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Question Posted Wednesday September 22 2004, 8:12 pm

All my "friends" are ganging up on me. They are making me choose them or the guy i love... what do i do? please i really need help

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truadvice answered Thursday September 23 2004, 6:05 pm:
think about who and what you really want to do , think about why your friends are ganging up on you and if you dont know ask them , if its for a really stupid reason i would make new ones

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xsweetpeax answered Thursday September 23 2004, 2:21 pm:
obviously these '` friendsz'` of yours arent rele that qreat .. maybe its time ti fund some new friends till be there loss and theyll probally rqret losinq you

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chaos answered Thursday September 23 2004, 9:02 am:
Are they trying to steer you away from a guy who is not good for you? If this is true, then dump him or at least think about what they are saying.
Friends don't make this kind of ultimatium unless they aren't truly friend, or they are severely worried about your welfare. Ask them what their problem is with him.

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russianspy1234 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 2:05 am:
whenever in a situation of choice the person(s) that make you choose are the ones that you ditch.

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bucs10us answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 11:55 pm:
they rnt really ur friends if they make u choose...but i would always choose friends of bf/gf

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s0ur_lem0n answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 10:21 pm:
deffinally ur gerlsz.. guys will come any go until you get married.. but ur gerls will be with you forevah

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ballerina04 answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:46 pm:
you shouldn't have to choose. your friends should be able to understand that you aren't going to ditch them. reassure them of this. tell them you have to spend time with your boyfriend, but it is true: guys don't last forever

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Jane answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:39 pm:
*Always remember this friends last forever, guys don't. If you want to keep both ask your friends why don't they like him. If they decide to leave you...they were never really your 'friends' at all.*

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MissIiVannaH answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:36 pm:
okay who have you known longer.has this boy ever hurt u emotionaly and when u 2 do brake up whos going to be there for giving support.think about those thing but i dont think u should choose because they are all important ppl to you i bet.i hope i helped :)

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sMiLiNALl4U answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:32 pm:
go with the guy you love ...forget them they arent real friends if their makin you choose!

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AdviceMistress answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:31 pm:
if they are ganging up on you they aren't really ur friends so choose the guy!!

*BeSs*

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-wizerwordz- answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:31 pm:
they should understand that you can't just choose one or the other. plan your time so that you can spend time with your friends and your guy. explain that to everyone and if they have a problem with you spending time with someone else also, then they don't have much respect for you or your decisions. talking to everyone should help

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juicyfruit answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:25 pm:
Anyone who makes you choose isn't worthy of being your friend. That's just wrong, they should never make you choose.

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LuCiouzbabii answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:21 pm:
okai well this is happening to one of mii friends too well it happend ta her before but ne wais .. ur friends shoodnt b ganging up on u and maken u choose... thats rong becasue u cant help who u love .. but its alwais chicks before dicks but if u reeli love him talk ta ur friends

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