hey im misty n i am good at givin advice but i dont give it often n my best friend is BROOOOOOKE n shes the besttt!!!i dont have a picture so ill tell u what i look like i have dirty blonde hair hazel eyes n thats all i can really say i dont have braces or ne thing n im kinda short but not really well byeee...
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I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...
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its great how your open to your family about some of your social life You should tell them that Kevin has realized what he's done to you before and he never wants to do that to you again and that he swears he'll change tell your family how happy it would make you to be with him..juss tell the truth n ull be okayy!
good luckk!!
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hey i have a promblem you see i really like this boy but he doesnt like me bac well im not sure if he does but im to afraid to ask nd all i do is think bout him what do you think i should do
ox confused little one xo (link)
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hey "confused little one" i think that if you really like the boy and ur not sure if he likes you back that you should just tell him how u feel and see how he reacts if its bad then he isnt worth it but make sure u watch how u say it so u dont regret it in the future...just tell him how u feel n if he likes you GO FOR IT!! thanks hun!! i hope i helped
tell me how it goes!
x0 MisTy 0x
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ok,i have been friends with this girls senice school!!we did everything together...and know it just seems like she dont even thing im alive like we were never friends.and it stinks..i really hope u can give me some advice soo i can try to be like best friends with her again.... (link)
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if this is the same person from b4 then u should juss do what i told u b4 just try to talk to her more n hang out wit her more n call her n stuff theres nothing more i can say juss follow ur heart good luck hope i helped!
rate mee!
x0 MisTy 0x
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My friend use to tell me soo many things! but know its like she never tells me nothing anymore and i dont know why..we use to be like the bestest friends ever!!and i really wish things could be like it use to be before!i wish we could be like best friend again..but now she has this other girl that she tells everything to! (link)
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u should start telling her things and try to hang out with her ALOT more i know how you feel i think my other bestfriend is like too good for me...but juss try to hang out wit her more n tell her stuff n mayb she will tell you more stuff n u will become best friends more!!
hope i helpedd good luck tell me how it turns out!!
x0 MisTy 0x
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i reeally wanna be friends with these 2 girls but they like hate me i think what should i do (link)
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just tell them how you feel dont sweat it if they dont like you even when you tell them how you feel it synt worth the hastle...well im juss sayin tell the truth n do what u think is bestt..good luck!
hope i helppedd!!
x0 MisTy 0x
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my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him? (link)
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thats wicked immature of him to do something like that..but i think u should just do what ur heart tells u..good luck babe i hope i helped!!
tell me how it goes!
x0 MisTy 0x
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I told my bf that i had a crush on his bff and he was upset but didn't want to get real mad even though he was and all he did was try to make me happy and do wut was the best for me and we r still togeather but i feel really bad because he's being so understanding and im being a real BITCH for me feeling but it's really hard to not like his bff because he is the only one that has ever reallr understood me and i can talk to him 4ever and not ever get tired but now my bf is all upset and he still wants to be with me but i dont want to hurt him so i dunno if i should just brake up with him or stay in the relationship and hope that everything ends 4 the best.oh and im 14 and me and my bf have been going out 4 4 months and his bff has been my friend 4 2years.PLZ HELP (link)
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i know how u feel..but i dont think its fair for ur bf to go threw all the pain if u like his bff so mayb u should ask ur bf if u could ask his bff out...its only fair well good luck n i hope i helped!
tell me how it turns out!
x0 MisTy 0x
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Hey i had this problem with this girl and i think i want to be friends with her but i said alot of bad stuff to her and she said alot of bad stuff about me and i dont think she will want me back and i dont kno if i want to her bac and she was a really good friend and she was always there for me.... i dont kno what to say to her and how to say it to her ..... also if i become friends with her i might loose some friends.... but i really want her to be my friend again.... what do i say to her ..... (link)
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well if ur other friends are gonna be mad at u then they arent true friends for 1 the second thing is if that friend is gonna hate u after a few bad things you guys said to each other then she isnt worth it at all u should just tell her the truth..and if she becomes ur friend n ppl hate you for it then those other ppl arent worth it because u have the right to be friends with who ever u want! well i say u just tell her how u feel n go for it!! go wit ur heart girl..good luckk!
tell me how it turns out!!
hope i helped!!
x0 MisTy 0x
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wow you suck at giving advice (link)
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how do i suck at giving advice?? what advice did i give u
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ok, i liked this guy from school a little, and we really hit it off. We started talking over the internet, and since the hurrican ive been talking to him for a week. Its kinda hard talking to him, but today he told me he loved me. it totally freaked me out!then he said he was just kidding and that he was srry. Of course i told him he needed a life and a girlfriend. But he stared telling me that he was really sorry and sending me these internet flowers. They were soooo beutifull! But, i really cant give my heart to him, how can i tell him that we should be friends and that he should stop being so really sweet to me, even though i like it? And how do i tell my friend about thid last conversation? I think she might like him...I see big problems in the future!
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i think that you should just tell him ... i dont see you as a boifriend i only see you more as a friend..i like the sweet things that you say just its a lil weird that you are saying this wen were only friends..n if your friend likes him tell her that u have a feeling he likes you .. n tell her to talk to him .. nd get him to like her... it could happen ..
good luck i hope i helped ...
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I had sex with my boyfriend about a month ago.. and since then my periods have been messed up. I got one at the beginning of July.. then I had sex.. and got it again in mid-july. Then.. I got it again today.. Is it nomal for ur period to be all outta wack after u have sex? or is something wrong?
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noting is wrong ur prefectly normal i mean having sex is a part of ur everyday life soo good luck n hope i helpedd babe!
x0 MisTy 0x
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I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will? (link)
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i know how it feels to be in love but babe thats just not safe i mean i met this guy online but we met n person n everythings goin great we are almost goin out but i dont think its the same cuz he lives the next town over soo..babe i wouldnt talk to him anymore mayb u should tell him how u feel..it may hurt for a while but it wont last 4 ever...good luck tell me how it turns out!
x0 MisTy 0x
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my boyfriend and i have been datin for 3 weeks and my mom still doesnt kno(she doesnt care i have a boyfriend but doesnt want me to have one ...shes odd).my boyfriend hates hidin things from people and wants me to tell her but im just not ready to tell her yet. i honestly want to but i dont know how to come out and say it
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mayb u should just be like yeah i have a boyfriend just tell her the truth n if she doesnt let you be like mom this is wat i want dont lie to her just tell her the truth its way better then lying cuz u never know how its gonna turn out if u lie...good luck
x0 MisTy 0x
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my friend told me somethin....but its not a secret unless she tells me not to say nething. so she told me that she had sex and is afraid of gettin pregnant(she neva said it was a secret and shes done worse stuff wit a guy that shes proud of) so i told her boyfriend,kory's best friend Amy exactly what my friend said to me........now amy told kory that im goin around tellin everyone that they had sex witout a condom....my friend is pissed at me bc she thinks i told EVERYBODY EVERYTHING..now she wont let me tell her the truth and she told me neva to talk to her again.......shes my best friend and i luv her but how can i say sry and tell her the truth when she wont talk to me? (link)
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mayb u should juss say to her that she doesnt hafta talk back and u dont hafta listen n juss tell her how u feel exactly how u feel n explain to her how she didnt say not to tell anyone...just tell the truth and hopefully she will understand hope i helped!! tell me how it comes out!!
x0 MisTy 0x
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when i was really little, like 4 or so, my babysitters son sat me on his lap and showed me his thing. he told me to touch it and when white stuff started to come out he wanted me to clean it. then he told me to leave his room. well me being young i did what he told me. i didnt kno it was wrong. then i told my mom and she was like dont say anything to anyone. and she didnt do anything about it! i am now gonna turn 14 in october and it has been bugging me since then. it hurts that my mom let me stay there till i was 9! nuthing else ever happened but i mean still. wut could i do to take my mind off of it? i am really happy now and stuff but when i stop and think it just pops in my head and thats the only thing that really stands out in my memoery. i remember it like it was yesterday. (link)
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you should defidently talk to ur mom about discussing it with the kids mom or something i mean if its bothering u that much u should totally do something about i mean..woww..well juss keep it in mind to talk to ppl about it..hope i helpedd
tell me how it goes!
x0 MisTy 0x
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i have a boyfriend kevin but i want another guy named mike and kevin is like the hottest guy alotta ppl like him n mike is just soo much nicer n there is a less chance of him hurtin ur feelings becvause kevin is the kinda guy who would cheat on you and has already done alotta things that i dont know if im into yet...but lately i have been talking to mike alot and hanging out with him when im goin out wit kevin n i have NO IDEA what to doo....because alot of girls would be lucky to have kevin and i think i have alot more feelings for mike ... what should i doo?? (link)
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you should totally go for mike girllll!!!! i know exactly how u feeeeell!!!
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this is a continuation to my question from earlier about the boyfriend doing the new things in bed.
well i asked him where they came from and he told me that we needed to try new things. alot of people told me he may or may not be cheating. like i said im just suspicious becuase we havent had sex in a while, and then all of a sudden we do and its all this crazy wild shit. i'm not saying that i didnt like it... its just strange. strange since we havnt done it in a while, and also cuz he didnt even like discuss these new techniques with me, he just went about them. and of course i went with them cuz they werent bad ideas and all. also, i am pregnant, so like my sex drive is always down, and his is always up. i read that this is very normal, like there is just something that turns guys on about thier woman being pregnant, and there is something that turns woman off about being pregnant, i guess cuz we get all fat. but yeah, because of my low sex drive, i kinda have been pushing him away. could there also be a possibility that he just gave me some space to wait for me to want to do it again? or maybe he got self consious, and was thinking he wasnt that good anymore and wanted to find some new techniques for us to do to make things better? i dont know, but i am like really beating myself up wondering where he got them from. what i really need is a guys oppinion. and if there may be any girls who have experienced this sort of situation that would be good too. (link)
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i responded earlier but i think u should tell him how u feel and ask him where he got the ideas from i mean if it isnt his kid mayb he is trying to proove that hes better then the father...just plz confront him about it and ask him where he got the ideas from but dont say say anything about u asuming that he is cheating on u because he mite get defensive about it..well i hope i helped good luck hun i wish u the best of luckk...
IM me if u need anything on my AIM sn on my advice column!!
0x MisTy 0x
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I'm 17 years old and I was friends with my boyfriends sister before I started going out with my boyfriend. I never really hung out with her that much or anything and I got to know her brother through parties. Blah blah blah. We have been together 9 months and now she is saying things infront of my friends that arent true. Such as last night infront of my friends she said "My Mom said your ditzy" I got so embarassed so I said something to my boyfriend like how I dont want to be at his house when his mom is there because I feel like an idiot because I haven't gotten to know her too well she works a lot. My boyfriend got mad and said his mom woudl never say that and calle dhis mom and she denys it and he called hsi sister flipping out and she is saying that it was said. I dont know what to do because I feel like I caused a whole big problem and I feel like I can;'t show my face at the hosue because one of them is lying and its embarassing and everything. Any suggestings?? (link)
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you should just tell them all how u feel...and i know it will be embarrassing but u will get threw it n it wont last for ever..one of them is lying...and mayb the sister is juss doing that for attention u never know she mite think ur taking her brother from her and she is trying to make ur life hell..u never know there are tons of different possibilitys just believe whats in ur heartt...
good luck hun!
hope i helpped!!
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x0 MisTy 0x
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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up? (link)
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well u should mostly talk to her about it and figure out what makes her like him its gonna feel wierd n it mite hurt but its normal to feel that way and urrite u cant force her too be wit u..mayb u should talk to ur bestfriend about it too..ask him how he feels about it n if he likes her back if they like each other mayb they should go out but it would hurt alot but babe its normal the pain wont last forever...
hope i helped!
good luck hun!
x0 MisTy 0x
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
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omg u TOTALLY did the rite thing girl im proud of u i know u still love him but u totally need to move on i mean reallyyy...if he beat u it should have ended way b4 u started going out..plz dont go back out with him it would only get worse and worse if u did u mite even get killed i mean its normal to still love him..but ur gonna get threw it babe well i hope i helpedd!! good luck hun!
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