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My friends Dad died last year and today its fathers day and she called me crying and stuff..what do i do? its her first fathers day without her dad! I feel SOO bad. Shes not my best friend, but still a girl i know very well. Please help. ='(

OKAy well if u kinda want her to feel better i say you ask your parents if she could like hang with you and your dad for fathers day. I dunno but she need a father figure im guessing. If she doesnt want to come dont insist she probably wants time alone. Okay well i hope i helped!!

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How do I let a guy know I want to kiss him? What kind of signs should I give him? And how do I approach this whole thing? Please give me any other advice or suggestions because im going for my first kiss soon!

You should probably hug him more and let him know how you feel bout him and just kinda aproach him in a way that yo want to kiss him!! Well you dont wanna just go for it!! So you kida just gotta make sure!! :)

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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f

OMG dont even concider going back out with him!!! iF HE hits you once then he will probably do it again. No man or boy has the right to put his hands on you. You should definently move on he may say he loves you and look sorry. But actions speak louder then words. okay well i hope i helped!!!

,always Erica

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i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?

all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly.

Stay you because thats how she likes you or else she wouldnt be w/ u should have to change or do something different to keep her if u have her!!
=)

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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???

i dont think you should have sex with him. 1 reason is your questioning weather you should or shouldnt. it doesnt seem like your ready take it slow,infact see if he's ready. wutevr you do is your business but personally i dont think you should.

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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~

OK dont worry 4 now!! even though u shouldnt be having sex its okay!! But i mean i dont think u should kill the child!! Dont let ur parents no unless your 4 sure that your pregnant!! Well i guess u could say ur bf is taking this really well because he hasnt dumped u or nothing!! But if you are going to have a baby please be responsible!!!~*~ :)- be happy dont stress over it

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Okay, theres this chickk that goes to my school. I was haveing such a good day cuz I got my hair cut and I got stuff to scrunch my hair, and I thought I looked soo nice. EVERYBODY was complimenting me, and I've never got any compliments from any of these, like my best friend amanda told me i looked pretty, and I've never been told that i was pretty before so it was really cool. But this one chick, shes supposed to be one of my best friends, says I look really bad, and I'm trying to looklike one of my other best friends named Justine, But i wasn't, because Justine doesn't even scrunch her hair! And my belt had broken that day and It wasn't cuz of me, it was because I wore it like everyday and it was fallen apart, it was my favorite belt, and I like put pins in it so it wouldn't break anymore, and then of course I said. "look at my belt" in front of her, and she said "That's what happens when your fat" and I'm like "Dude your mean" and shes like "Truth Hurts", I dunno, she was never mean before, Do you think she was just mad that everybody was complimenting me and not her??

I rate high..!

1st of all what school do u go to cuz i have a freind Justine who like got a hair cut this year. KIT!!!! ok well like u shouldnt care what n e one thinks of u . cuz u probably r a much better person then JUStine will ever be so dont worry ok. and if some1 called u pretty its because u r, so dont let some wanna be get in your way to beauty success and happiness!!!!!!! well KIT!!!

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I used to have 2 best friends. Arina** nd Stacie** (** names have been changed) and I know 3 is a tricky number to work with when it comes to friends. So one night me and stacie were texting each other and shes like "i got a bf" and I say, "really, who?" "tyler" then I say, "wuts his last name?" "i dunno" then I say "and let me guess...u never met him before?" and she got all offended and called me a bitch when I was just kidding, cuz she went out with this guy tht lives in P.A and never met him before. So we stared fighting over the text messaging bickering back and forth. And we haven't been friends since June. And I don't think we ever will be again. But the sad part is my (favorite) other best friend, arina, turned against me for some reason and I think its because stacie is tellin her a bunch a trash about me. So me and Arina stopped talking to me and I really want to talk to her and ask her why shes mad at me. Its so painful it makes me cry. We were like the bestest friends. I was more close with arina than anyone. We shared such good times. I just don't know what to do cuz one day arina stared giving me the silent treatment without telling me why. So she just left me in the dark. I do not know how to solve my problem at all. Can you help me? I miss arina! :`(

i think you should write arina a letter. and i guess apologize to stacie. girl dont worry youll get your friend back, so just be you. get a friend to tell them or like i said write a letter. if she is a true friend she would come talk to you and explain at least. well if you need more advice remember HeyErica ok take care!! BYE BYE good luck!!!!!

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hi sweetie!:) sep 3rd is my bfs 17th birthday and our 6 month ann. any ideas for gifts?

x0x-dani

maybe a watch ,colone ,clothes a ,love ring take him out somewhere romanic and tell him how much you love him!!! (good luck)

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Ok so im going out with this guy... lets call him Aaron. And well idk i really like him but im not sure if he likes me at all. He always hangs out with this group of girls and they all r nice to me but 1. And thats fine with me cuz i dont like her either but anyways... im not sure if he likes me . but i hav another problem. His bestfriend um... lets say Bob. likes me he is my Ex. and so like everytime he sees me or talks to me online he is like "hey Sexy" and im mean is that bad. Him and my boyfriend are like bestfriends. and i kno "aaron" is gonna get mad.
but the thing is i kinda like "bob" too. idk wut to do im so confused. help
-I rate

Well lettes call u anna/ your going out with Arron huh i think u should go with bob cuz he's actually there for u

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my boyfriend and i have been datin for 3 weeks and my mom still doesnt kno(she doesnt care i have a boyfriend but doesnt want me to have one ...shes odd).my boyfriend hates hidin things from people and wants me to tell her but im just not ready to tell her yet. i honestly want to but i dont know how to come out and say it

Well i think you need to tell your bf how she is and y u have to hide he should understand. If my mom i had which i dont at the tyme but if i did and she found out that would be my ass. SO i suggest u explain to your boy friend why u cant.
KIT- AOL- crazyprincesse27 yahoo- pinkprincess542000 (hope i helped)

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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it.

Well i just wana let you know that no matter wut even if u dont know me i will be here for u even though im a stranger talk to your cousin tell her how and wut u feel if you parents dont understand dont worry cuz mines dont either. sORRY BUT U SHOULDNT FEEL GUILTYV EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. YOU KNOW ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. LOOK U WANT ME TO TELL WHAT HAPPENED TO ME. WELL MY GOOD FRIEND I CALLED HER MY COUSIN SHE WENT WITH ONE OF HER HOME-BOYS IN A CAR TO DROP HER HOME. WHEN SHE WAS GETTING IN THE CAR I TOLD HER DONT GO CUZ HE MIGHT RAPE YOU AT THE TIME HE WAS DRUNCK AND HIGH BUT SHE WENT AND FROM THERE YOU KNOW WUT HAPPENED. (GOT RAPED) mY FRIEND MADE ME FEEL GUILTY SAYING U PROBABLY GAVE HIM THE IDEA IT MADE ME FEEL USELESS FOR WEEKS. UNTIL SHE FOUND OUT HOW I WAS FEELING AND MADE ME FEEL ALOT BETTER
I HOPE I HELPED. kit-IM ME AT AOL- crazyprincesse27 or yahoo pinkprincess542000

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if a girl that u like is mad at you what should you do

APOLIGIZE given tyme she'll no how sorry you are or tell her u like her maybe that will make it better y is she mad at you to begin with?
GOOD luck write back

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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?

Well person it sounds to me that your going through wut my sister is goin through she just broke up with her boyfriend Duy cause she found out she liked her best-friend omar she says she doesnt wanna hurt Duy but i know that she is hurting him not being with him. Its sad i always said something negaive about him. But it just turns out that i just want them to be together. Personally omar understands wut ivanna goes through and duy just insists that he love heryou guys dont no wu tlove is and if u do it stabs you in the back. i still think she should go with Duy. but she choose omar oh well. well hopefully she make up her mind cause its so confusing and tyering. i Now wish omar and ivanna the best. Sorry Duy u may or may not understand but only ivanna now's. So all i have to say is just be friends just dont mess up yalls relationship cause its hurting ivanna.

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umm this guy asked me on a date a couple weeks ago but it was like well since we like eachother we should hang out some time and i was like yea and then he was like well i hafta go but i'll ttyl about hookin up and i was like ok . .nd i was like really happy n stuff but he hasnt said anything about it nd like i dont kno if he still likes me bcuz i always have to i.m him and then he'll talk n stuff but like i dont kno it seems like he doesnt and all my friends say to just ask him to the movies or sumthing cuz i realli wanna kno if he still likes me but on the othher hand i really dont wanna get rejected cuz i like thys one a lott . .i need help
-iCEd lAttE x0x

Hey gurl this is HeyErica to me it sounds like he's being a little bitch. He should talk to you call you IM you if he doesnt he's not worth it become friends with the other guy get to no him them get involved if he likes you like that. Just dont keep insisting move on you know for a fact you could do better. My brother is going out with this gurl and she calls and he's like can you call me back that bastard i hate it when he does that cuz she really cares for him. So KIT you can IM on yahoo pinkprincess542000 or on AOL at crazyprincesse27 Hopefully i hepled bye bye

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ok see all the girlz are lie acting like bitches to me and im so sick of it like 1 point there att my house then the next day the acting like there all that and like i deont no there just mean so help!

Well dont get in a fight first of all. its not worth it i no its kinda adult stuff to say that but if there is lets say lucky guess i dunno but lets say 4 of them and 1 of you who no's wut will happen. I personally think you need to go out and be friends with someone who's not going to use you cuz it sounds to me like they are using you. you no other people. if one in particular is bothering you like picking on you tell her "look bich i aint done nothing to you now leave me the hell alone." And if you cant do that just ignore them. orry if you dont like my advice but im trying to help you out. KIT tell me how it works out KIT here is my yahooIM pinkprincess542000 and my Aol crazyprincesse27 (just copy and paste if u need more advice HeyErica you remember BYE BYE

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ok thers this girl i like alot but i dont think she likes me and she makes me so horney and stuff but i dont know wut 2 do \.. i like need a hormone pill or something! plz help me! im scared. its fucked up. well if u need age were 12 in 7th grade

She makes you horney? okay by the way do u attened albright? okay here is Erica's advice you need to walk up to her and ask her out if she rejects you thats her loss am i right or am i right. And if your to shy just write her a note/letter saying how you feel about her just leave the horney part out. okay dont worry. If she is your friend she will probably wanna stay friends you know how sometime they dont wanna ruin the relationship or anything. But if she's available go for it. KIT your new friend erica who wants to help.oh by the way here is my aol crazyprincesse27 or yahoo pinkprincess542000 let me no how everything goes i must know

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Im not going to give any introductins.Its he proposed me first.I accepted it after a long time.
I reaaly beagn to love him.One day he told me that he and his friends met a girl,and its he who finally could impress the girl.I was a little bit upset .but never let him know about it.then at another occasion we were both surfing the net.then this girl came online.he bagan to chat with her.but afterwards he tried to make believe that girl that he is not having any girlfriends.i was near to him.he said sorry to me and continued the conversation.i beacme more upset when she began to divert the talks to her personnel matters.he was enjoying that.i was confused of what i shall do at that moment.when i was at home he called me.i could not control myself and i start quarreling with him.he never said anything harsh to me and said sorry.i accepted it.then after somedays he told me that that girl is trying to contact him and he talked with her.i did not say anything.the one day he got her call and he wa talking to her as if im not there.one day i took leave for him,and on that day he told she will be coming to see him and said she just want to see him only once.i became angry and he told he wont meet her.when her message came,he switched off the cell.i was watching him.then after some time he again switched on the cell.but there was some problem with that.so he took mine changed the sim cards and after some time got her message.i did not say anything we went to the location,her father was with her .they were there for some shopping.there they were trying to talk to each other and i was standing there like ..i dont know what to say..i was getting more confused.he took ten minutes over there eventhough he said he will just wait there for only one or two minutes so that she can have a look at her.he said she is so possessive on her and he is feeling sympothy on her
then he told he is having a fear towars her coz she is this much possessive that one day she told him that she will not allow any other girls near him.i really got shatered.when we were coming back he was trying to see her in all possible ways when i asked that he told im just trying to imagine of the things which never happened i could not accept it coz he was saying that what i saw was not real.i decided to break this relation then he became vary sentimental and told me he cant live without me.he had promised me that he will remove her name from the messenger.but then he added her number in the cell directory.when i asked for the reason he told he just wanted to know from where the call is coming then i asked and what did he do after knowing that he had no answer ans said sory to me.because he had already talke dwith her for more than three times.i know his password which has been given by him.one day when i opened his mail i came to know that he replied to her mail.when i asked he objected it.then i said i have checked ur mail box.then he told he lied to me coz he never want to hurt me.now i dont know whether she is contacting him.but i always having a feeling that still now they are contacting to each other.i dont know what to do.his parents will coming to my home soon with the proposal.i love him but i dont know whats his feelings towards me.he says im his life.what shall i do?..my mind is always getting disturbed ...

you should break up with him. he's probably using you. I cant believe he did that gurl go out and look for some one who actually cares about you.,

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my best friend always talks to my mom on the comp it drives me so insane! bcuz i dont want my mom knoing about EVERY single fricken thing thats going on in my life i tryed telling her to stop but it doesnt work and i told my mom 2 stop and she wont wut the hell should i do? im miserable Answer ASAP

Well if your friend wuz a good friend she would'nt tell ur mom your biz-niz. Or jsut talk to one of your moms friend!! just playin. Just explain to her how you feel.

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im sooo bored and all my friends r goin 2 the creek to drink but im affraid 2 go cause last time i got in a fight wit this kid n i was drunk i couldnt defend myself n my friends just stood there n watched n i lost my $300 cell phone n my zippo! but i wanna go out so bad n this girls goin that i like and idk wut 2 do cause every1 there is from north n im from central so if i get in a fight every1 will be against me so idk wut to dooo no1 else can hang out cause donald n adam have work n every1 else is goin got gabbys party which i wasnt invited to ahh

Well i think that you should ask her (that girl) out some other time so you wont do anything stupid. And if they were good friends they would stick by you. Find something to do go to a friends house or something.

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