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this morning i burnt my leg with my hair crimper. and it left a scar on my leg. there is like 2 dark lines on my legg, and im not sure how to get rid of it?!...is there any way i can?!...please help!

if u burnt ur leg this morning, then its not a scar...scars dont form till weeks after...

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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

if u break up w/ som1 ull be hurtn their feelings...especially if u dated ehr for a year/

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what does it meen if a guy gives you beads? my cousin was all talking about how slutty these gurls were because they were sitting by their boyfriends with a whole bunch of beads around their necks. i didn't know but laughed along with her with no idea on what she was talking about. i know it must have somthing to do with sex but what? p.s. please don't delete!

wehn a gurl flashes a guy, they get beads...mardi gras tradition!

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ok, this is for the guys! If your girlfriend kissed you and she was wearing flavoured lip balm, would you like that or find it disgusting?

i would love it!

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How come i see so many kerry bumper stickers? I have yet to see one single bush bumper sticker. Is everyone voting for kerry or is bush just being cheap and not making any..???

i havent seen a kerry sticker yet...its all been bush...u must be in teh north cuz down south it is all bush

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I've got an EX who I went out with for about 2 years and we got together broke up got together so many times. We broke up over in the summer and got back together and he broke up wiht me that day. We've been dating around. I am like obcessed with the kid and I don't care how many times he breaks my heart I can't get over him and so he has been asking out like all my best friends and he is going out with a girl right now and he is sorta cheating on her with me and he likes me a little and ofcourse I like him..He doesn't want to get back together with me yett..I don't kno what to do because I kno he will soon but should I just forgot about him I mean he is a great guy and a great boyfriend and I can't see myself with anyone else. I don't know what to do. Please Help!

if hes cheating on som1, hes not a great guy...gett rid of him, he'll cheat on u if he cheats on som1 else.

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My ex-boyfriend cheated on me, twice. When we broke up, I had no idea he had done this and when we got into a huge fight he told me. I feel so hurt, worthless and betrayed. He was the only boy I ever truly loved and he had told me he felt the same. We've been talking now, and he says he still loves me and wants me back. His sorry's aren't taking away the heartache but I still love him more than anything. I don't know if I can trust him yet and he's cheated on other girfriends. Do you think he could really mean it this time? I can never seem to move on from him and he regrets cheating completely. What am I supposed to do or say?

say no...if u cheat once, ull do it again...so avoid the heartbreak again and tell him no

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I am 14/f
i like this guy but i am afriad to talk to him becuase i dont think he will like me back. I also think he still likes his ex-girlfriend. Do you think i should talk to him and if so, how do i talk to him?

yeah, wats the worst that can happen if u talk to him? nothing

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Please, do the people on here a favor and type correctly, instead of wrtin lyk dis cuz ppl lyk muh cnt red dat. No offence, but save the lingo for Instant Message.

Thanks loves

thank god som1 says somthing.

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ok theres this guy that's really cute and i'm cool with him but sometimes he just looks at me really hard and smiles and i smile back at him when he does that. Do you think he likes me.

flirting maybe so.

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All my "friends" are ganging up on me. They are making me choose them or the guy i love... what do i do? please i really need help

they rnt really ur friends if they make u choose...but i would always choose friends of bf/gf

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ok here's the deal... i'm 14 years old...FRESHMAN!!!.... and i realli realli want to find a boyfriend... but i keep falling for the players... they're always so nice and funny and cute... i just can't get away from them...
then there'z these...other...guys that are totalli not cute at all, but are realli realli nice... what should i do?

dont be shallow, try the not so hott guys

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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...

to me...it means goin out...but to people who have been dating for a while, bangin

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Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu!

shave that thing off!

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im 13/f and my sister whose 19 moved out about 1 1/2 yrs ago nd recently moved back in. She had a really controlling boyfriend and they were hooked on heroine. My mom had agreed to let her move back in if she stopped doin in. She moved back in about 2mnths ago and got rid of the old boyfriend. She got a new boyfriend but she's still using drugs. it's not just a once in a while thing either, its everyday, and as i said, my mom doesnt know and shes always saying how proud she is that my sister stopped doing drugs. I don't want to wreck me nd my sistersn relationship, but i think my mom needs to know because im afraid my sister will hurt herself.

-confused

tell ur mom

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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?

lots of couples go through this...if he goes to college far away, then yall wont get to c each other much...but if he goes close to home, then everything can work out.

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My best friend is 16 and she has been dating this guy that is 20, they have been going out for about 2 months or so and he has been trying to have sex with her. And she always told him that I don't want that and she's waiting(virgin). And he would say ok but then later on when they see each other again he trys. So I'm thinking maybe he could be trying to use her for sex. They "love each other" but I don't know, I'm kind of feeling a little iffy about this guy. What do you think or what should I do??

hes four years older, i would think that he just wants her for sex...cuz he thinks she would be easy cuz she is so much younger. she might love him but i doubt he does love her.

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OKay, my best friend has a brother which I think is hot but he has a girlfriend with 2 babies. When she went away for 2 months he would always flirt with me and touch me, I liked it so I flirt with him back.He always smacks my butt and always wants a hug from me. When she came back he wouldn't do it in front of her but behind her back.I wasn't looking for someone that older than me but he's hot, I couldn't resist! I feel wrong and weird being around her and him when I think he likes me too. And I'm 15 and he's 22. Do you think this is wrong or something?? I don't know what to do!!

yes its wrong, not for u to like him but for him to do that to you, wheter u like it or not...first its illegal, ur a minor and hes way older...hes got two kids two, which he will have to support...if his gf finds this out, the mother..., then it could get real messed up. nothing wrong on ur part though.

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im a junior in high school. but i want to open my own restaurant/be a chef.. i want to go to FSU. but i want to noe if that is the best college for that and if not what r the best colleges to go to for that type of major. tanx

culinard in birmingham alabama is a culinary institure just for up and coming chefs. check that out.

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