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ex bf trouble!


Question Posted Monday August 23 2004, 3:56 am

My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(

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XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Monday August 23 2004, 10:02 pm:
Give him a chance. He truly could have changed. Tell him That youll give hime a chance, but if he hasn't changed and still has his old wayz its up to you to break it off or keep the relationship.

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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Monday August 23 2004, 9:12 pm:
if you truely love him then you'll give him another chance. if he ever hurts you again though then get rid of him.

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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Monday August 23 2004, 9:12 pm:
if you truely love him then you'll give him another chance. if he ever hurts you again though then get rid of him.

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xASH answered Monday August 23 2004, 6:06 pm:
if he really makes you feel happy inside then you should give it another try! i don't know the whole story but he sounds like a nice guy and sounds like he's willing to make the relationship work. good luck

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beautifulsoul answered Monday August 23 2004, 5:53 pm:
If you like him so much and he makes you smile, give him another chance. Things may work out better than you expected. Everyone should get a second chance and everyone should make themselves happy :)

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bucs10us answered Monday August 23 2004, 5:30 pm:
give him only one more chance to rock ur world

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SwTeStBayBGurL15 answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:32 pm:
well, if he makes you happy then you need to give it another try..Personally, i believe in second chances..Maybe he had family problems or something..I've given my boyfriend more than 2 chances and we've been dating for a year now and everything is working out perfectly..I think you should def. give it another try, if he cares about you as much as he says he does..he'll try very hard to make it work out..Please rate me!!:)

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Steph2 answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:20 pm:
give him a second chance...u like him that much, so theres nothin really stoppin u..and he likes u..so if he makes ya feel that good let him try again!! then if u feel that somethins wrong, break up w/him..but i doubt that'll happen..good luck!! let me know how it goes!! or drop one in the inbox.
~*Me*~

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xbellaxobambinax69 answered Monday August 23 2004, 3:40 pm:
you say you dont want to hurt anymore but if your not with him then wont you be hurting if your not with him? thats why if you give him another chance maybe he truley has changed and then you have a chance to be happy and with him. so give him a chance and see how it goes!
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good luck i hope i helped!
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orphans answered Monday August 23 2004, 2:25 pm:
everyone makes mistakes. give him another chance! but explain how u felt when he ignored u. BUT if he does it again tell him not to let the door hit him on the way out of ur life!! If u have any more questions im me on littlehelpergurl

~Reenie~

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brittishbaby answered Monday August 23 2004, 10:06 am:
Everyone makes mistakes so what?? Give him another chance if he does again dont forgive him. easy as that. hope i helped! If you have any other questions feel free to ask or IM me on JustASweetKiss76

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mysticpixie05 answered Monday August 23 2004, 9:33 am:
if you really like him, then go for it. apparently what he did couldnt be all that bad if yins were able to talk right after breaking up and also you wouldnt have to reconsider giving him that second chance... now would you? it sounds like you want to take that second chance with him and have the risk of possibly getting hurt again. so go for it. i hope that helps. good luck

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snowwalker69 answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:57 am:
I think that you should try it out again ... if he's a jerk while your dating him again, don't give him, yet another chance, because then he will walk all over you.

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xxoBriannax answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:35 am:
If he's really worth it, go for it. Follow your heart and good luck!!









-xXoBrianna

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queenbianca2004 answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:32 am:
Well lust is a thing that will come and go but love is an emotion that depends on your life and will be with you forever ask your self r u in love with him or in lust with him?????....................


Well I hope I helped!!!!


Bianca

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xlostangelx answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:11 am:
well, why didnt yu guyz talk for the last 3 or 4 months of your relationship?? wuz he cheating ??
ask yurself y yu guyz broke up the first time around and then decide if itz worth going thru again .. yeh yu love him and all, but its it really worth it to put yurself thru that again??

and by giving him a second chance ..he mite mess up again and then by the time yu realize...yu culd love him even more and get to the point where yu really cant let him go ...

so i think yu shuld be veryyy careful while making this decision and look at it for itz proz and conz ...

hope i helped ..good luck

get back to me if yu need anything else

LOVE ASH

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday August 23 2004, 5:34 am:
Well,a lot depends on what it is he did to you.But to me,it sounds like you really truly love this guy,and I don't see any signs or reasons not to believe or trust him.Give him another shot.But remember the saying "Fool me once shame on you,fool me twice,shame on me!".Meaning,if he starts acting shady or things start to go the way they did before,don't just sit by and let it happen.But for now,I say trust him,give him another chance girl!!Everyone makes mistakes!! :)

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orphans answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:55 am:
So.. he hasn't got laid in the time since you've broken up, realised he's never going to get any and now comes crawling back to use you? Right.

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Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:34 am:
If you truly love him and he loves you then it's worth another shot. Just make sure that he knows that this is his last chance. If he makes a habit out of treating you this way, then he's not worth it.

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