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Hi my name is Ivanna i'm just 15 but i've gone through alot and i most likely would understand what you go through.So give me a chance and ask wutever u need to because i will most likely get back to you in the next 24 hours.SO smile.
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I've always loved dance and my world basically revolves around it. I dance at my studio that I've been at for about 7 years and I'm on my high school drill team. I'm now a senior in high school and my drill coach has made my love of dance a pain in the ass. She is constantly ridiculing us and telling us how bad we are! And, because of her I've not only dread going to drill practice but dancing at my studio as well. :/


My mom thinks that I'm using my coach being a bitch for an excuse on why I want to quit. Do you think that one person can ruin the thing you love for you? Or is it just me not wanting to dance anymore?
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I think the people make an effect on your choices. Because, if you were around a whole lot of people the love dance and make it so much fun then you want to dance but if your around a person with negative comebacks then you just don't want to put up with it and I understand. Don't let that teacher affect your choice of dancing or not cause when you graduate and goto college she wont be there.
* i hope i helped and answered your question


Is it true that if you crack your knuckles they get bigger? This seems totally fake to me...how can your bones grow because you move them around? (link)
i was told when you crack your knuckes their is a liquid that comes out into your blood and later when you age it does something to you. I'm sorry im not thorough but that's all i know.


so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
That's rape. he was forcing you to do something. you should tell someone fast or any girls that he is also trying to get with that you can sence arn't ready for what he wants. It's a good thing you pushed him off some girls wouldn't have said anything just because they were scared. I suggest you to tell someone like an adult you trust cause it can be very HARD to tell your parents. I hope I helped.


okay i like this guy and hes a freshman n im an 8th grader we tlk on the fone alot! and like ughh...i like him SOOOO much! he says the right things at the right moments! and we get along great! im gonna see him this friday...hopefully but im really shy in person...not on the fone tho...wat do i do?!

...help!
i rate high btw!
13.f (link)
Tell him that you like him just staight out. If he says the right things at the right time it's most likely he trying to impress you. So i think you should go for it.
GOOD LUCK!


I really need some good gift ideas for my boyfriend for christmas, any one have any ideas? he's 14 and my limit is 20$ but mabi a little over:

-he likes(building) models
-video games-final fantasy
-kingdom hearts (link)
Get him a air brushed shirt with hhis name on it and a picture his favorite character in a game or something.


okay so theres this boy that ive been datin for wel over 6 motnhs and i really like him alot.. and well latley theres little things that are startin to annoy me like just little things that get to you after being with a person for a long time.. and wel ive also been having dreams about my X and its starting to make me remember all the times we had.. and how we had alotta fun together and i still and attracted to him but i dont wanna leave my boyfriend now because i dont think that my X will love me as much as my boyfriend now does.. and i dont wanna leave something that might be a really good thing..
please help thanks (link)
Those things that he does that you don't really like after a while you wont even notice or you can even try just letting him know. Don't leave him for your ex because the other is your ex for a reason. That happens alot in relationships so try to keep things going but thinking bout ex's happens ALOT! I hope I helped good luck!


well let's see: i havee ben dating the same person for a little over 2 years.ever sencee like the endd of 6th gradee&&know were in 9th and everything has completletlyy changed. I know i lovee him w/ alll my heartt&&so muchh more..butt he doesntt show anything what soo ever.we dont go out nott and it really hurtss but we might workk thingss out. He sayys he lovess me but i know deep downn he doesnt..&&i cant seem to lett goo..Annd im soo confusedd (link)
You should talk to him about this because if you don't then how does he know he's doing something wrong. If you don't want to tell him then just give him slight hints but not to make him feel like he bad or anything.
GOOD LUCK!


my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here (link)
their is a difference with saying and doing and she is saying i bet she trying to keep you interested but if you want to get some then i suggest you to kiss her in the "weak spot" but don't force her just like your not really trying.
I hope that helps good luck!


I'm trying to get over this one guy that I used to really like, but whenever I try to move on to someone different he keeps on becoming more appealing to me. As if he wont let me forget about him. Should I confront him about how I feel or continue to look for someone new? (link)
Did he do something for you to want to get over him? Other then that try to get with other guys and if tries to talk to you then ignore him because little by little you will end up not likeing him and it will be the other way around. thats how it usually works out well at least with me.


Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then. (link)
if it's not in her own freewill then yea it is considered rape no matter their past relations.


does anyone here actually pay for xanga premium... or know someone who has premium? if so, tell me why you decided to get it.
thanks (link)
I have it and it's no premium but I like it cause I have all the codes for everything don't bother spending on it.
my xanga is urmomsworstnightmare if u need any help or anything.


Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\

Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore (link)
Either she was having a bad day most likely that it or she lost interest.
-SORRY!


I like my best friend more than a friend but don't wanna ruin our friendship. He likes me back tto. What should i do? Risk it or play it safe? (link)
I think you should go out with him and try cause if you two are good friends then breaking up shouldnt really affect you 2's relationship.


13/f

is making out for your first kiss wrong? i got my first kiss from my ex when i was 12 yrs. old, but i still know how perfect it felt. i was just wondering if it's wrong to make out as your first kiss. is it? (link)
i dont tihnk it's wrong cause it's still concidered a kiss. as long as you enjoyed it's all good.


If you had a choice would you get a BMW or Corvette? (link)
BMW it never fail my dad has one and it rides really GREAT!


My bestfriend and her boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now. Problem is: he says he likes me! And I'm kind of into him too! I don't know what to do, thats like my bestfriend. I sure don't want to ruin our friendship but oh my goodness I am really into this boy! (link)
Whatever you do don't make any quick actions. for one think about what is more important a boy that you can have a fling with for a while or a friendship that could possibly last longer. I was in the same place you were before and I was stupid enough to choose him and it DIDNT work out. anyways if you get with him wut makes u think he wont do what he is doing to your bestfriends to you.


I just made a new friend from volleyball at school, my best friend is jealous because now i also hang out with my new friend. she says i ignore her but never do...sometime it feels like she's the one ignoring me like shes mad at me. We even had a fight just yesterday but i dont think the problem is solved because she still acts different around me.

Its like She can have other friends but i cant


I rate (link)
Have you tried letting her know how you feel without making her feel like she's the one in the wrong? Let her know how you feel and when yall talk try to not argue just talk things out and if she has something to say then to do it cause if she holding anything back then nothing will be resolved.


ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!! (link)
I think you should stay with the first girl cause she had to deal with a couple issues but now that she's comming around give her the chance to regain what yall had before.You have liked her much longer then the other girl.If you see things not going well for about another week then just see whats up with the other girl.Good Luck!


my mom wont let me see my boyfriend at all. he doesnt have a computer so i cant e-mail him or IM him. and my mom has total control over the phone. i havent been on a date with him at all! ever!! and i've been going out with him for about a month and a half. i wont see him in school because we're in different parts. i miss him so much and i love him so much. what should i do? heeelllppp!!
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Why don't you go to your friends house and tell her your situation thenask her if you can give him a call.Then set up meeting somewhere and tell your mom you will be with your friends without giving her any reason to think your going to see your bf.If that doesn't work then just ask her plain in simple. Good Luck!


my brother is a troble maker last year teachers got me in trouble for something i didnt do all the teachers treat me the way they treat my bro im not like him i look diffrent and im my own person but they dont belive that i dont know what to do should i stand up for my self but then maybe get in trouble i dont want that happen im not a trouble maker and i want to show peope that i have a totaly diffrent meaning in life
i dont know what to do
help me please (link)
why don't you just not mention he's your brother and if it comes up one day just let them know not making a big deal about it or anything. You might get lucky and get different teachers but if the teachers do start picking on you and so on let them know after class one day your not like your brother. Good Luck!




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