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my boyfriend and i have been datin for 3 weeks and my mom still doesnt kno(she doesnt care i have a boyfriend but doesnt want me to have one ...shes odd).my boyfriend hates hidin things from people and wants me to tell her but im just not ready to tell her yet. i honestly want to but i dont know how to come out and say it
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if u are that worried about her finding out then just start having him come over to hang out if u dont already. that way she gets to know him as your friend and trusts him. just wait for her to ask u! and when she does then tell her. even though she may not be comfortable with u having a bf she will understand that its a part of growing up and will except it with a little bit of time.
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Just ask heR if he can come oveR foR dinneR tomoRRow [I used "tomoRRow" as an example. Just say some date when you know she will be cooking and theRe will be plenty of extRa to spaRe, ya know]. If she's anything like MY paRents.. they'll ask, "Is this guy some kind of a boyfRiend?" And just flat out answeR with a solid, "Yes". If she has any complaints about the two of you dating, tell heR you'Re not a child anymoRe, you can handle a Relationship, people live and leaRn, and this is only a meRe step in life. I'm shoRe she'll undeRstand; she's been theRe, done that! And I know you two don't want to keep this a secRet and lie... but peRhaps it wouldn't be a bad idea to tell heR he's only a fRiend.. at least foR a while. Then she can get to know him oveR dinneR, and it will stop the unfaiR judgement. You can do it; I have faith in you!!! I've taught you well, Young GRasshoppeR!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!!
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randomly start talking to her one day and ask her what she would do if u had a bf and then tell ur u like someone and he likes u bak.. then a week later tell her that he asked u out and u guys go out.. thats a warm up
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Talk to your mom at a time when both of you are at home. Tell her that you think you are ready to have a boyfriend and that she should trust you.
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ok well u dont actually have to tellher the compleat truth like u go like this ok u go up to ur mom and say mom is it ok if i have a bf bc i like this guy and he likes me and he asked me out and i told him i had to ask my mom first and he said ok i will wait for ur answer see say sumthin corny like that moms love that stuff and just pretend like its ur first date or sumthin hope this helps
~*HAM*~
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mayb u should just be like yeah i have a boyfriend just tell her the truth n if she doesnt let you be like mom this is wat i want dont lie to her just tell her the truth its way better then lying cuz u never know how its gonna turn out if u lie...good luck
x0 MisTy 0x
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just be like, mom i like this guy and he likes me too so were going out together and he thoguht it was important for me to tell you.
she probably wont get upset over that.!!
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Well i think you need to tell your bf how she is and y u have to hide he should understand. If my mom i had which i dont at the tyme but if i did and she found out that would be my ass. SO i suggest u explain to your boy friend why u cant.
KIT- AOL- crazyprincesse27 yahoo- pinkprincess542000 (hope i helped)
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I think you just just be like "Mom can I talk to you?" and then be like "Well I know you don't want me to have a boyfriend..but I really like this guy and I wanted to tell you about him" and name nice things about him, tell her you really like him and you would wish her for blessing. Need anything else just drop it in the inbox
<3 Becca
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