne websites...ne 1 kno any websites? or has ne 1 did this? (link)
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ahhh so much to say. 1. if you r gonna do that, you have to have two separate cages!!! cuz if the male invades the females territory she will kill him..not pretty. and when you go to breed them, put the female in the males cage. also, if i were you, i would go out and buy a book. i have like 5 hamster books and i currently own 2 hamsters. 2. when you do breed them and the babies are born you CAN NOT DISTURB THE MOM!! SHE WILL EAT HER BABIES IN AN ATTEMPT TO SAVE THEM FROM HARM. so make sure there is plenty of food and water for her. 3. make sure you have enough cages for them all cuz they all MUST be separated from each other when they reach sexual maturity age or w/e its called. like the girls can stay together b/c they can live 2gether w/out fighting but ALL the males must be separated cuz they will fight to the death. and make sure you know how to sex them ((tell the diff between the guy and girl hamsters)) cuz we dont want any accidents lol. you may be able to sell them to a pet store like petsmart i think they let you..or petco. or just give them to ur friends etc. let me know how it goes! drop one in the inbox or im me my sn is on my column. good luck!
Steph
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Hey! Okay, well I am 14 female.. about 5'7 235lbs! I know... FATTY! but still... So, i wanted to go to this weightloss school but it was almost 6,000$ and across the U.S. for me so my mom was like NO WAY! but first I wanted to get homeschooled. and then again No! so I was like Private school.. Too much money she said.. I have 4 sisters n she is seperated from my dad!! So yeah, I have to go to a public school (freshman) n alot of ppl make fun of me.. I cant run fat or anything.. n i wanna start losing weight now, pick up my speed, and then just be a whole new me next yr.. i used to play softball, and i was well good at it.. but got too old to play slow pitch!! I mean im not saying i have no friends or anything.. but my thighs, but, stomach, arms, n etc... I know.. drink water n blah blah! but nothing works for me.. im probably gonna get Slim in 6 (www.beachbody.com) but I dunno if it will work or not.. im thinking i wanna lose 100lbs or so n sorta fat but like not too fast! i just wanna be left alone n not singled out everytime i go somewhere with a bunch "skinny" ppl, and this sumemr i was gonna change everything but stayed n side n was lazy!! n now 2days b4 school starts i wanna chnage everything!! i know its gonna take time but i wanna try sommin n see if it works.. i need lots of ideas, help, motivation, and support!! I seriously want a whole new me. i mean the "stretch marks" are ugly n never gonna go away so ill always remember being fat, i just want it to stop!! i wanna be the one not scared to speak up, and express what i think, i wanna be the one telling the person not to be making fun of someone, not the one being made fun of!! I want to change me!! have a high self esteem n just have fun!! so yeah u think u can help??? I'd rlly appreciate it!!! Any advice will help me .. i mean have any of u ever been n the same position or anything?? I was thinking baout even killing myself once, and i wanna "throw up" wut i eat but i dunno if thats smart, its like i cant stick to anything.. all i know is i wanna look good ... fast... not for boys... but for me.. n for all the teasing to stop!! I ask u all hoping for help!! Thanks alot, xOxOxO (link)
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hey it mite not be your fault at all!! you could have something called a thyroid problem. it controls your weight, and sometimes it doesnt function correctly, and makes you overweight or underweight. so just try what some other people tell you like weight watchers or something, and stay confident!! you wont acheive anything if you dont believe in yourself. and good job for not throwing up!! thats a serious problem, and you dont wanna get involved with it. so talk to your mom, and try weight watchers if you wanna, its totally up to you..but you sound like you wanna do somethin and stick with it, so if you really wanna lose weight, stick to it!! and just do your best, and ignore the teasing. those people are ignorant and dont think. so good luck! hope this helped!
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ok, well i was on vacation for 9 days, i came back to find my hamster, decaying alive! It's so gross and nasty, i feel so bad for him, idk what to do! He has part of his skin missing, and fur, he can't walk or anything, i feel so bad. My parents won't let me take him to the vet, i think he has been alive for about 2 yrs or 1 1/2.....what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP :( HE IS MY BABY, I'LL DIE WITHOUT HIM! (link)
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ahhhhh...thats so horrible!! i have 2 hamsters, they are my 3rd and 4th..my last one had cancer so we put him to sleep...which is what you should do!!! if your parents dont let you take him to the vet thats just cruel, they cant let him suffer. and no, you WONT DIE W/OUT HIM!! THATS HOW I FELT!! but just wait until your ready, and then you can get another hamster..i reccomend blackbear hamsters and panda bear hamsters..just so ya know...and please let me know how it goes..my sn is on my column or leave one in the inbox..hope it helped and good luck!!
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I transferred to a new school and my friends that i already know ignore me and i try to make new friends but im not good at that stuff. So at lunch everyone is saying ohhh talk and i dont know what to do or say. (link)
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talk about wut u like. if you're interested in sports, try talking about that. if you like to dance or sing, try that. good luck, and just be yourself.
Me
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13/f i have a bf that i really like(maybe even love)and i really want to kiss him!but i'm also friends with his sister!and she goes to the movies with us.also i don't no if he wants to kiss me.so please help me! (link)
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hmmmm...well y would it matter if ur friends w/his sister...? n if she has a boyfriend n u guys go 2 the movies 2gether they mite wanna c something different...? if not n shes younger, ask her 2 let u 2 go just this once...and u would b kissing him, he wouldnt b kissing u...but make sure everything feels right b4 u kiss him if u kiss him..cuz if its not...u dnt wanna ruin ur relationship, ya no? well good luck!! let me know how it goes!! IM me or just leave one in the inbox. hope it helps!!
Steph
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i was thinking of babysitting for people..(most likely people i dont know) with a friend of mine..this way the job is easier. Is this a good idea? Do you think i`ll be successful? How should i get perfect strangers to trust me to babysit their kids...any tips? thank you :) (link)
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yes my sister did this. she made business cards, but its on a magnet. she put r address, phone #, and her email address n age n stuff on there. i think ppl should trust u..but she wuz red cross certified, so i think u should do that...u can go 2 babysitting classes at ur township building. i think its a good idea..let me no how it works out!!
Me
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everything is goin wrong..like 4 yrs ago my friend died from cancer but i still miss her, 3 years ago my friend was diagnosed with cancer, my brother and dad almost died, n the only guy i ever loved said no to me. i no u cant give me any advice on gettin over death, or near death experiences, but i feel like all i have left is this guy that i love. and i wanna tell him so much but i dont no how..its so hard to talk to him..the other night i almost cut becuz it was becomin too much to take in..plz help..i need to tell him.thanx (link)
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slooooooow down darling...never, and i mean NEVER, cut urself...try going to counseling, and talk 2 ur parents, or a teacher u can trust. i have a friend who also died from cancer, and i miss her, but eventually you will realize it wuz for the best. and as for ur brother and dad, make sure they are as safe as they can b. and talk 2 that guy...tell him that w/all thats going on, could he please just b there 2 listen...it'll dawn on him that ur a great person..and i think uve got a chance. im me on BrEwNeTtBaBe13 or drop one in my inbox to keep me posted!! good luck and i hope this helped!
Steph
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Does anyone know a good place to get your own website on the net....FOR FREE? I found a whole bunch of cool little knick knacks and I want to show them off on my website! But I can't find a website that is good like that! The website is either dumb or it isn't free. Please help me! (link)
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one word...XANGA!...xangas free! n u can put pics n stuff..its cool good luck!
me
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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :( (link)
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give him a second chance...u like him that much, so theres nothin really stoppin u..and he likes u..so if he makes ya feel that good let him try again!! then if u feel that somethins wrong, break up w/him..but i doubt that'll happen..good luck!! let me know how it goes!! or drop one in the inbox.
~*Me*~
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